In the world of love, we often think that to love someone we must be brave enough to tell him, to love someone to keep him by our side, and to love someone we should give him a promise. If you want to look at it from these aspects, then He Han doesn't love Tang Jing, or he doesn't love it that much. He has been with Tang Jing for ten years, and he has never expressed his love to her, and he has never said "I love you". Tang Jing accepted the company's transfer and worked in Hong Kong for a year, but he didn't say a word of retention, and he didn't even go to the farewell banquet. Tang Jing tried to talk to him about the future, saying that he "only enjoyed the present". There are all kinds of signs that he doesn't love Tang Jing so much, and Tang Jing really doesn't feel much of his love, or she doesn't feel much, so she herself is not very sure in her heart, sometimes she thinks he loves it, sometimes she thinks he doesn't love it. This is also He Han in the eyes of our audience, who all feel that he doesn't love Tang Jing so much, otherwise why don't you give her a promise, or don't say "I love you" to her, otherwise why don't you keep her. But when I started to brush it twice, I realized that we all misunderstood He HanHe actually loves Tang Jing very much, but compared with ordinary love, his love for her is more advanced, which is a realm that many people can't reach. 
Tang Jing suddenly decided to go to Hong Kong, saying that it was for the sake of his career, for promotion, and for becoming Bianti's partner, but in fact it was also a test of their feelings and a test for He Han. She wanted to test He Han if she would keep her. The relationship between him and He Han has never been able to go further, and even because they are competing for a big customer together, their relationship has become worse, He Han didn't say anything, but told her with actions that they would be best friends from now on. Tang Jing originally missed an opportunity to marry He Han, and this time was also a major reason for their relationship to enter an impasse. She was actually very painful in her heart, hoping for a good outcome with He Han, but also having a lot of worries. She even announced that she was going to start dating, which was equivalent to announcing that she was going to start a new life, and at the same time testing He Han's reaction to see if he would be stimulated. Leaving Shanghai was her ultimate move, she wanted to see if He Han would keep her, but we all saw the result, He Han didn't take the initiative to find her after hearing that she was leaving. He Han didn't want to look for it, he picked up his phone and flipped to her number, wanted to dial out, hesitated for a while and locked the phone screen. He was also hesitating in his heart, whether to keep or bless?In the end, it was decided to give her a blessing, and he wanted her to fly higher. 
Tang Jing wanted to leave Shanghai, and even Luo Zijun and Chen Junsheng knew that she didn't really want to leave Hong Kong, but hoped that He Han would stay. This is the problem between her and He Han, as long as He Han stays, then she will stay. Luo Zijun tried very hard to persuade He Han to persuade Tang Jing to stay, and Chen Junsheng was also anxious for them, hoping that He Han could let Tang Jing stay, and felt sorry for their relationship for many years. Only He Han was indifferent, he told Chen Junsheng that what she decided showed that she had already thought it out in her own heart, and no one could persuade her. He didn't try to persuade Tang Jing to stay, but after knowing that Tang Jing was leaving, he drank for two days in a row, and Chen Junsheng said that he had never seen him drink so much, which showed that he was actually really sad. He talked about Tang Jing when he was drinking with Chen Junsheng, and he said that when Tang Jing first came to the company, he was with five or six Xi students, and they all didn't know anything, but he only liked Tang Jing alone, taught her everything, and then watched her grow and progress little by little. He said that Tang Jing was a very satisfactory work for him, which he brought up single-handedly. This is his love for Tang Jing, the love he gave her, not to give her money to spend, not to give her material, not to meet her life needs, but to help her achieve success in her career and make her grow into a better person. He also said that if he wants to marry Tang Jing, then her career will inevitably be affected, he doesn't want her to work hard for so many years, because her marriage is affected, he knows that it is not easy for her to get to where she is today, and he feels sorry for her talent. He never talks about love, but he turns his love into her cultivation, respect for her, respect for her choices, respect for her career, and turn his love into support for her, supporting her to climb up. 
We all think that to love someone is to give her the love promise of marriage, and to love someone is to keep her by her side at all costs and bind her to ourselves. But He Han's love for Tang Jing is not such a love. His love for Tang Jing is in his heart, he will never say it, and he will not force it, he wants to marry her, but after she disappeared at the engagement banquet, he didn't chase her and ask why. He knew that she must have a reason, and he knew what was wrong with him. He knew that Tang Jing was leaving Shanghai, and he sincerely hoped that Tang Jing could achieve higher achievements in his career, so he didn't want to keep it, this was what Tang Jing wanted, and what he hoped Tang Jing would want. In this way, his love for Tang Jing has always been there, and his love is even higher, without his love, Tang Jing would not have such achievements today, and she would not have become such an excellent professional woman. End article illustration "The First Half of My Life" stills were invaded and deleted.