Four families who seem to be living rich and decent on the surface, but they are all troubled by their children's school and housing problems, and each family has tried their best to make all kinds of unbelievable "ruzi niu" decisions - the Ye family tightened their belts just to change to a good school district;The Chen family and his wife have been separated for four years, and they have not hesitatedThe hostess of the Tian family, who is anxious for quick success, is determined to divorce her billionaire husband and find another job;Even the wealthy Lu Jing married for the second time and gave his daughter a tutor. The choices of these four families seem to sacrifice the happiness of the moment, and what is their motivation?What will be the result?Let's wait and see!
The Ye family lives in an old community, the house is very small, and they circle around the children and the elderly every day, which seriously affects the quality of life. What's worse is that the conditions of the nearby schools are poor, and the long-awaited opportunity of Ye Yifan and He Jiaru has finally come - the new district has launched a purchase limit**, with excellent conditions, and is also affiliated to a bilingual school. The young couple was thrilled and tried their best to raise funds to turn over.
In contrast, the Chen family's situation is even more miserable. They have not been able to get a hukou, and their children have to return to their hometowns with their parents to study. Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan had to separate for this reason, and his wife gave up her job.
After four years apart, the relationship between the middle-aged couple is in jeopardy. Hou Yuanyuan has a suspicious personality and suspects that her husband is having an affair outside. Chen Li himself is also quite unhappy, middle-aged people are most afraid of emptiness and loneliness.
Let's talk about the Tian family, this is an out-and-out wealthy family. Tian Tian married in the past, and her husband was worth one billion. However, my father-in-law likes to return to the basics, so he has to go to the mountains to live in seclusion. The conditions there are extremely difficult, and the children's education is even more uncertain. Tian Tian couldn't stand it, so she mustered up the courage to escape with the child, and was fighting a lawsuit with her father-in-law to ask for the division of the family property.
In the end, the Lu family, their life is not a big problem, the housing conditions are good, and it is convenient for their daughter to go to school. Lu Jing chose to marry for the second time at this time, and the object was fifteen years older than her. This Mr. Shen is a well-known education expert, and Lu Jing found a super luxury tutor for her daughter, wanting to let the next generation go to the next level.
The above four families can be said to have scriptures that are difficult to read. Faced with the problems of children's education and housing, the choices they make are not rational, but absurd. There must be a shocking secret hidden in this, and we have to think deeply about what is the motivation for their choice, and what will be the consequences?
In order to raise money to buy a house**, Ye Yifan has been extremely frugal recently. I haven't ordered a cake for my wife's birthday, and this guy has picked the door for his son's birthday to buy only a small piece of something that is not worthy of being called a cake at all. This made the family's interest instantly extinguished. We can't help but ask, why would a wealthy middle class search to this point?Just how crazy is his target house?
In contrast, Chen Li's choice is even more worrying. They had to live separately for four years, and forced his wife Hou Yuanyuan to give up her career. Hou Yuanyuan was already suspicious and depressed, and often suspected that her husband had a woman outside. This arrangement is undoubtedly worse. Chen Li himself is also very anxious, his children are running at both ends, and his career is unsustainable. In fact, they can also think of other ways, why do they have to sacrifice like this?Is there some kind of hidden secret behind this decision?
Not to mention Tian Tian, this rich man's wife also made up her crazy determination. She wants to divorce her billionaire husband and split the family, and then take on the promising education funds for the Ye family's children. Tian Tian has a straightforward personality, and she may not have other considerations for doing this. But her husband must have asked, "Why do you want to help an outsider?"Is your relationship so worthless?What is the motivation for Tian Tian's choice, and what purpose does she plan to achieve?There must be a secret in this that we don't know yet.
Finally, let's talk about Lu Jing, she married an old man Shen in her sixties, ostensibly to find a tutor for her daughter. In fact, she has such a husband, perhaps more to add some new ideas to her life before aging. Women, they always hope to live a prosperous evening in middle age. However, is there any shady calculation in this?
The Ye family's negative impact seems to be the lightest, but it is not. Breaking the child's birthday made the whole family extremely depressed, which will plant an indelible shadow in his heart. When he grows up, he may not be able to cherish his birthday and reunion, and he may even wonder if he is not loved. In addition, the pressure at home will also increase exponentially, and the relationship between parents will definitely tear apart. We can't help but wonder if this sacrifice is worth itHow much happiness can the house bring to the family?
