My marriage to Meilian has always been very happy. We fell in love when we were in college, and after graduation, we successfully entered the palace of marriage. Meilian is gentle and considerate, and she has a good temper, and she can see her sweet smile every day when she comes home from work.
After three years of married life, we are very affectionate. I often travel in my spare time, and I go on regular dates every weekend, and my relationship has always been as sweet as when I was in love.
This spring, Meilian finally got pregnant. The results of the examination are very healthy, the due date is also very good, and the baby will be born around the end of the year. Meilian and I were very excited, and we had a lot of expectations and fantasies all at once.
By the way, baby, your due date is almost up, isn't it time to prepare?That's right, we need to prepare a crib, clothes, diapers, etc. ”
Just when we were preparing everything and looking forward to the arrival of the child, Meilian's mother came to ** and said that she would come to take care of us and spend this month with us.
I was a little hesitant, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been very delicate, and my mother came to live for such a long time, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts.
What is there to hesitate about, how nice it is to have a mother to help take care of me and the baby!Meilian readily agreed.
When the baby was about to give birth, my mother arrived at my house a week early. As soon as she got off the plane, she started to work, checking all the preparations in our house, and tears were about to flow when she saw the crib and the little clothes.
I was also very moved, but I couldn't help but put forward my opinion:
I explained, "It's not that I don't need to take care of you, it's just that I can take care of you and the baby myself, so it can also cultivate a relationship between us, right?"”
Mom interjected, "I'm here to help you develop your feelings!".It's embarrassing for you to be a man who stays with pregnant women all day. The matter of having a child still needs a partner between women, what do you know about this?”
I was a little anxious: "Of course I have to learn how to take care of my wife and children!".There's no need to bother you to come, right?”
Meilian was very unhappy with my attitude, and said coldly, "What do you mean?".Is my mom so unwelcome?”
Mom, we young people want to take on this matter ourselves. Don't be embarrassed, we'll take care of it ourselves. ”
Mom was very excited, she thought I was driving her away. She cried, and Meilian felt even more sorry for her mother, and yelled at me directly: "What kind of attitude do you have!".My mom was kind enough to help, but you don't appreciate it so much!”
Meilian and I argued all night about it, and finally my mother stayed. In the next few days, my relationship with them was also very stiff, and the atmosphere was ugly.
Mom was busy taking care of Mei Lian all day long, taking care of all the housework and taking care of her. I wanted to help Mei Lian take a bath or cook, but my mother drove me away.
I couldn't stand it anymore: "Mom, are you trying to rob my wife with me?""Mom ignored me and took care of Meilian by herself. I can only sulk.
I was like an outsider in front of strangers in my house. I finally looked forward to the baby, but I didn't enjoy the fun of being a father.
I couldn't help but find my mother's theory: "Are you really good like this?".You're also old, shouldn't you take a break?We young people have to learn to take care of our own children!”
Mom was very dissatisfied: "Are you finished?".Every day I know that I am talking, are you mature?Will you take care of people?Pregnant women have to worry about me, an old woman!”
Meilian cried and said to me, "It's all you, why are you arguing with my mother?".She worked so hard to take care of us, and you were so impatient all day long!”
I was also anxious to explain: "Isn't it that I can't get used to her always treating me as an outsider?"Am I not part of this family?My wife and children are all mine, why is she like this!”
Meilian hugged the baby and cried even more fiercely: "Are you done arguing?"Satisfied?Now our mother and son can't stand it!If you do this again, I'll divorce you!”
These words sounded in my ears like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and I was terrified: "Meilian!".Calm down!How can you say divorce!The child is still so young!”
Meilian lost her mind and threw a tissue on me: "Are you satisfied!".I've been arguing with the old people all day long!Who can stand it?Let's go!We don't need you!”
I froze in place, my mind went blank, only to see my mother calmly come over and take the baby away. Mei Lian entered the bedroom without looking back, and slammed the door open.
After a while, I came back to my senses, and my brain finally reacted that my wife actually said that she wanted to divorce me!It's a bad idea for me now, just over a month after giving birth, my wife is going to divorce me, which is outrageous!
It's my fault, I shouldn't be angry with the old man. It's okay now, it's okay to make my wife so sad and angry, so the fool is not in a hurry!
I hurriedly knocked on Meilian's door and apologized softly: "Lianzi, I'm sorry!".It's me who didn't do it first, and I shouldn't have been arguing with your mother!Don't be angry, let's have a good talk!”
There was no response in the room, so I had to continue: "Baby, am I wrong?"You and the baby are my heart, I will correct it, give me a chance, okay?”
After a long while, Meilian opened the door with red eyes. She looked at me with tears in her eyes, and my heart suddenly tugged.
Sorry baby!It's all my fault, can you forgive me?I said eagerly.
Meilian said coldly: "You figured it out yourself, just talk to me, now I'm really tired!."With that, he slammed the door again.
I froze outside the door, thinking to myself that this is over, I have to think of a remedy!I decided to talk to my mom first to clear up the misunderstanding.
I continued to sincerely admit my mistake to my mother: "I am too naïve, you are taking good care of Lianzi and grandchildren, but I always use the topic to play and say that yours is not." This time Lianzi was angry and wanted to divorce, it was all caused by me, and I really knew it was wrong. ”
Although my mother was still indifferent, she finally spoke, "I am also for your good." When it comes to having a baby, it's right for me to help. Don't keep getting mad at me. ”
I nodded hurriedly: "I'll change my mom, I'm too self-righteous!."Having a baby is really important, and it is better for you to help. ”
The mother nodded slightly: "You also come here to learn, and you will have to take care of the child in the future." ”
I happily leaned over and my mother taught me how to hold the baby correctly, taking care to support my head and neck. While studying Xi seriously, I peeked at Meilian, who was still sulking with a red nose.
In the evening, I tried to organize a family dinner, and took the initiative to please Meilian and her mother to admit my mistakes. Although Meilian's face was not very good-looking, she finally didn't leave directly.
When I was cutting the fruit, I deliberately hugged my son and made him giggle happily, and only then did Meilian have a gentle smile on her face.
Later, I found an opportunity to apologize to Meilian alone: "Honey, I'm sorry, it's me who is useless. I didn't do my duty as a husband when you had a child. Can you give me a new chance?"I had a sincere look on my face.
Meilian hesitated and said, "Then you have to promise that you can't murder your mother anymore." She has helped us so much, you should be grateful. ”
I quickly nodded: "I know it's wrong!".I'll definitely change it!You and your mom have the final say!"I almost didn't get down to my knees.
Meilian nodded reluctantly. After that, I reconciled with my mother smoothly, and our family gradually adjusted to the right family relationship. I learned to help my mother take care of my wife and children, and I didn't quarrel with her anymore.
In this way, we spent a peaceful confinement, and I finally learned to be a qualified husband and father. On the day my mother left, our family of three hugged our heads and cried goodbye, and I truly realized the greatness of my mother.