In today's society, it is not uncommon for characters like Xiaosan Ling Ling to attract other people's husbands or boyfriends with their weak and helpless appearances, but in fact they are third parties who destroy other people's families. However, as the finale of "The First Half of My Life" reveals, the failure of juniors like Ling Ling is not accidental, and their actions doom their lives to be full of frustration and pain.
Let's review Ling Ling's role.
Ling Ling is a seemingly weak woman who needs protection, and she is good at using her appearance and pretending grievances to win the sympathy and care of others.
She seems helpless, but she is extremely possessive and ambitious.
What she wants is not only someone else's feelings, but also someone else's wealth and status.
However, it was this greed for wealth and status that made her lose everything she had before.
In the finale of "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng finally mustered up the courage to ask Luo Zijun if he was in love with He Han.
Luo Zijun replied frankly: "I love He Han and love him from the bottom of my heart." ”
As for Chen Junsheng, Luo Zijun has no love.
This scene makes people feel heartache, but it also makes people see the failure of Xiaosan Ling Ling.
Ling Ling's failure was not only that she could not have the feelings of others, but also that she had lost her own dignity and personality.
In order to gain other people's wealth and status, she does not hesitate to destroy other people's families and hurt other people's feelings.
This kind of behavior not only makes people feel disgusting, but also makes people see the ugliness and emptiness in her heart.
Her failure lies in the fact that she touches the bottom line in her life that cannot be touched - hurting other people's feelings and family.
In real life, we often see characters similar to Ling Ling.
They may not be juniors, but they also have the same behavior of destroying other people's feelings and families.
They may have beautiful appearances, excellent talents, and seductive charms, but they cannot hide the ugliness and emptiness of their hearts.
They may be able to achieve temporary success and happiness, but they will not be able to attain true happiness and fulfillment.
Just like Ling Ling in "The First Half of My Life", her failure lies in the fact that she touched the bottom line that cannot be touched in her life.
She hurt other people's feelings and families, and also lost her own dignity and personality.
Her actions doomed her life to be full of frustration and pain.
On the contrary, those who stick to the bottom line and respect other people's feelings and families tend to find true happiness and fulfillment.
They may not be the richest and most beautiful people, but their personality and qualities have earned them more respect and love in life.
Their lives may be full of challenges and difficulties, but they can achieve true success and happiness through their own efforts and perseverance.
In the finale of "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun finally chose to leave Chen Junsheng and White Lotus Ling Ling to find his own value and happiness.
Although she lost her marriage and family, she gained freedom and independence.
She used her actions to prove the failure of Xiaosan Ling Ling and the truth that you can't touch the bottom line in life.
The bottom line that cannot be touched in life is to hurt other people's feelings and families.
When we choose to use a similar way to obtain our own interests, we have lost our dignity and personality as human beings.
Our actions will not only cause us to lose the respect and love of others, but also make our lives full of frustration and pain.
We should always stick to the bottom line of life and not hurt other people's feelings and families.
We should use our own efforts and perseverance to pursue true success and happiness, rather than using deception and betrayal to obtain short-term benefits.
Only in this way can we truly have a complete, fulfilling, and meaningful life.