If you want to capture a man s heart, you don t have to stick to him all the time, as long as you

There is a quote in "Jane Eyre" that describes love like this:

"Love is a game, and we must always be evenly matched with each other in order to cherish each other in the long run. ”

But true love is not like this, sometimes, if you want to capture a man's heart, you don't have to "stick" to him all the time, as long as you do three things, he will take the initiative to come to you.

01 Keep it as if you are leavingofAttitudeLet him feel a sense of crisisIn the TV series "I Want to Fall in Love with You", Guo Zhen and his favorite Cai Zhenzhen met a few days later, Cai Zhenzhen asked Guo Zhen if he had a wife and children, and Guo Zhen quickly said that he had never been married. Cai Zhenzhen said seriously: "I came tonight just to tell you that I am not a casual person, and as for what happened that night, it was purely accidental." If you want to fall in love with me, we can ...... from now onIf you're willing to give it your heart, I'm willing to try. But if you just want to have fun, then sorry ......When Guo Zhen heard this, he was about to confess, but Cai Zhenzhen asked him to think clearly before looking for her, and left without looking back. This trick really worked, Guo Zhen was even more sure that he was in love with her, and the two officially confirmed their relationship. Audrey Hepburn once said:

"Don't try to pick the moon, let the moon come to me. ”

After all, men often don't know how to cherish the love that is easy to get. Occasionally maintain a detached attitude, and a little sense of mystery, and appropriately make him in crisis, but he will pay more attention to you. Express trust and dependence on himLet him produce achievementssenseIn the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Tang Jing is a vigorous and resolute strong woman, both emotionally and in life, she is very strong. Although he has been in a relationship with He Han for 10 years, He Han always lacks a sense of maturity as a man. After Luo Zijun's divorce, He Han lent a helping hand in work and life, and because of frequent contact, Luo Zijun gradually increased his trust and dependence on He Han. When the two got along, He Han not only felt relaxed and happy, but also felt needed and admired by Luo Zijun, and the two developed a strong love over time. Gorky said

"When you feel that everyone needs you, this feeling will give you energy. ”

Women sometimes show weakness appropriately, show trust and dependence on the man, and give him the opportunity to protect. As long as a man's desire to protect is aroused, his heart will be firmly grasped by you.

Make yourself betterLet himKnow how to cherish youIn the TV series "Dear Yourself", Zhang Zhizhi is a typical good wife and mother. She not only keeps the house in order, but also takes care of her husband Liu Yang. But she is very stingy with herself, and she is not even willing to buy herself a 200 yuan thermos cup. Despite all this effort, her husband Liu Yang betrayed her. After waking up, Zhang Zhizhi finally realized that she had never really loved herself. After the two broke up, Zhang Zhizhi began to become more motivated, hard-working and better. At this time, Liu Yang's eyes when he looked at her also changed, and he began to appreciate her from the bottom of his heart. There is a saying:

An attractive woman is usually a woman who has self-pursuit and growth.

When a man sees your excellence and independence, he will realize your true worth. This kind of you will make him cherish it even more.

ConclusionLi Kaifu once said:

"Marriage is not about how to cooperate with each other and become a better partner, but about thinking about how to develop the best version of yourself. ”

When you meet the man you like, or you have trouble on the road of relationship. You can try to keep a distance, show your trust and dependence on him, and make yourself better, so that he will fall in love with you and find it difficult to extricate himself.