The crowd looked for her thousands, and suddenly looked back, but the person was in the dim light. ”
Finding a girlfriend is a headache enough, and now you have to face an even bigger problem - what should you call your girlfriend's sister?
1. When meeting for the first time, it is embarrassing and polite
I remember the first time I met my girlfriend's sister was at a family party. At that time, I was so nervous that it was like "fifteen buckets of water - seven up and eight down".
I knew that first impression was important, so I dressed up to make a good impression on her. But as soon as I walked in the door, I was dumbfounded. This sister looks exactly like my idol star when I was a child, and I was a little at a loss.
Fortunately, my girlfriend relieved me in time and gently said in my ear, "Relax, she won't eat you." I came back to my senses and said hello to my sister shyly.
Second, gradually get better and find each other's commonalities
is the same person who has fallen to the end of the world, why should we have known each other when we meet. ”
As the relationship deepened, I found that my girlfriend's sister was not only beautiful, but also very easy-going. She likes to travel and photography, and she hit it off with me, an outdoor enthusiast.
We often share interesting facts and beautiful scenery from our travels, and she also recommends some good places to take pictures.
Once, she even offered to lend me a book of photographs that she had treasured for many years, so that I could study it. At that moment, I really felt like we were old friends.
Third, the vignette on the title adds interest to life
I've always struggled with the question of addressing.
Just call it "sister", it seems a bit raw;It's called by name, and I don't feel very respectful.
One time I couldn't help it, so I asked my girlfriend, "What should I call your sister?""My girlfriend laughed when she heard it:"Fool, you just follow me and call her 'old lady'!
Since then, I have been calling her "old lady" with my girlfriend, which is both kind and polite, and it also adds a lot of fun to life between us.
Fourth, dig deeper and discover the differences between each other
The dragon gave birth to nine sons, and the sons were different. Although my girlfriend's sister and I have a lot in common, after all, we are two independent people, and there are still many differences in personality and habits.
For example, she is very careful and thoughtful, while I am more coarseShe likes to be quiet and alone, while I like to call friends.
These differences will inevitably cause some small frictions in the process of getting along. But every time we encounter a problem, we communicate openly and understand each other. It is this tolerance and understanding that makes our relationship more harmonious.
5. Support each other and face the challenges of life together
The cold years know the pines and cypresses, and the adversity sees the truth. ”
There will always be some unexpected challenges and difficulties in life. When my girlfriend and I were having some difficulties, her sister was always the first to stand up and give us support and encouragement.
She will help us analyze the problem and make suggestions;It will also give us material and moral support at critical moments. With her help and support, we are able to face life's challenges and difficulties more courageously.
Conclusion:
"There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor. Although I am not related by blood or legally related to my girlfriend's sister, our relationship is as deep as a relative.
Through this experience, I learned that it is not important to be called, but to be sincere and trusting with each other, as well as the determination and courage to support each other and grow together.