After all, the impetuousness and fast pace of society still affect marriage, and too many young people get married under impulse and divorce under impulse. Unlike younger couples, middle-aged couples have more stable marriages. For women, the longer they stay in marriage, the more lazy they are to toss. They take their responsibilities to the family to heart, taking care of the house, teaching their children, and working with their husbands to earn money to support the family. No matter how hard life is, she and her husband will support each other and go on.
But once a middle-aged woman wants a divorce, she will not look back.
Middle-aged women want to divorce, but they are really chilled and sad in marriage. Middle-aged women are in a much worse situation after divorce than middle-aged men, some women have been in charge of housework and children in marriage, have no work experience and their own social circle, and are no longer young, and it is even more difficult to find a job. If you want to remarry, it is much more difficult than a middle-aged man. From a practical point of view, people are prejudiced against divorced middle-aged women, believing that women are unreliable when they have problems. Middle-aged women still want to divorce when they know their situation, because they are not living well in marriage, and their fragmented life makes them numb, so once they want to divorce, it is impossible to turn back.
They are calmer. Unlike the recklessness of young girls, middle-aged women are calmer and understand their purpose. When they divorced, they wanted to escape from an unhappy marriage. At the same time, they also understand that after decades of getting along, there is no way to save a marriage, and no matter how long it takes and how much energy it takes in the future, it will not be useful, so they no longer have hope for this marriage.
Middle-aged women don't have too many worries. Compared with women who have just married and have children, women have reached middle age, and their children have grown up and have their own lives. Regardless of the need for a healthy family, the child who is already independent may also support the mother's decision.
For them, divorce is not a painful thing, but something to be happy about, because they can be freed from their broken marriage and be their truest selves.