1. True love is not simply giving and pleased, but also needs appropriate refusal, criticism on the basis of facts, and calm discussion. In this way, love can avoid becoming a slave to desire.
2. People always accuse a person of being lazy, but the essence of laziness is not feeling the meaning of a thing.
3. Only by doing something that you think is meaningful can your heart feel stability and joy.
4. The meaning of love should be to let the two parties involved move towards the broadest tolerance and the most tender acceptance, rather than towards domineering possession and outrageous commands.
5. The difference between people and trees is that trees can only grow bigger and bigger, but people's minds may become lower and lower.
6. There are only two ways to face suffering: accept it and despise it, or not accept it and overcome it. In fact, in the end you only have one option: accept it and look down on it.
7. True maturity is: you can feel happiness no matter what the situation.
8. Everyone's psychology is more or less problematic, because there is no truly mature person.
9. Self-discipline does not arise in a vacuum, interest and meaning are the prerequisites for maintaining long-term "self-discipline".
10. Delayed gratification is a crap for people who find interest and meaning. Because when you do something that interests or makes sense, the process is fulfillment.
11. Don't expect others to solve your problems, that will only make you more vulnerable.
12. It is best not to distinguish whether other people's words are ugly or good, but more importantly, to distinguish whether there is any nutrition in those words.
13. If a person does not believe in the strength of his body and mind, he will have no power.
14. A person who always feels that he is sick, he will really get sick.
15. The premise of success is: being able to accept failure.
16. Time is a lie of the brain, if you don't do more than what you haven't done, the brain will tell you that time is passing faster and faster.
17. Xi are the rigid instructions in the brain that control your words and actions, and then control your life.
18. How to maintain the feeling of first love?Always empty all impressions of the other person.
19. You must first recognize yourself as worthy of love, so that you will not degenerate into a person who is not worthy of love.