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Don't criticize your former self, when you were standing alone in the wind and rain, you were also confused. Don't regret your choice in the past, what you can choose is already the best choice for yourself at that time, holding on to the past is overthinking, not reluctantly drawing the ground as a prison, you just need to enjoy the moment, there must be a road before the car to the mountain, and go with the flow after doing your best.
Every simple girl becomes smart once after experiencing a thing, so don't judge your previous self, it's also a part of your growth, and cherishing what you have now is the most important thing.
Wise and foolish girls are the smartest, life is not only to experience happiness, but also to experience sadness, is the beginning of our opening of the pattern, learn to soothe our hearts, allow ourselves to be simple, allow ourselves to be big, allow ourselves to be kind, but after we experience life issues, grow into a wildflower that cannot be defeated.
We must respect our personal destiny, not pity others too much, focus on ourselves, improve our cognition, break all the inherent thinking, reorganize positive thinking cognition, and accept new things and new environments.
In the age of the earth, it is constantly changing, allowing renewal, allowing the unknown to happen, and being yourself in the moment.
There is no need to worry about what has not happened, and there is no need to be anxious. What has happened must be acknowledged and let it be.
Smart girls will keep a low profile and be modest in the crowd, don't climb with anyone, and won't get too close to anyone, because they understand that people rely on character to attract people, and what kind of person you are, what kind of person you attract.
In the end, people rely on conscience and character, what they hear from the outside is not necessarily true, most of the superficial things are because of the needs of the scene, don't look at what others say, you have to feel with your heart, the feeling part is the real you, you can help you screen out people and things with good character to come to you.
So, what you see in the world is your own inner aspect, and the problem is not in the aspect of others, but in your own inner aspect, to perceive the inside, to see the true essence behind the surface, to withdraw from the three-dimensional world, and to look at it as a bystander with righteous mindfulness.
Smart girls will keep themselves awake in the crowd and know that they are coming from ** and going to **.
Know what resources we have, what kind of things we can do, what goals we should have in life, what we have done right and what we have done wrong, what kind of life we want, and what kind of efforts we should make.
Smart girls will use their own resources, feedback, modify their behavior, benefit others, and ultimately achieve their own goals, rather than spending their time on meaningless things.
Smart girls don't look at other people's problems, they look at their own. First of all, you are the most important thing, if you don't know yourself, know yourself, love yourself, and lose your temper at others without moving, that is the most irrational behavior.
In the life of life, the one who accompanies you the longest is yourself, take good care of your inner emotions, and heal your inner children.
Man's greatest enemy is not anyone else, but yourself. Don't rush to the front in everything, think twice before acting, don't have to work too hard in life, slow down and live well, listen to the inner voice, whether it's involution, Buddhism, go at your own pace, others can't define you, only you define yourself.
I hope that every girl can be financially independent, live smart, transparent, calm, gentle, empathetic, and be a girl with high emotional intelligence, open-minded and wise.
01.Regardless of the nossiness
There is a ruler to be a man, and it is important to have a degree. Leave enough space for each other to stay in the most comfortable state.
It's better to worry about other people's idle things, than to do a practical thing for yourself.
Read more books to improve cognition, open your eyes, and be less nosy. This is the great wisdom of the world.
02.It doesn't matter
The ancients said: If you don't do it, you won't be a guarantor, and you will have no troubles in your life. Being an intermediary for someone with feelings is the most unflattering thing.
The two of them are going to break up today, and they may be reconciled tomorrow. Persuasion and persuasion, it's all yours or not, Zhu Bajie looks in the mirror, and he is not a person inside and out.
Therefore, when encountering other people's feelings, it is best not to get involved.
03.Regardless of family matters
As the old saying goes: It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. When tongues and teeth are still fighting, when the family is together, the spoon will always touch the edge of the pot.
The turmoil in this, my family is still unclear, what does an outsider know?
So, don't worry about other people's family affairs, we don't have this authority, and we don't have this ability.
01.Don't speak ill
The mouth is a hurting axe, and words are a tongue-cutting knife. Don't attack people's shortcomings and expose their scars.
