Everyone wants to live a prosperous life, but the reality is always not as good as it should be. In order to change the fate of poverty, most people are running around and working hard in life.
However, the richer the person, the more slamming the door, and the poorer the person, the more generous, why is that?In the final analysis, it is the difference in the logic of thinking.
The poorer a person is, the more he loves face, for fear that others will look down on him, and he likes to waste his most precious things on things that are not worth it.
In daily life, the poorer people are, the more they tend to be "generous" in these 3 things, and I hope you don't have any of them.
01. Be generous when inviting guests to dinner.
In life, we need to deal with people frequently, and having a meal is one of the most common ways in interpersonal relationships.
But there is a kind of person who likes to slap a swollen face and become fat, knowing that his life is already stretched, but he still wants to be fake and generous, so he likes to invite friends out to party for dinner.
This kind of fake and generous behavior, although it seems that it will make more and more friends around you, will actually lead to getting poorer and poorer, and you will not be able to make true friends.
A true friend does not rely on a dinner invitation, but on his own strength and sincerity, and he exchanges his heart for heart.
Just ask, if you have difficulties one day and can't afford to buy a meal order, who of those so-called friends will be willing to take the initiative to pay, and it is already very good if you don't fall into the ground.
In our interpersonal relationships, we must dare to face the fact that we are poor, and do not waste our own money that is not rich in order to please others, which is a foolish approach.
Friends who are truly worthy of dating are equal and respectful to each other, and do not need to be deliberately generous, nor will they alienate you because you don't invite guests.
02. Be generous in purchasing non-rigid products.
Now Huabei, Baitiao, and credit cards have become the consumption patterns of most people, but do you know what kind of life these people live?
In real life, many people take a salary of less than 5,000 yuan, but live a life with a monthly income of 50,000 yuan.
These people are very stingy when buying daily necessities, and would rather go out in the winter and shiver than spend money on a thick coat;The shampoo is gone, and you can wash it a few more times with waterI had a stomach problem and didn't want to spend money on medicine, so I passed through patience.
But he is very generous in buying non-rigid necessities, and he buys a lipstick of a few hundred yuan, even if he has to use his own salary for a week;A mobile phone of several thousand yuan can be bought when you say you buy it, and you can take it out to save face;Necklace bags of tens of thousands of dollars, even if you overdraft your credit card, it doesn't matter.
These people, on the surface, are glamorous and enviable, but in fact, they live a life of mess without a meal.
These people would rather put on a generous appearance despite their own difficulties. This is just because of their sensitive self-esteem, and they are deceiving themselves.
The more you overdraw your future wealth and don't know how to improve yourself, your wealth will be farther and farther away, and your life will be poorer and poorer.
03. Be generous when wasting time.
The biggest difference between the poor and the rich is how to treat their time better.
For the wealthy, they have a very valuable compound interest thinking, knowing that their time is valuable, and every minute has the potential to create more wealth for themselves.
Therefore, they will not waste their time and energy on small things, but will do more with the time they save and strive to create more wealth for themselves.
On the contrary, the poor do not have this kind of compound interest thinking, and time is the most expensive resource for them.
They would rather spend 10 times as much time in exchange for 1 times the profit, or even less, and be complacent about taking advantage of it. They are also unwilling to spend time to create value, such as improving their skills and obtaining more wealth.
If this difference in time perception is not changed, then life will get worse and worse, and you will never be able to get rid of the fate of poverty for the rest of your life.
Being poor is not terrible, what is terrible is knowing that you are poor and still being content with the status quo.
If ordinary people want to change the current status quo and create better living conditions for themselves, they must change their cognitive thinking, and never be poor and generous in these three things, so as not to make life worse and worse.
May everyone live a good life, take root downward, grow upward, and find the wealth that truly belongs to them.