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Xi Mengyao said that giving birth to a child is not painful at all.
At the end of last year, on the show, Xi Mengyao said that she gave birth to two children in a row, and she didn't feel anything, and the doctor asked her during childbirth, what song do you want to listen to, I'll play a song for you.
So she thinks that the atmosphere of having a child is similar to the atmosphere of KTV at night. As soon as her remarks came out, she was praised by many netizens, who felt that this was positive energy, unlike many women who deliberately exaggerated their pain and created fertility anxiety.
This brings me to a phraseWe are all human beings, but we are not the same kind of people。Xi Mengyao's pain is not realized, it needs real gold!According to Hong Kong media reports, her first child was born in a hospital in Hong Kong, and the ** of the VIP ward of this hospital is 300,000, which does not include the costs of medical equipment, doctors' rounds, and designated delivery times.
In addition, Xi Mengyao said that she was using an extraperitoneal caesarean section and would soon be able to get out of bed and eat. However, this kind of surgery requires more technical requirements for doctors and also requires conditions. So there is no doubt that Xi Mengyao used her money power to buy top-notch fertility services, but what about the financial burden of up to 300,000 yuan for ordinary women to have a child?
Even if it is affordable, the cost of pain will vary depending on each person's constitution. Huo Siyan is also a star, and her economic conditions are not bad, right?At the age of 33, she was bleeding profusely during childbirth, and there were more than 30 pieces of gauze in the operating room to stop bleeding. Not only that, but also accompanied by symptoms such as heart failure and asthma, and directly issued a critical illness notice, and various machines were put on the machine.
Du Jiang said that he was crying next to him at that time, thinking that Huo Siyan would not be able to come back.
There is also Choo Ja Hyun, who began to smoke 20 minutes after giving birth, pregnancy poisoning, and then hemorrhage, 90% of his lungs were blood, he had a high fever of more than 40 degrees, his body was full of ice cubes and instruments, and he was unconscious for ten days after giving birth, and he couldn't breathe on his own.
Yu Xiaoguang woke up in the middle of the night and found that Choo Ja Hyun's hands and feet were cold, he was scared to death, but when he touched his forehead, he still had a fever, he collapsed at that time, and he didn't know if he could pull his wife back from the brink of death. So he said that he would never agree to let Choo Ja Hyun have another child.
This may also question the fact that female celebrities have a lot of work pressure and are not as good as ordinary people, just an example. Last May, sprinter and Olympic gold medalist Torrey Bowie died mysteriously at home at the age of 32. The medical examiner's report states that she died of complications in childbirth and was eight months pregnant. She was in labor when she died, but she was one of the most physical women in the world, how could she not resist a small pregnancy?
Indeed, although childbirth today is not as fatal as in the past, it is still accompanied by danger and great suffering, and we can't start to question ordinary women exaggerating the suffering of childbirth because of Xi Mengyao's huge amount of money in production. In fact, she also said that due to the dislocation of the spine due to pregnancy, her feet were completely uncontrollable, her back hurt badly, she felt that she was about to fall apart, and because of the stagnation of her career, she gained more than 30 pounds and other anxiety, and suffered from postpartum depression.
She said that these remarks should also blame her for not being positive and creating anxiety?Such as:If the pain of childbirth is taken for granted, and even the right to truly express the pain will be denied, and compared with people who don't cry out for pain, who would dare to lie on that delivery bed?
How much suffering does it take to have a child?Most moms can give you a long list. Nowadays, many women choose to share the pain of childbirth, not to create any anxiety, but to encourage and help each other. Because it is only when the pain and the will are truly seen that everything will move in a better direction
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. It's no different from poisonNo one is born a mother, and those so-called maternal halos, which are just the courage to sacrifice their lives with all their might.
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