In comparison, the pressure on the Chen family is even greater. Hou Yuanyuan was under great mental pressure after giving up his job, and he suspected that his husband was cheating all day long. Chen Li himself was also anxious in a different place. The husband and wife have lived in two places for four years, and their relationship is already in jeopardy. Is it really worth it for them to do this?Can the future of the children be assured?How much warmth is left in their marriage?With the answers to these questions, I am afraid that it is difficult for us to see the light of hope.
Tian Tian chose to divorce and run away with her children, although half of her huge property was owned, she lost her life of poverty and luxury. Her husband will be furious and will not stand at each other. Both the relationship and the child's psyche will be greatly traumatized. What the hell is she doing this for?Is it really worth it to go out like this?How long can she last?
Lu Jing married an old man, although there is no need to worry about life when someone serves her, but can this kind of wronged life be comfortable?What's more, she is also under the pressure of caring for patients, and her good years will be spent in endless pain. Was her choice really worth it?How much benefit can be exchanged for it?What will be the future of my daughter?There must be something hidden in this that we don't know.
As a veteran educator, Mr. Shen's ideas are in stark contrast to those of others.
Faced with Ye Yifan's decision to change rooms to the limit, Mr. Shen clearly objected. He believes that education is not something that can be effective overnight, and that it should be steadily icing on the cake without breaking the bones. Ye Yifan is desperately changing houses like this, facing huge financial pressure, not only the quality of life of the family will decline, but the relationship with other relatives will also be damaged. This will not help his son's growth, it will only cast a shadow on his future.
Mr. Shen's point of view makes us think deeply. Indeed, he was the only one in the four families who remained sane. But we can't help but ask, how can a sixty-year-old man soberly point out the blind spots of young people?Why did he choose to marry a middle-aged woman who was more than ten years younger than himself?Does this strange combination of families also hide some secrets that we don't yet understand?
However, even if we have doubts about Mr. Shen himself, his educational philosophy is indeed worthy of serious consideration. Education should allow children to grow up in a relaxed and warm environment, and parents need to pay, but they should not be in a hurry, and they should do what they can. Otherwise, excessive responsibility and stress will only deprive children of their happiness and distort their outlook on life, which is not good for their future.
Therefore, although there are still many unknowns about Mr. Shen, his advice should still be cherished. It is hoped that parents who have fallen into the blind education craze can be inspired to make more rational and responsible choices. Letting children grow up happily is the common goal that every family should have.
Ye Yifan may not have eaten cake when he was a child, and he couldn't bear to buy it for his children. Chen Li may be living the life of a left-behind child, so he wants the child to go back to his hometown to study, and he also accompanies him in his hometown. Tian Tian is likely to come from a poor family, and after marrying into a wealthy family, he still remembers that he wants to prepare money and education resources for the children of the Ye family. Lu Jing is a typical successful person, while desperately trying to find a career for her daughter, she is also filling the regrets of her adolescence by marrying an old man.
These parents pay lip service to their children as an excuse for their own decisions, but in reality they are just repeating and making up for their own upbringing. Their choices are inherently selfish and evasive and do not really take into account the child's feelings. This may also be because they are hurting their own happiness and hearts while pursuing so-called success, so they no longer believe in pure happiness and innocence.
We can't help but ask, what is the root cause of these adults' psychological distortion?Is it because of the atmosphere of this era or is it because I lack a sense of security?In any case, what they are doing now has seriously affected their children, and if not corrected in time, it will make the same mistakes or even worsen for the next generation. We can only hope that people like Teacher Shen can make a voice of reason so that parents can wake up and stop hurting their children's innocence and happiness.
After all kinds of twists and turns, the four families finally saw the essence of the problem. It turns out that they want to give their children the best educational resources and growth environment, but they ignore that what children really need is the love and companionship of their families.
Now they have recalibrated their life coordinates and started anew with the health and happiness of their children as the center. The Ye family decided to save money appropriately and buy a school district house is enough, because instead of slamming the door to make the child lose his joy, it is better to have fun in time.
Chen Li and his wife also regained their happiness, and his wife put down her doubts and followed them with peace of mindTian Tian found the meaning of life and was no longer keen on money games;Even Lu Jing has learned to take care of her wife and feel the flavors of life.
Life is a long road, and home is our root. When love takes root in the heart, suffering will be sweet. I believe that as long as the family is harmonious, the child's tomorrow will be bright and infinite.
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