I took care of my daughter's confinement, and she said that her father-in-law gave her 50,000 yuan and asked me to give 50,000 yuan too
At 9 p.m., my wife and I got ready to go to bed. At this time, my daughter called urgently. , the daughter's voice was weak and her speech was intermittent. It took some time to figure it out, it turned out that she was about to give birth and desperately wanted us to get there as soon as possible. After hanging up**, my wife and I hurriedly left the bed, hurriedly dressed and eagerly waited for the ...... to be calledWe have only one daughter in our family, who has been the pearl of our palm since she was a child and has been favored by us. Her every need was met and we were extremely delicate.
As the saying goes, having a baby is a trip to the ghost gate. Despite the development of modern medicine, I couldn't help but worry about my daughter. In the past, she was the kind of child who could cry a lot with a small wound, and it must have been so hard to give birth to a child. When I think about this, I feel like I have been scratched by a cat's claw, and I feel very uncomfortable. In a hurry, three hours later, we finally arrived at the hospital where our daughter was giving birth. Because it was almost early in the morning, most of the family members and mothers had already fallen asleep. In the long hallway, the sound of our footsteps echoed. We anxiously walked forward, and at the end of the corridor, we finally saw our daughter sitting alone at the maternity door. Just then, a doctor came out of the delivery room. I asked her why her daughter was sitting here alone. She told us that her daughter's uterine opening was only four fingers open, and she had not yet reached the conditions for entering the delivery room. She suggested that we go for a walk with our daughter, which might help shorten the labor. The doctor also reassured me and told me not to be too nervous and that my daughter's condition was normal. Hearing the doctor's words, I finally felt a little more relaxed. Then I asked my daughter why she was the only one sitting hereWhat about her husband?
At this time, a person came out from behind the door of the fire escape, and it turned out to be his father-in-law. My father-in-law lost his wife at an early age and never remarried. It turned out that he was smoking behind the door. Perhaps hearing my question, he greeted me and explained, "Hehe, Linlin hasn't been born yet, and Xiao Yong still has to go to work tomorrow." I asked him to go back to rest first, and then give him a ** call when he was born. I was so angry that I said loudly: "It's already this time, why do you care about going to work?"Could it be that the attendance award is more important than the wife and children?"Hehe, mother-in-law, I won't tell you, Linlin gave birth to a child this time, I paid 50,000 yuan, and the money fell from the sky if I didn't go to work, so you might as well send it." The father-in-law said with a grin. I was furious and about to retort when my daughter tugged at my sleeve and told me she was hungry. At this time, I finally realized that the purpose of my coming here today was not to quarrel with this old man, but to care for my daughter. So, I asked my wife to go to the 24-hour convenience store in front of the hospital to buy something to eat for my daughter, and I accompanied my daughter around the corridor. As soon as I walked a few steps, I heard my father-in-law muttering on the side: "I only ate a bowl of rice at night, why did I get hungry so quickly." "I held back my anger and tried to control myself. Today is a big event for my daughter, and I can't make it unpleasant because of some unnecessary things.
As soon as my father-in-law saw me coming, he went home in the middle of the night to rest. I advised my wife to go to the outside room to rest, but he stayed by our side and cared for my daughter. The next day, the daughter's labor pain time decreased, but the uterine opening was slow. To speed up labor, doctors recommend breaking the amniotic fluid and using oxytocin. So far, the son-in-law has not shown up. I angrily called ** and asked him if he cared about his wife and children, and he came slowly. He was empty-handed, nonchalant, as if nothing had happened. I didn't even bring breakfast by the way, which was incomprehensible. Worried about my daughter's lack of energy, I asked my son-in-law to go to a convenience store to buy chocolate and find a nearby pharmacy to buy American ginseng to help my daughter replenish her strength and refresh herself. However, the son-in-law listened for a long time and did not move, until I glared at him, and he reluctantly walked out, muttering, "Why is it so hard to have a child?" "While I was worried about my daughter, I was angry with my son-in-law, and my heart became heavier and heavier.
Fortunately, after 5 hours of severe pain, my daughter finally successfully gave birth to a baby girl.
When ** announced that the mother and daughter were safe, my wife and I burst into tears of joy. This joy and excitement made my wife's hand tremble slightly.
At the same time, the father-in-law and son-in-law seemed unusually calm, as plain as the hens in their backyard laying eggs.
When my daughter was still in the delivery room, I took advantage of the fact that everyone was present to suggest that my son-in-law ask a sister-in-law to take care of the child and let my daughter have a good rest**.
However, he said, "My dad is here, and it's okay to take a shower and cook." "I don't think it's convenient, after all, there are different men and women, and there are generations.
