The better the person, the more attractive the narcissistic personality is, because the good partner is better able to meet their own needs.
They are low self-esteem and need to maintain a fragile heart by constantly gaining external approval
Once you're in a relationship with the narcissist, you're no longer the person they were trying to fight for.
Instead, they will belittle you to achieve self-preservation and self-satisfaction
As soon as there is a conflict between you, he will become angry or use cold violence against you.
If you really fall in love with a narcissist, they will start to suppress you in the relationship
1. Think about why you are attracted to narcissistic personalities
Narcissistic personalities are uniqueHe is different from the other members of the opposite sex you come into contact with, and this unique person is exactly what your ideal lover looks like.
When you first start together, he will analyze your needs and present himself as you expect them to be
It also has to do with your early experience of loving and being loved.
A lot of times, we are presupposing each other's reactions, and we tend to stimulate the other person to do what we preset
If your mother doesn't meet your need for love in timeLater you will have an excessive desire for love.
If your mother can't meet your needs consistentlyAs an adult, you'll crave a close love.
You will be full of uncertainty, you will be very sensitive, and you will often give yourself negative hints.
You will be attracted to someone who can soothe you and give you enough security
If you have a cold, harsh, fussy mother, you need intimacy but you don't want to get too close to each other.
When falling in love with a narcissistic personality
Stage 1: He will give you a perfect love affair and you will be deeply attracted to Him.
Stage 2: He's not as perfect as you think he is, but you need him.
So you will lower your profile, idealize your lover, and blame yourself for all the conflicts between you.
No one's childhood is perfect, and the first step to solving the problem is to find out why
What exactly led to the start of this unhealthy intimate relationship?