Comedian Chen Peisi said when talking about his work that he is a person who is very favored in his career. Along the way, he encountered many dangerous and bad moments, but they were skillfully resolved by the people around him. One of the important reasons for this is that he is grateful. For those who have helped him, he will remember it and give it back in time, so that others are more willing to help him. Writer Huang Xiaolin said: Tiering the grass, repaying virtue with kindness, and being grateful, will achieve the height of your life and career. Learn to be grateful, and your work will be smooth. 
01 At Standard Oil, a small clerk has a strange habit. When he stayed in a hotel on a business trip, he would always write the words "Standard Oil at $4 per barrel" under his signature. Even letters and receipts are no exception, as long as they can be signed, those words will be written. As a result, he was called "$4 a barrel" by his colleagues. Chairman Rockefeller was curious when he found out and approached him to ask why. It turned out that the junior clerk had looked for a lot of jobs before, but they all thought he was inexperienced and screened him out. Just when he was cornered, it was the oil company that sent him an offer to join him. He was grateful when he received the invitation, and when he learned that the company needed to advertise, he didn't hesitate to use himself as a living advertising slogan. Whenever there was a signed document, he wrote the words "Standard Oil for $4 a barrel" to set up a label for the company and attract customers. Rockefeller was so moved that he invited him to dinner. He is honored to continue to improve his skills and create great value for the company with his outstanding performance. He was the second chairman of the oil company, Archiboth. There's a good saying:Nobles are attracted by themselves. No one wants to help someone who doesn't know anything in return. Knowing how to be grateful is the best attitude at work. A person who can drink water and think about the source and always think about giving back to others will naturally be appreciated and favored by others. 
02 Harvard Business Review columnist Greg told a story. When Anna first joined the company, a female colleague often criticized her, saying that she was not careful and did not do her job properly. Whether it is doing PPT or making a summary report, as long as there is a little mistake, it will be used by colleagues to make a big fuss. Anna was also irritated by this, but she always valued her work and didn't want to be discouraged by a word or two of criticism from her colleagues. She wants to build a more positive and productive relationship with her colleagues. So, Anna began to look for something to be thankful for from her colleagues. In the beginning, it was hard to do. But then Anna realized that with a slight change in her perspective, the negative impact of this colleague on her could be turned into a positive factor. When her colleagues criticize her, Anna is grateful to her for helping her correct her mistakes and improve herself. When a colleague dislikes her for being too slow, Anna will be grateful to her colleague for at least leading her instead of carrying the burden. Over time, it became easier and easier for Anna to see the good in this colleague and began to praise her. And the colleague seems to have improved his attitude towards Anna, and although he will also point out Anna's mistakes, his words are much softer, and at the same time give reasonable advice. In this way, my colleague not only answered a lot of questions for Anna, but also became Anna's most tacit work partner. American social psychologist Abraham Maslow said: "For those who know how to be grateful, they know how to communicate with others, and when faced with conflict, they are more able to regulate themselves and others to resolve conflicts." "At work, we will inevitably encounter all kinds of contradictions and conflicts. Blaming the blame will only make the results worse. Only by being grateful and discovering the excellent aspects of others can we turn disadvantages into advantages, turn negative energy into kinetic energy, and be like a fish in water in the workplace. 
03 Douban group went to work, netizens@枣糕I have shared my work experience. Jujube cake is an HR, and there are 400 people in their department, and there are only two HR. After joining the company, she took over the HR system from her superiors. As a result, no one handed her over at all, only an administrator account and a one-page operation manual. The other HR is responsible for payroll, while she is responsible for turnover, recruitment, and training that was not available in the company. In addition, reimbursement, posting invoices, running errands, helping people to send things, etc., all fell on her. In the first half year, she was very devastated, working overtime until 11 o'clock every day, but things still piled up. She found her former mentor to complain and wanted to resign. The mentor told her, "I know you're tired right now, but you should be more grateful for this opportunity." Work is like leveling up and fighting monsters, you have a lot of work compared to your peers, but it can also allow you to quickly accumulate experience and surpass most people. She suddenly realized that no job is easy, and instead of complaining about too many affairs, she should be grateful for this opportunity. So, instead of feeling sorry for herself, she went on to meet all the challenges with gratitude. Slowly, she found that everything in her work seemed to help her grow. When encountering difficulties, you need to make your own decisions, which is to exercise your ability to think independently;Setting your own processes, rules, and writing rules and regulations is to improve your professional skillsMany things are told by the leader to let her go, which is to develop her organizational and leadership skills. After 4 years, she is not only proficient in the use of the company's human resources system, but also can lead the department independently. The number of people in the company has doubled, and her salary has also increased several times. In fact, the difficulties in the work are all to achieve you. In the face of challenges, some people complain and some people run away. But people who know how to be grateful will see the opportunity, seize the opportunity, and not let go of every opportunity to temper themselves. As the saying goes:The villain is a noble man with makeup;Difficulty is a gift that is wrapped. Be grateful, and all the problems and confusions in your work will be turned into nutrients for your self-advancement. 
04In the office building of Microsoft headquarters, there is a temporary cleaning lady. She is the only person in the entire office building who has no education, but has the largest workload and the least salary. But she's also the happiest person in the entire building. She smiles at everyone and happily helps others when they ask for something, even if it's not in her own area of work. The colleagues around her are infected by her, and even those who are recognized as indifferent are willing to be friends with her. Bill Gates was amazed when he found out and couldn't help but ask her, "Can you tell me what makes you so happy to face every day?"The cleaner said, "I don't have much knowledge, but I'm grateful to the company for giving me this job, so that I can earn a lot of money enough to pay for my daughter to finish college." The only thing I can do in return is to do everything I can to do my job well, and I am very happy when I think about that. Bill Gates was moved by the female cleaner's words and invited her to become a full-fledged member of the company. The female cleaner was excited, but she didn't have enough education and didn't learn computers, so it was difficult for her to pass Microsoft's assessment. Unexpectedly, when other colleagues found out, they came to help her. While helping her explain computer theory, he also took her to practice operations. Eventually, with the help of everyone, she became a full-time employee at Microsoft. Writer Byrne said: No matter who you are or what circumstances you are in, gratitude will make a complete difference in your life. Have someone else in mind, others will repay you, know how to drink water and think of the source, and people's hearts will move closer to you. Work with gratitude, and the good fortune at work will continue to flow through you. Weng Jingyu, a well-known human resources expert, said: "Take a little time out every day and be grateful for what you have so far. Be grateful for your work, thank your boss, and sincerely appreciate everyone around you, which will make you outstanding in the workplace. "The fortune is unpredictable, only gratitude can stand for a lifetime. A person who knows how to be grateful is like having a key to clearing the workplace. Someone builds bridges for you, someone paves the way for you, so that you can continue to get more dividends in the workplace.