Love is like the cycle of the four seasons, sometimes the sun is shining, sometimes the wind and rain are combined, and sometimes it has entered a long "window period". For women, in the days of long-term lack of love nourishment, their hearts and behaviors often show some common characteristics. These characteristics are not deliberate, but a natural reaction to the absence of emotion. Today, let's take a look at the 5 behaviors that most of the women in the long-term "window period" will have.
There was once a girl named Xiaomin, who was elegant and independent, but the road to love has not been smooth. After experiencing several relationships that ended without a problem, she entered a long "window period". During this time, there have been many subtle changes in her behavior and mentality, and it is these changes that give us a glimpse into the inner world of women in the "window period".
1. Be more independent.
Women who have long "gaps" tend to become more independent. They are accustomed to handling the big and small affairs of life on their own and are no longer dependent on others. This independence is not only reflected in their ability to take care of themselves in life, but also in their spiritual pursuit and self-growth.
During the "window period", Xiao Min not only learned how to repair electrical appliances at home, but also began to study various courses on his own to continuously improve his ability. She found out that she could be so powerful and independent.
2. Reduced social activities.
Women who lack love tend to socialize less and are more inclined to spend time alone. It's not because they're not socially adept, it's because they're looking for a sense of inner peace and comfort.
Min used to be the center of attention in social situations, but during the "window period", she chose to reduce the number of parties and events. She prefers to read a book quietly at home, listen to ** or think about life alone.
3. Both longing and fearing love.
Women who have been single for a long time tend to have both a desire and a fear of love. They long for someone to accompany them through every stage of their lives, sharing their joys and sorrowsBut at the same time, they are afraid of being hurt again and that they will not be rewarded for their efforts.
In the dead of night, Xiao Min often thinks of past relationships, and her heart is full of longing for love. But when a friend introduces her to a new partner, she always finds various reasons to shirk it, afraid of stepping into the whirlpool of love again.
Fourth, pay more attention to self-improvement.
Women in the "window period" tend to be more focused on self-improvement. They understand that only by constantly improving themselves can they show their best when they meet the right people. Therefore, they will continue to work hard in study, work, hobbies, etc.
Xiao Min not only performed well in her work during the "window period", but also actively learned new skills and cultivated new hobbies. She signed up for yoga classes, learned cooking skills, and her life became more colorful.
Fifth, the inner contradiction struggle.
Women who have been single for a long time are often full of contradictions and struggles in their hearts. On the one hand, they enjoy the freedom and independence of being single, and on the other hand, they crave companionship and love. This contradiction puts them in an emotionally unstable state.
Xiao Min often sees friends posting sweet moments with lovers in the circle of friends, and she can't help but feel a little envious and disappointed. But she also told herself that being single is also good about being single, and there is no need to rush to find love. This inner struggle made her feel irritable from time to time.
As Shakespeare said, "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all living beings and everything in the world." "For these women, we should give more understanding and care to help them get out of the emotional predicament and rediscover the sunshine and warmth of life. At the same time, we also need to understand that everyone has their own rhythm and timing, and there is no need to rush, when love comes, we will find that all the waiting and effort is worth it.