This sentence"I understand a lot of truths, but I still can't live this life."Although you have calloused ears when you hear it, it still makes sense, because knowing a lot of truth does not mean that you can live well.
Only when you really understand life will you know how to make yourself better. I admire Zeng Shiqiang very much about this, his simple words let you understand how to live life in order to live better. Just like the following three sentences, it is no exaggeration to say that it can take you to understand life.
1. The way to success is to talk less about yourself and let others talk about it
One of the things that I found very interesting was that several people were chatting together, and everyone was rushing to talk about their own business, but they were still able to communicate normally. In fact, this kind of communication is not meaningful, everyone is just seizing the opportunity to brush up on the sense of existence, not effective communication.
I think that really effective communication, or the way to communicate in interpersonal communication, is mainly to talk less about yourself and let the other person talk more. Because everyone needs to be valued, once you understand this, you have the initiative in interpersonal communication, and it is you who take the initiative to let others say more.
In this way, the other party must be grateful for your attention to him, and also grateful for your listening, and will share any good things with you in the future, and be willing to tell you if there is a good opportunity. You see, you just don't have a lot of urgency to talk less when you are in a relationship, and you have more possibilities to succeed if you listen to others.
2. It is better to change yourself than to change others
Growing up, you've already discovered that trying to change others is futile, and not only does it not solve anything, but it also leads to more unnecessary arguments. If you don't like the habits of your parents, siblings, or lovers, don't try to change them.
Because no one wants others to say about themselves, even between the closest couples. The best thing to do is to change your perspective or become an inclusive person. If you don't do enough, continue to work hard to improve yourself, so that you don't want to change others anymore.
This is like what is said in the Analects"People don't know and don't get angry".If you do it, you will be a gentleman. Of course, the most important thing is to change yourself, don't revolve around others, family or friends, they all have their own life habits, not easy to change, after you do tolerance, work hard to change yourself is the right way.
3. The meaning of life is to give rather than receive
It's a phrase I've always believed in"Only ask about the hard work, not the harvest"., that is, pay first, as for the result, it is not up to you to control. For example, if you plant corn, as long as you work hard, plough the land, sow seeds, fertilize and get rid of pests, the rest is waiting for the harvest.
In the process of cultivation, you have done a good job in these links, unless you encounter a natural disaster, the harvest is nine times out of ten. As for the result, if an acre of land produces 1,000 catties normally, you may harvest so much, and it is useless for you to pursue more results.
In the same way, when you are doing something, you always want to get some kind of result, but it is a waste of energy, it is better not to think about anything.
Give all the money you should give, go all out to do it, and don't ask about the result, but the result is often good, because your hard work has already determined your harvest. So, when you just give, your life will be better than it is now.
These three sentences of Professor Zeng Shiqiang seem to be very easy to understand, and even a bit like a famous quote on the bad street?In fact, the truth of life is very simple, complicated people.
When you understand the above sentence, your life will be better, and slowly you will also understand life.