Everyone has dignity and good face, so in life, don't expose people's shortcomings and say bad things about people behind their backs.
02.Don't talk crazy
As the saying goes: "If the sky is mad, there will be rain, and if the man is crazy, there will be woe." If you are not low-key, disaster will fall from the sky.
There are people outside the world, there is a sky outside the sky, there is no harm in not publicizing in front of people, leaving room for trouble, being modest, and being modest.
03.Don't complain
Life is not easy, and everyone is moving forward with a load. Complaining won't solve anything, it will only spread negative energy.
When you encounter a problem, first find the cause from yourself. It is better to live a lifetime and complain for one day than to work hard for one day.
04.Don't talk empty words
Don't talk worthless nonsense, it's useless to talk more, it's just right.
Madame does not speak, and her words must be true"What Confucius meant by this is that a person either doesn't speak, or he says the right thing as soon as he speaks.
01.Reckless can't help
To help others, we must also do what we can. If you are within your ability, you can help, and if you are beyond your ability, don't be reckless to help.
02.Crossing the line can't help
Between people, no matter how good the relationship is, we must also understand proportion. If you cross the line to help, others may not appreciate your kindness. A moment of righteousness helps, and it is easy to become"Nosy"。
03.I can't help if I don't know how to be grateful
Between people, it is love to help, and it is duty not to help. There are always people who take other people's contributions for granted, blindly asking for them without being grateful. People's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, and good intentions are wrongly paid for self-damage.
04.Helping the poor can't help
Helping the emergency is not helping the poor, helping the poor is not helping the lazy. When a person is in trouble, it is appropriate to help, this is to accumulate blessings for himself. But if a person is unwilling to move forward and is destitute, your help will only increase his dependence.
05.Beyond the bottom line of the help does not help
No matter what kind of friend you are, you must have a bottom line to help. Anything that violates morality and the law must not be helped.
I hope the above sharing will be helpful to you, be grateful to meet, love yourself well, eat well, do what you like, and be full of positive energy to life.
A girl's proudest capital is not beauty, nor other people, but she has experienced a low period, and she still maintains a sincere and kind heart, even God will not treat such a woman badly, she is destined to turn over.
Because her strong heart makes her not afraid of the dark, all the hardships and challenges will only make her better appreciate every ray of light in life, believe me, you are that light, everything you pursue is on your way forward.
You are the protagonist of your own life. Don't live in someone else's script, be your own screenwriter.
When we pay too much attention to the evaluations and opinions of others, and keep living in the expectations and approvals of others, then we will lose ourselves more and more, and thus ruin our own lives.
The reason why a girl is charming is because she is good at being herself. We foresee the sadness and tears behind all the goodness, but we are still willing to go, not forgetting the original intention, so that we can always go.
The wind rises at the end of the green ping, and the waves become between the waves. If you don't have confidence in yourself one day, please remember one sentence:
The bottom of the valley will also bloom, sink to the bottom of the sea to look at the moon, and wait until the day when the bitterness comes, the mountains, rivers, stars and moon will be more congratulatory gifts, and the roads you have walked through the stars and the moon will eventually bloom.
Are you looking forward to that better self, so instead of complaining about the darkness, it is better to carry the lantern forward, come on, please hold on a little more for yourself.
We have to understand that there has to be an experience in life that you have to go through by yourself, you are full of pain, and then you are full of loneliness, but that thing is called growth.
A good life and a happy experience cannot bring growth, so you can see many people who are still very naïve when they are forty or fifty years old, which means that they have never suffered, and the things that can make you grow are the things that make you reflect, and not evolving does not mean destruction, but evolution is painful.
There are many individuals in this world, you don't need to make do with it, you just be yourself, you are your own little universe, you are your own little sun, you are your own king.
May you be like a little sun, with your own ability and a smile, to transmit positive energy to this beautiful world and be with all things.
Author's introduction [upward precipitation].
My love of writing is my daily life, and I am a brave girl who is changing herself through writing, and she wants to live her life the way she likes.