In reality, most people don't like to be defined as poor, and they never want to admit that they are poor. "Poor" here refers not only to money, but also to spiritual wealth.
Why don't many of us like to be told that we are poor?In my opinion, this is the root of our inferiority left over from thousands of years, that is, vanity, good face. I remember seeing a story about a peasant household in the old society whose living conditions were relatively poor, but he was also a good-looking person, one day he passed by the butcher shop and picked up a rag for wiping meat, he hung it behind the door, wiped his mouth every time he went out, and then told others that he was eating meat. One day his daughter-in-law didn't know how to wipe the child's buttocks, and hung there casually, and when he went out, he wiped his mouth again, and then told others that he was eating meat, and everyone laughed, and he wiped his mouth with his hand, ashamed and ashamed, and wanted to find a crack to get into. So this story tells us that people like to show off what they lack. But for some things that they can't ask for, he will say that he doesn't like it, for example, when he talks about money in front of people who don't have money, they will say what's the point of asking for so much money, just enough is enough!
The essence of poverty is that we all say that a gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way. When it comes to money, we all like it, and the more the merrier, and whoever comes does not refuse it. From ancient times to the present, few people can refuse the ** of money, because there is a proverb that says: people die for money, and birds die for food. Sometimes people can give up their lives for the sake of money, so don't say that you don't have a sense of money. Only people like Jack Ma are qualified to say this, because they already have enough money, not those of us who are still struggling to make ends meet. When we also have enough money to meet our life needs, and then talk about my lack of interest in money, I think you are qualified.
Some people regard themselves as high-minded, and always like to talk about money and vulgarity, which is not the work of a gentleman. But for the sake of some false names, why bother!There are also some people who do not hesitate to sell their personality for a little profit, and talk nonsense for others.
Why are we poor, most of us go to work to get off work, and get off work to get to work the next day, day after day, year after year. panicked, just for a few taels of silver. But this broken silver tael crushed the shoulders of the world, and this broken silver tael can solve all kinds of panic in the world, this is life.
Sometimes tell yourself not to be greedy, you can't have everything, and don't be anxious, you can't have nothing. The world is not a pure land, everyone has their own suffering, and it is not easy for everyone. A passage that I particularly like: Life is not easy, individuals seek differently, personal positions are different, don't practice yourself in the hearts of others, don't force others in your own hearts.
When people reach middle age, they don't have too many desires and obsessions, and they always tell themselves that they have nothing to do and go to bed early, and they have time to make more money. Sleep and maintain health, and make money to support yourself. I found an interesting phenomenon, the richer people are, the more they love to read books and drink tea, and they talk about their careers and the future. People who don't have money always like to eat and drink, especially like to drink, after three rounds of drinking, they began to Kan Dashan, as if the world was not in his eyes. The more people who drink tea, the more sober they become, and the more they drink, the more confused they become. Slowly the sober man begins to harvest the confused, and this is the reality.
Oscar Wilde once said: "When I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in the world, but when I was old, I realized that it was really the case." "I never refuse money, even if it is a penny dropped on the road, I like to pick it up, because it is not only a penny, but also an attitude towards money. We often say that money can make the ghost grind, money is omnipotent, although it is a bit exaggerated, but it also shows the importance of money on the side, so don't refuse money, don't be embarrassed to talk about money, people who are willing to talk about money, it means that he still has the motivation to make money, if one day he has no motivation for money, it does not mean that he does not love money, but he has no ability to make money, it is a kind of despair.
Kazuo Inamori said: Money is a person's greatest confidence. Only if you are financially independent, you can't see so much reluctance, and you don't have to be inferior. Only then will you have the confidence to straighten your back and accept love and be loved.
So, live seriously and work hard to earn money. Even if your life will not be bright, you will be calm and quiet!
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