Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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Zeng Guofan once said such a sentence: Evil looks at the eyes and nose, truth and falsehood look at the lips, and wealth looks at the spirit.
What kind of characteristics a person has, what kind of past, what kind of life can be seen from the face.
Some people are born to be appreciated by nobles, and there will be many people who are willing to get close to him and help him on the road of life.
This kind of person is a person with noble popularity, in fact, ordinary people can cultivate this kind of quality of their own as long as they do the following two things.
Maintain a high energy state and always be radiant
The first impression of a person is very important, and it can even be said that when interacting with someone, the first impression determines 50% of the degree of favorability.
If the first impression is good, you can get along no matter what.
But if the first impression is not good, you may still be ordinary friends even though you have been together for a long time.
That's why it's important to make a first impression.
Energetic and radiant people tend to come across as positive, confident, and energetic.
This temperament and attitude can easily attract people around you, including nobles.
Such a person will make people feel that his energy is very high, and being close to him can infect him and make him positive and sunny.
At work, I met such a person, she is a cosmetics counter salesperson, and she has only been in the industry for three or four years.
But she has improved much faster than the people around her, and now she is the vice president of the region.
Some people say that she has achieved such an achievement through some informal means, and I want to say that her vision is really too low.
This girl, he knows that he is engaged in a fashion-related industry, so she maintains exquisite makeup all the time, professional status, and a sense of dedication.
Such a person will make people feel very trustworthy, and whenever you ask her a question, he will be the first to reply to others.
It's hard not to like such a person, and all your hard work will pay off for you one day.
The essence of making money is trading, and the essence of trading is to have sufficient trust.
Only people who know how to manage a sense of trust can live with more social value and more people can help.
A high-energy state can be trusted by others, and at the same time, it can make you charismatic and make others happy to engage with you.
Therefore, in work and life, we should focus on cultivating a positive and energetic attitude, so as to better attract the attention and appreciation of nobles.
Keep a kind smile and always be kind to others
Have you noticed that smiles are contagious as if they have magical powers?
When you smile at someone, they probably smile at you too.
When you laugh at Haha, other people's emotions will also be driven by you.
A kind and friendly smile can leave a very good feeling on others, after all, in today's interpersonal interactions, many people have forgotten how to smile sincerely.
In this way, it will appear that the smile is precious, and a kind smile can increase the affinity in interpersonal communication.
A smile makes a person feel warmer and kinder than an indifferent or unfriendly expression, and it is also easier to gain the favor and favor of others.
But it is important to emphasize that the smile should be sincere and natural.
If it's just a hypocritical smile, it's just a superficial effort, it's counterproductive.
What people are most afraid of is thinking that they are smart, and when their hearts are not kind and open, their smiles will change and exude a cold atmosphere.
I often hear such a sentence: They are all foxes for thousands of years, who can play and chat in front of whom.
Yes, people don't take themselves too seriously, think that they are very smart, after all, no matter what level you are, there will always be people who surpass you, and there will always be people who look at you like a three-year-old child.
Therefore, an open smile in our hearts and kindness to others is what we really need to do.
In life, a sincere smile can bring many benefits, not only to improve the effectiveness of interpersonal communication, but also to bring more joy and happiness.
Therefore, we should pay attention to exercising our smile muscles in our daily life, maintain a natural smile, and make ourselves and others more pleasant and comfortable.
In fact, in life, as long as you do a little bit in the details, you can win more people's love.
If you want to have more noble popularity, you must work hard enough and be diligent enough.
When you are good enough, the charm you exude will also attract nobles.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.