Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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In the past, when I was young, I often heard people say that this child is good and will definitely be able to make a difference in the future.
This kind of statement sounds like a meaningless compliment, and it doesn't make people pay much attention.
But as you get older, you will find that you do have certain "characteristics".
Life is destined to be extraordinary, and such a person is destined to make a career.
As the saying goes: people with destiny are different from ordinary people, and people who can change their fate have these characteristics, and they will be rich and noble in their later years.
Don't waste energy on small things
As the saying goes: close your eyes and nourish your mind, keep your mouth silent, and nourish your spirit with less desire.
Only those who know how not to waste their energy can put more energy into important things.
People who can really achieve big things are different from most people, they don't bother about small things.
This can also be said to be a manifestation of the big picture, the general is in a hurry, not chasing the hare.
Some people always care too much about a lot of things, and they like to grasp the big and small things by themselves, and they want to understand everything no matter what.
It is because I know too much and care too much that I will let myself fall into poverty and let my mind be disordered.
Don't spend too much energy on inconsequential things, or you'll feel tired every day and still feel like you're not doing anything.
Life has a lot of problems waiting to be solved every day. Human energy is limited, so we need to learn how to block out the little things that don't help us.
Some time ago, a lot of people said that mental internal friction, why is there mental internal friction?It is precisely because my heart is too complicated and I think too many things.
Imagine that you want to run, but you haven't gone out for a long time, you have been thinking about what you should wear, what you should run, how you should be, the more you think about it, the more you think about it, and in the end the time is wasted, and the most important purpose is not achieved.
Action is the antidote to inner conflicts. When you are confused, use actions to find answers.
Many things are full of problems when you think about them, but you can only find solutions by doing them.
When you focus on action rather than hesitating, there is no longer a feeling of mental exhaustion because you find that doing will be more useful to you than you want to do.
People who are truly able to change their fate are always able to get to the point and not waste time on things that don't matter.
Know how to break down goals
I have met a noble man before, but unfortunately I was too young to understand what this noble man meant.
He asked me what he thought would be easier to change his fate.
I told him my idea, and he started asking me how I was going to get it done, and I said a lot of it, but it all seemed unrealistic now.
Because it's always too easy to zoom in on the beginning and the end, but rarely describe the process in between.
But in fact, to do anything, you need to zoom in on the middle process, and only then will the beginning and end come naturally.
Why is it that there is not much difference in IQ level and physical fitness of each of us, but there is such a big difference in life.
Persistence is also an important factor, some people feel that they don't fit in after doing one-tenth of it, and some people start to turn the gun head halfway through.
Some people do nine-tenths of the way and get close to the door, only to stop at the end.
In whatever you do, there are always a few who can persevere.
People who can really succeed will break down their goals for themselves, set phased successes, and let themselves have unlimited motivation to complete their ideas.
Xi non-stop
The more cognitive people are, the more they understand the importance of learning Xi.
Because the world is constantly moving, everyone's life is constantly moving forward, and you never know if your core competencies will be eliminated in the future.
Only by staying Xi and keeping a keen sense of insight can you get what you want in this world.
Yang Tianzhen once said: I am a very ordinary person, with ordinary appearance, ordinary family, and ordinary intelligence, but I did take the initiative in every environment I experienced.
Take the initiative to grasp every possibility of creating opportunities, and actively continue to Xi.
In many places we can see Yang Tianzhen, who is always trying different fields and different jobs.
Many people only see his success, but they don't see the time and energy he has put into these causes behind the scenes.
Opportunities don't fall from the sky, everyone should actively look for opportunities.
In today's era of rapid information development, continuous learning Xi will keep you up to date.
If you read a little more and know a little more than others, your chances of getting a chance are slightly higher.
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.