Leo Tolstoy said
"Love is not about looking for the perfect person, but learning to look at an imperfect person. ”In the world of love, every woman wants to meet a man who truly loves her. However, some men, when expressing their love, tend to adopt some "no matter" behaviors, which make women confused and upset. In fact, these "no matter" behaviors are precisely the manifestation of men's deep love for women.
Regardless of the family's money,Leave the economic power to youA man who loves you and doesn't interfere too much with your finances. He will respect your independence and autonomy and give you the freedom to manage your family's money. In "Let's Get Married", when Huang Haibo proposed to Gao Yuanyuan, he didn't give her things that are romantic in the eyes of ordinary people, such as rose diamond rings. Instead, he chose something more sincere and special to express his love. He handed over all his property such as his car license, real estate certificate, salary card, and bonus card to Gao Yuanyuan one by one to prove his sincerity and determination to her. This touching marriage proposal clip deeply touched many viewers, and many netizens praised "This is a real man, responsible and responsible!".”。Tu Lei said:
Money is not the only measure of true love, but money can measure the depth of feelings.A man who loves you will not only hand over all his money, but will not interfere too much with your finances. He will respect your independence and autonomy and give you the freedom to manage your family's money. He believes that you will arrange your household expenses reasonably and support your decision. It not only shows his trust and respect for you, but also shows his sense of responsibility and commitment to his family.
Regardless of your past, only love your presentand the futureA man who truly loves you will not dwell on your past and focus on your present and future. He will cherish every moment you have with him and care about your feelings and needs. Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yuyi are a model couple in the entertainment industry, once, Zhang Zhilin was asked by a reporter how to face Yuan Yuyi's previous emotionally unbearable experience, his answer moved everyone present. Zhang Zhilin thought about it for a while and said that he regretted that he didn't meet her a few years ago, otherwise he would have been able to protect her well, and she would not have been hurt like this. In the movie "Love at Sunset and Dusk", there is such a line:
"What a wonderful thing it would be to reminisce if you didn't dwell on the past. ”A man who truly loves you will only be concerned about what you are now and what you will do in the future. He will respect your past and will do his best to help you forget the unpleasant experience. He will use his love and care for your past to bring you happiness and warmth.
Regardless of whether it is right or wrong, it only cares about whether you are good or notIn the relationship between two people, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions and conflicts, a man who really loves you will not care who is right and who is wrong, he only cares about your feelings and safety. In "Super Interview", Xie Nan shared an interesting story. Xie Nan wanted to maintain a slim figure, so he secretly took ** medicine behind Wu Jing's back. One day, when he was discovered by Wu Jing, he angrily took the ** medicine and asked, "Didn't you promise me not to take it again?"Xie Nan knew that he was wrong, but his mouth was very hard: "What can you do to me if you eat it?"With that, he slammed the door and left. Seeing that it was already dark, Wu Jing hurriedly chased Xie Nan back and sincerely apologized to her, Xie Nan also relented, and the misunderstanding and unhappiness disappeared without a trace in an instant. I agree with what the writer Ai Xiaoyang said:
"Don't talk about three views and fight for right and wrong in intimate relationships at every turn, but know how to introspect and be grateful, understand that intimacy is more important than correctness, and tolerance is more important than transformation. ”A man who truly loves you will let go of his face and stubbornness and give you the warmest embrace and the most intimate comfort. It will respect your opinions and ideas and work with you to solve problems, rather than blindly blaming and criticizing.
ConclusionRussell said this:
"Love flourishes only when it is free, and the idea that love is an obligation can only put love to death. ”When a man has a "three regardless" behavior towards you, it is not that he does not love you, but that he loves you deeply. He believes in you, cherishes you, tolerates you, and is willing to grow with you and face life's challenges.