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Parents have always been worried about their children, although children are indeed growing up, but when they are young, parents will worry about their children's growth, and then they will be older than their children's education, and when their children are really **, they will start to worry about their lives.
For parents, love for their children is a lifelong experience, however, we must also have a clear and rational understanding of this, that is, after the age of 50, we should moderately reduce the degree of "generosity" for children to avoid harming them.
Why do you say that?In fact, the reason is very simple, excessive spoiling is not good for children, but will make them lose the courage to meet the challenge, and if parents let go a little, they can let their children have more opportunities to show themselves.
First, most of the children of 50-year-old parents are adults, and it stands to reason that they already have their own thoughts, and if they are treated as they did at the beginning, it is likely that the children will lose their creativity.
For young people, it is important for them to learn to take responsibility for their choices because they are more inclined to take a new path and are often willing to make their own decisions.
From the perspective of family education, parents attach importance to the improvement of their children's knowledge level, but more importantly, it should be the improvement of children's moral standards and attitude towards life, and cultivate their ability to face society alone, which is what they need most when they enter the society.
Parents can't stay with their children for a lifetime, even if the family has quite assets, there are also cases where the wealth is not more than three generations, in order to make the family life more stable, it is best to shape the child's outlook on life and values.
After you put away the "generosity", the children may seem busy at first, but eventually they will find their own way, and the children who choose to grow up on their own are fundamentally different from the children who grow up completely on the family.
Parents teach independent children that not only are they better able to resist risks in life, but that these children often have their own whimsical ideas and are likely to take it further as they follow the path of their ancestors.
Most of the children who are spoiled by their parents seem to be a little mediocre, and it is difficult to stand out from the crowd, if they can live a plain life, it is good, but after the death of their parents, they often lack the ability to judge affairs, and eventually fail.
Second, as a parent, it is naturally impossible to really ignore their children, put away "generosity" means to appropriately reduce support, rather than completely ignoring their children, in terms of life experience, no matter how to say that parents are more experienced than children.
As elders, we have experienced more things, have a more thorough understanding of affairs, and we all know the right answers to many choices, but when children make choices, we had better wait and let children choose according to their own thinking.
If it's wrong, then we tell them that they're not doing it right, so that they can understand what the right concept of life is, which is the right way to cultivate children's autonomy, rather than telling them the right answer when they don't have a choice.
In this way, of course, the child will avoid detours, but the next time he encounters such a situation, it is difficult for him to make up his mind to make any changes on his own, and it is understandable to give the necessary help and guidance to the children who are not deeply involved in the world, but it is also necessary to pay attention to moderation and balance.
In today's fast-paced world, a lot of information is impacting young people's minds, and in order to get them on the right path, children need some guidance from their parents, but they also need innovative thinking.
For the older generation, the greatest wealth of young people is time, they are still young and have more opportunities to try and make mistakes, so when they grow up, they should let go of their hands appropriately and give them some room for trial and error, even if they fall, they can get up quickly.
Correcting by trial and error at a young age is always much stronger than regretting when you are dying in the future, for parents, this is what they should think about their children, too much interference and help is not the best care for children, but it harms them.
After the age of 50, in fact, there is a subtle change in the relationship between parents and children, from the guide who corrects their path to the runner on the runway of life, and they are always the only ones who can really determine the direction of the future.
Moreover, for parents, at this time, their children may have entered the society, go out to work, and rarely have time to come back, they will have more free time to pay attention to their own lives, and the time that they did not have when they were young is now very abundant.
Therefore, in order to enrich your life, you can expand some hobbies and hobbies, and pay more attention to yourself, after all, for children, parents take care of their bodies is also their greatest expectation.
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