In life, family relationships often change due to the birth of grandchildren, and sometimes there are even contradictions and conflicts. I've been in the past. Looking back, the scene is still vivid, and I want to share this experience with you.
For a family, daughter-in-law'sConfinementIt is a very important moment. However, in my son's wifeConfinementIn the process, I had an unpleasant conflict with my daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law'sPregnancyThe reaction was so severe that she quit her job and stayed at home to give birth. And my son specially invited me to take care of her in order to take care of her. However, I was surprised to find that my daughter-in-law was very difficult to serve. She is very demanding in her approach to food, and I am older and a little particular about the taste of what I eat, which makes our eating Xi habits conflict. In addition, she was reluctant to vacate my room, and I was placed on a hard bed in the study, which made me very uncomfortable. What makes me even more unacceptable is that my daughter-in-law did not let my son give me living expenses, but let me bear the expenses of the whole family. It made me miserable, miserable.
Faced with such a situation, I often complained to my daughter, pinning my anger and grievances. My daughter sympathized with my plight and scolded her daughter-in-law behind my back"Vampires"。Although I have the support of my daughter, I still can't accept my daughter-in-law's attitude.
Finally, at my daughter's suggestion, I decided to go on a trip with my daughter's family and let my daughter-in-law's mother take care of herConfinement。My daughter thinks that I have served my daughter-in-law's pregnancy, and now it is time to rest. I started to be tempted by my daughter's suggestion, but I was also worried that my daughter-in-law would be unhappy. My daughter comforted me and saidConfinementThey want their own mother to take care of them, and I used to help herConfinementThe daughter-in-law should be able to understand. I decided to accept my daughter's suggestion, hoping to relax myself and regain my strength.
However, when I returned to my son's house, I found that they had already moved out. I was very surprised and saddened that after all they didn't tell me beforehand and didn't tell me they had moved to **. I hurriedly called ** to ask my son about the situation, but my son kept being evasive and unwilling to reveal the truth. Finally, my daughter-in-law picked up ** and told me that they had moved out and didn't want to live with me anymore. She accused me of not being willing to serve herConfinement, did not understand her feelings, so decided to cut ties with me. I felt very heartbroken and sad to hear this, and I didn't know what I had done wrong.
Looking back on the whole experience, I realized that I may have had some problems dealing with family relationships. First of all, I may not have listened carefully to my daughter-in-law's needs and desires, but stubbornly asked her to change according to my own Xi and preferences. Secondly, I may not have found the right way to communicate and express my thoughts and feelings in the right way, which led to conflict. In the end, I didn't realize it eitherMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipIt is a relationship of mutual respect and tolerance, and you cannot blindly listen to your own needs.
Despite all this conflict and sadness, I still hope to reconcile with my daughter-in-law. I realized that my daughter-in-law is also thinking about her own children and hopes to receive more care and support. Therefore, I decided to take the initiative to communicate with my daughter-in-law to find a solution to the problem. I will respect her wishes and hope to be able to build a better oneMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipto make efforts for the harmony of the whole family.
Family relationships are complex and delicate, especially when grandchildren join in, often with contradictions and conflicts. Through this experience, I realized that I had some problems in dealing with family relationships and needed to be more understanding and tolerant of others. I believe that as long as both sides are willing to work hard,Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipIt will certainly be improved and reconciled.