The long-standing saying "people walk around the land after sixty-nine, five places" reminds us that when we enter the age of antiquity, we should pay attention to life preservation and avoid places that may endanger physical and mental health.
What are the "five places"?What does it warn us about?Let's go together**.
First, stay away from dangerous places. In our later years, our body functions are not as good as before, and our reactions are slow, so we should reduce going out to avoid dangers.
Noisy places such as nightclubs and bars, or places where fish and dragons are mixed, are prone to disputes. Even if you go out to play, it is not advisable to trek to remote areas and lose the possibility of timely treatment.
It's wise to plan well and choose a safe and comfortable tour route to ensure that you need medical care.
Second, don't go to the occasion to talk about the door. Whether it is a unit or a community, there are always some people who get together, gossip and gossip, and comment on other people's family affairs, but this is often prone to trouble.
We shouldn't pay too much attention to others, and we shouldn't reveal too much about ourselves. Keep your distance and avoid such occasions to be clean.
Third, reduce your association with relatives who love to show off. Some relatives have a clear sense of superiority and like to talk about it in front of us, which often stems from their inner turmoil.
In the face of such people, we don't have to be guilty. Everyone has the right to choose their own path. Only by keeping an appropriate distance and responding with enthusiasm and courtesy can we avoid unnecessary comparisons and gratuitous quarrels.
Fourth, stay away from entertainment venues and build a healthy life. As we get older, we should pay more attention to our health. High-consumption entertainment venues such as nightclubs, bars, and chess and card rooms are not suitable for our age group.
Only by being clean and self-disciplined can you enjoy your old age in peace. Fifth, avoid associating with people who have very different philosophies. Communicating with people who do not agree with the three views often makes people irritable. It's hard for us to change the minds of others, and instead of wasting time arguing, it's better to keep our distance and go our separate ways.
Of course, the meaning of life is not just about avoiding danger. We can also be happy on other levels. For example, go for a walk in the park, breathe in the fresh air, appreciate the wonderful world, and exercise moderately.
Read at home, write and write, record the bits and pieces of life, gather family fun with children, talk and laugh, make like-minded friends, and encourage each other!