"Ah Lian, can you hear it, this lonely day, I can't stop singing longing, Ah Lian, can you feel that although this is far away, it is a constant relationship.
In 1995, at the age of 25Dai JunThe song "Ah Lian" was released, and the song with easy-to-understand lyrics and catchy melody quickly gained the love and support of the public once it was released.
After becoming popular with this song, Dai Jun not only had countless fans, but was also named "the favorite singer of the national audience" by CCTV for a time, which shows how good his development in the music scene was at that time!
What is incomprehensible is that Dai Jun, who was a household name back then, has now faded out of the public's sight, and when he is mentioned, most people think of his identity as a host and actor.
After becoming popular with the song "Ah Lian", what did Dai Jun experience?Now 52 years old, he is still single, why is this?
One
Dai Jun was born in Shanghai on November 13, 1970, his father was a worker at Shanghai Baoshan Iron and Steel Factory, and his mother was a primary school physical education teacher.
Dai Jun is the youngest child in the family, and there is an older brother above him, and the two brothers, who grew up together, have a very good relationship.
Although he did not live in a wealthy family, in that era, Dai Jun's family was already very good, so he lived a very happy life when he was a child.
Dai Jun, who lived a carefree life in his childhood, followed his brother everywhere every day, walking the streets and alleys, chasing in the fields, etc., but unfortunately this happy life changed when he was 17 years old
This year, his father died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, and the originally happy family became shattered in an instant with the sudden death of his father.
After the death of his father, the burden of supporting their brothers fell on his mother's shoulders, so his mother had to work hard to earn money.
In 1989, Dai Jun, who was only 19 years old, went south to Shenzhen, Guangdong Province alone and worked in an electronics factory.
His job at that time was to work on the assembly line every day, just like other workers, for a meager income.
In his spare time, Dai Jun fell in love with **, and every day whenever he had time, he would take out the tape recorder to listen to some popular songs.
Dreaming of becoming a singer, he left the original electronics factory in the second year of coming to Shenzhen and began to sing in Shenzhen.
With his talent, as well as his longer and longer singing time in major *** and his singing skills getting better and better, he began to work hard to find good development opportunities.
Seeing that many resident singers have become popular after entering the music industry, Dai Jun has also been looking for opportunities to enter the music industry.
II
Since 1992, in order to enter the music scene, Dai Jun has participated in many singing competitions, and has achieved very good results.
For example, in 1992, when he participated in the Pioneer Cup Karaoke Competition, he won the Best Typhoon Award in the national division in one fell swoop, and in 1993, when he participated in the National Song Rookie Invitational Competition, he won the gold medal in the popular group.
With this singing competition one after another, Dai Jun, who gradually made a certain name in the music world, resolutely left Shenzhen, which had been developed for many years, and went north to Beijing for development in order to develop better.
In 1994, Dai Jun was signed by ** company not long after he came to Beijing, and since then he has officially become a professional singer.
In January 1995, the second year after signing the contract, the company launched "Arlene Bride" tailored for him.
After the launch of this **, it has been loved by countless fans, especially the title song "Ah Lian's Song", which not only made him popular all over the country, but also made him rated as "the favorite singer of the national audience" by **People's Radio.
He was only 25 years old at the time, and he became a popular singer overnight, but unfortunately, his subsequent development did not go as smoothly as everyone imagined.
After becoming popular with the song "Ah Lian", Dai Jun first cooperated with singer Yang Man to release the song "Friends Like You", and later launched the second personal ** "Confidant, Concern" under the company's strong support, but unfortunately all the responses were mediocre.
In 1997, I don't know if the company felt that his development prospects were over, or if he wanted to find a bigger stage, he terminated his contract with the original company and signed a contract with another record company.
As a result, the newly signed company not only did not praise him, but in the second year of signing the contract with him, there was a legal dispute between the two parties when the contract was terminated with him.
Since 1999, when he had a legal dispute with his second record company, Dai Jun seemed to have disappeared and did not appear in front of the public for two years.
It wasn't until 2001, two years after fading out of the music scene, that he returned to the public eye, but this time, he did not appear as a singer, but became a host.
III
In 2001, Dai Jun, whose development was hindered on the road of **, returned to the public eye as a host, and he partnered with the famous host Li Jing to cooperate in the interview show "Super Interview".
What people didn't expect was that as a singer, he was able to host the show very well after transforming into a host, and after the show was launched, it received the attention of countless audiences, and he became popular again.
After becoming popular with the show "Super Interview", Dai Jun completely transformed into a host, focusing on hosting.
In addition to continuing to host the show "Super Interview", he also hosted variety shows such as "Good Songs Are the Most Popular", "Guess a Woman's Heart", and "Women Are 100%".
