Love is like a gust of wind, blowing it away when it is finished;Xiao San is like a dog skin plaster, and he can't get rid of it. ”
When the wind of love blows, it is not always good memories left, and sometimes there are those little ones who are as difficult to get rid of as a dog skin plaster.
In the face of such a dilemma, how to deal with it?Listen to me slowly.
1. Clear attitude: If you don't like it, please let it go
When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. "In the face of the entanglement of the junior, first of all, you have to be clear about your attitude. If you don't have any nostalgia for the relationship, then you have to make a decisive decision.
My friend Xiao Li has been in such a situation, and she has handled it resolutely and rationally. She went directly to Xiao San and told her in a calm but firm tone: "We're over, please don't disturb my life in the future." ”
2. Keep your distance: out of sight is clean
Distance produces beauty and solves troubles. "Once you've decided that you want to draw a line with your junior, you have to keep a certain distance in your daily life. Try to avoid meeting alone and not interacting frequently on social networks.
My colleague Xiao Zhang was soft-hearted, and met under Xiao San's repeated begging to "make it clear", but Xiao San took the opportunity to entangle. So, keeping a distance is one of the effective ways to get rid of the junior.
3. With the help of external forces: ask relatives and friends to help
A fence with three piles, a hero with three gangs. "When you find yourself struggling to cope with the pestering of the junior, you may wish to ask for help from relatives and friends around you.
They may be able to give you some practical advice or help you face the junior directly. My cousin once met a difficult mistress, and in the end, it was her brother who came forward to warn the mistress and made the other party restrain his behavior.
Fourth, the law**: to protect their own rights and interests
The law does not protect those who sleep on the right. "If the entanglement of the junior has seriously affected your normal life, and even involves personal safety or property rights and interests, then you need to take up the law to protect yourself.
My neighbor Xiao Wang once chose to call the police when he couldn't bear it, and finally let Xiao San get the punishment he deserved through legal means.
5. Psychological adjustment: get out of the shadows and welcome a new life
Seon lost his horse, but he didn't know if it was a blessing. "After experiencing the entanglement of the mistress, you may feel tired, frustrated, or even lose faith in love. But remember, every experience is an opportunity to grow.
You can learn from this experience, adjust your mindset and mate selection criteria, and embrace your new life with a more mature and rational attitude.
After experiencing a failed relationship, my cousin not only came out of the shadows through self-adjustment and psychological counseling, but also found her true happiness.
Conclusion:
Life is like a play, because of fate, we get together;If Xiao San comes to stir up the situation, don't hesitate to cut the mess quickly. ”
In the face of the entanglement of the junior, what we need is reason and courage. By clarifying our attitudes, keeping our distance, relying on external forces, using the law, and making psychological adjustments, we can gradually get rid of our difficulties and regain the beauty and confidence of life.
I hope that every friend who has experienced similar troubles can find their own happiness and peace as soon as possible.