When I just wanted to persuade again, ** pushed the child and walked out, as for the matter of inviting the confinement lady, I put it aside for the time being.
An hour later, the daughter was wheeled back into the ward. Seeing her exhausted, I was speechless.
So, I asked my father-in-law to buy some millet and eggs, and wanted to make a bowl of porridge for my daughter. However, his father-in-law said with a cold face that he only bought yellow rice, not millet, and loved to drink it or not.
Seeing this old man who felt sorry for his daughter-in-law so indifferent, I almost didn't scratch his face.
On the third day, the hospital announced that the daughter could be discharged. Although my son-in-law was reluctant to hire a confinement nanny, and I was worried about my daughter's condition, I asked my wife to go home first, and I accompanied my daughter back to the house, ready to take care of my daughter's confinement wholeheartedly.
Although my father-in-law and son-in-law ignored me, it didn't affect me because I was concerned about my daughter. What is it to be angry with some anger, as long as the daughter can be safe and sound in the confinement, this is the most important thing.
The next day, I found that I didn't have enough food in the fridge, so I took an early taxi to the market to buy fresh ingredients.
As soon as I got it back, my daughter called me into the bedroom. I was shocked to see her eyes red and swollen and hurriedly asked her what was going on.
It turned out that before her daughter gave birth, her father-in-law gave her 50,000 yuan. And in the morning, my son-in-law mentioned before leaving, for the sake of fairness, I hope that my daughter can also ask for 50,000 yuan from me.
Mom, won't you give me 50,000 yuan?The daughter said with tears in her eyes.
Seeing my daughter like this, the anger in my heart is hard to contain. Fairness?It's a really high-sounding word. When they got married, they made a down payment to buy a house, but the title deed was written in the son-in-law's name. And all the decoration and furniture are paid for by us, and after marriage, our daughter borrowed money from us to repay the mortgage for various reasons, which is okay. It's ridiculous that they're still asking me to pay 50,000 yuan like them. Money we can come out, but not this way. My daughter is in confinement and I don't want to argue with her. Just tell her that I'll take care of it. In the evening, the son-in-law came home very late. I waited for him in the living room, expressing my desire for a conversation. I asked my son-in-law bluntly if he wanted me to contribute 50,000 yuan for my daughter's confinement. The son-in-law bowed his head and was silent, indicating acquiescence.
I went on to say that we could give out 50,000 yuan, but we needed to meet clear conditions. Whether it's this child or the next child, at least one of them has to be with our last name. And in the future, when we are old, we want to be able to live with you so that you can take care of us more conveniently. As soon as I finished speaking, my son-in-law suddenly jumped up as if he had been poked. He roared loudly: "When my wife marries, she naturally has to take care of the people in their hometown. What is the surname of the child, and what is the surname of the child, living in **, it is their old man who has the final say. Don't expect us to say yes casually!When I heard that, I couldn't stop laughing. It turns out that this is how he instilled concepts in his daughter, no wonder my daughter has always been a little strange to me in the past six months. At the end of the conversation, the son-in-law straightened his face and hid in the study to sleep. I sighed, I really don't know how my daughter fell in love with this kind of person. Forget it, my daughter's children have already been born, and it's a big deal to spend money.
Unexpectedly, a bigger quarrel was waiting for me the next day. In the morning, I woke my daughter up for breakfast, and she glared at me with a dark face. Before I could figure out what was going on, she started accusing me of chasing money and not caring about her well-being. He also said that I always like to look for trouble, and I have nothing to do......Anyway, she said a bunch of things, and a disagreement pierced my heart. Looking at the daughter in front of me who I have loved for more than 20 years, she actually glared at me like an enemy, and my heart hurt beyond words. I went downstairs in a depressed mood and asked the security guard of the community to borrow ** to my wife, and asked him to take a taxi to pick me up. When my wife heard what I had done, she was so angry that she almost went upstairs to rebuke her daughter. I grabbed him and told him that my daughter was in confinement and would wait for her to recover. My wife was so angry that she smoked, but in the end, I forced her into the car.
On the way home, I thought a lot about why my daughter did this to me, and I am also responsible. In the past 20 years, both of us and I have tried our best to give her the best. Meticulous care, wholehearted dedication. Perhaps it is precisely because of our wrong parenting style that she has become so selfish and takes her parents' efforts for granted. The Gu family's father and son are not fuel-efficient lamps, and their daughter will have problems with them sooner or later. It's just a matter of time. In a hundred years of life, one education is enough. Since my daughter dislikes me for hindering her life, then I let her "experience". Perhaps when she experienced the sinister heart of the human heart, she could understand her parents' sincere dedication to her. If she can't understand it, that's fine. Now I see her clearly and I won't waste my heart and money on her anymore!