The different attitudes of the parents of the test editor caused complaints and formed a double standard phenomenon
Candidates complained about the different attitudes of parents before and after the exam"It's like a different father"This is a big scene of double standards.
There is a proverb that says:"Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion", meaning that all professions deserve respect. From a practical point of view, people who work in different jobs live very different lives.
There is an idiom called"Three teachings and nine streams"In ancient and modern times, the degree of recognition of various professions in China and abroad is also very different. Take, for example, the example mentioned by a young man:
introduced a female anchor with a monthly salary of only 10,000 yuan to her parents, but their attitude was very cold;When he introduced a primary school teacher with a monthly salary of only 3,000 yuan, her parents were more enthusiastic than expected.
In general, the most parentally recognized professions tend to be associated with one word:"Preparation"。While having a stable job has its advantages, Chinese parents are particularly persistent in the recognition of the establishment.
As if in response to the family's new expectations, the dramatic change in parents' attitudes before and after testing coding creates a convincing double standard.
There is often a relationship between the child and the parent"Generation gap", which means that parents often criticize their children's Xi habits. For example, for graduates, a day off after a busy week wakes up naturally.
However, in the eyes of parents, this leisure may be seen as laziness and an attempt to use a broom to encourage children to get up early. However, it seems that from the moment they enter the institution, even their parents' attitudes towards themselves have changed a lot.
Some candidates complained that before and after preparing for the exam, their parents' attitudes changed drastically, and they were described as"It seems to have changed fathers", can be described as"Large-scale double standard site"。Obviously you can sleep until noon and wake up naturally, but it is praised"The most diligent people"。
From working in the private sector in 996, I couldn't see the care of my parents, to today"Eight in the morning and five in the evening", get off work on time, but my father always thinks about me and nags: don't exhaust your body.
Before, every time I came home from vacation, I would wait for my father to come and pick me up, but he always complained that it was too much trouble, claimed"I'm old enough to worry about it anymore"。Now, as long as he has a holiday, he can't wait to come to my house to pick me up.
Even when talking to friends and family, I deliberately mention it casually"Welfare home"Pick up the kids;Hearing their true reactions amused and frustrated at the same time.
Some graduates even joked that their fathers seemed to since being admitted"Grew taller"。Why?Because he is proud to be able to train students in this system, his back is straighter than before.
For professions such as civil servants, institutions of all kinds, and teachers, this usually means having staff. They became enduring"Sweet and sweet"This has a deep meaning.
Many parents persuade their children to take the public institution exam after their children finish their studies, believing that it is more advantageous to be admitted to a public institution in a small county than to be a white-collar worker in a CBD in a big city. If a child fails to pass the establishment exam, they want to find a partner in the system.
At this point, both the parents of boys and the parents of girls are basically the same. For Chinese parents,"Preparation"What does that mean exactly?
Students' understanding of this issue may be relatively superficial, but after graduation they will be aware"Preparation"The term encompasses more than just one of the institutional systems"Location"。
It symbolizes more of a stable income, a decent career, benefits that surpass most industries, and a more humane way of working. These factors not only affect the actual material conditions, but also determine the lifestyle of graduates.
Although the actual monthly salary does not seem to be very rich, in third- and fourth-tier cities, there may even be about 3,000 positions. However, every festive season, the benefits are still enviable.
One of the irreplaceable advantages is that the jobs related to employees are often in institutions, institutions, and institutions"Profits"As a result, workers rarely work frequent overtime in order to reduce labor costs.
As the labor market grows, more and more college students are eager to settle down, which also means a certain sense of powerlessness. Perhaps it is human instinct to seek stability, and taking the public entrance examination has always been a choice supported by parents. However, it is also closely related to changes in the external environment.
When I was in college, it was"Entrepreneurial boom"Successful entrepreneurs like Yu Minhong have given many college students confidence and hope. At the time, many students believed that young people should be brave enough to pursue their dreams and try to make a big difference.
We all know that today's college students are more inclined to pursue a secure career. Compared with college students who choose to join private or foreign companies, the enthusiasm of college students to start a business is increasing year by year, which can be seen from the fact that the number of applicants for entrepreneurship is increasing year by year.
This doesn't say a lot about what college students have become"Selfishness"If it is said that college students want to rely on the system to live an easy life when they are young, such an evaluation is obviously unfair. The changes in the working environment outside the system have made more college students feel the helplessness of reality.
When an individual continues to work hard, but finds that he or she cannot resist the passage of time and may face the risk of being laid off at any time, he will face a stage of old age and young age. Therefore, students who are able to undertake the establishment will naturally know how to make informed choices.
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