As the audience became more and more familiar with him, he also entered the showbiz development,Since 2002, Dai Jun has successively participated in film and television works such as "Protein Girl", "Give Me a Cigarette", "Live Up to My Duty", "Marriage Defense War" and so on.
Although he basically plays supporting roles, as he participates in more and more works, he gradually makes the audience remember him.
After slowly stabilizing his career with the identity of the host and actor, Dai Jun also tried to develop his career, such as launching "Ah Lian 2004", etc., but compared with the career of the host and actor, his later development in the music industry did not get too much attention.
And with the development of the entertainment industry getting better and better, in 2014, he planned and produced his first variety show "Dai Jun Talk Show", but unfortunately the response of this show was not particularly big.
In 2015, with a good career, he and his friends set up a company called "Lian Coffee", which was initially engaged in providing delivery services for branded coffee, and later gradually upgraded to coffee retail due to its particularly good development.
Under the careful management of him and his partners, the company has been developing very well, and Dai Jun has more confidence as a result.
However, although he has a personal career, Dai Jun has not given up his acting career, on the contrary, he has been working hard to develop in the entertainment industry over the years.
Fourth
First of all, as a host, over the years, he has participated in the recording of many variety shows, although he is not the host of the show many times, but his performance in the show has been recognized by the audience.
For example, we can see him in the popular programs such as "The Masked Singer", "Familiar Taste", and "Variety Show" in recent years.
At the same time, he has also been developing in the film and television industry, although he is not an actor from a professional class, there are not many directors who ask him to film.
Judging from Dai Jun's performances in recent years, such as "Dad is Wangcai", "Our Best Ten Years", "The Legend of He Xiangu", "The Fog of the Octagonal Pavilion", etc., his performance in these works is still very good.
In contrast, Dai Jun, who has developed particularly well in terms of hosts and actors over the years, has been in a tepid state in his career as a singer, and even in the hearts of many people, everyone has long forgotten his identity as a singer.
After all, judging from his development over the years, his identity in front of the public is either a host or an actor, and he rarely appears as a singer.
Perhaps, in Dai Jun's heart, he has long given up the identity of the singer who made him popular in the first place, or perhaps, in the cruel competition of the music scene, he has never developed, so he has to give up the path of being a singer.
Fortunately, when his career was blocked, he developed particularly well as a host and actor, and from this point of view, he can be regarded as finding a way out.
Compared with Dai Jun's current development in terms of **, in fact, more people are concerned about his emotional status.
Five
Since he became popular with the song "Ah Lian", Dai Jun has rarely been rumored to have emotional scandals.
Many people think that he is too low-key and does not want to reveal his relationship status, but in fact, the main reason is that he has experienced emotional difficulties one after another.
When he was younger, he had two relationships, both of which were very similar, at first he and the other person had a very good relationship, but then they broke up for various reasons.
After two failed relationships in succession, Dai Jun gradually lost confidence in his relationship, and because of this, he never started a new relationship.
His mother didn't pay much attention to this at first, thinking that he was still young and just wanted to develop a career, but as he got older, his mother finally began to urge him to get married.
Since 2010, the 40-year-old Dai Jun has often been urged to marry by his mother, and every time the two meet, his mother can't help but nagging in his ear.
In this regard, Dai Jun promised to get married as soon as possible every time, but it was not taken seriously after turning around, with the passage of time, he has not started a new relationship, although he is now 52 years old, but he is still in a single state.
As for when Dai Jun, who is over half a hundred years old, will be able to reap his happiness and satisfy his mother's wish for him to get married, this can only be proved by time.
Six
Now 52-year-old Dai Jun, as always, is developing his career, in 2022, he has participated in large-scale galas such as "Our Village Evening", as well as "Beautiful Years Workshop", "Everyday Upward" and other programs.
Compared with when he was young, although his current development is not particularly good, compared with many of his peers, or singers who debuted at the same time, he can still be active in front of the public, which is already very good.
He was once popular, but after experiencing the trough of his career, and after the successful transformation, he became popular and lonely again, and the ups and downs of his career have already calmed his mentality.
Now that he no longer expects much development in his career, he just wants to continue to engage in the career he loves, continue to appear in front of the audience and fans who like him, that's all.
As for the relationship, after experiencing emotional frustration, he no longer insists on when he can have the happiness that belongs to him.
After all, after going through so much, he also understands that feelings can't be forced, let alone compromised, which may be why he is still single now.
Here, I wish him to develop his career better and better in his future acting career, and gain more fans who love and support him.
At the same time, I also wish him to reap his happiness as soon as possible, so that his mother will no longer worry about his life's events.