No child in the world isPerfectTarget. Although in the eyes of parents, their children are good from beginning to end, in fact, there will still be some disadvantages, and parents should be good at itDiscoverStrengths and weaknesses of your own children. In many cases, the child's behaviorsurfaceis commendable, but in fact, parents need to pay attention to the personality condition of their children.
Last week I had a relative bring twoKidsCome to my house to play. I found out that one of the children was very smart, and the adults in the family behaved very well towards himPraise。When the parents didn't ask everyone to sit down, another child ran around. But the child just sat quietly and said nothing. I saw something I liked to eat, but I didn't get an adultAllowed, I won't eat it. It seems to be very helpful when answering questions from adultsTimid, dare not face each other.
Relatives at home say that the child is shy, obedient and will not let the parentsWorry, the parents are also very kind to this childProud。But when the relatives left, the father, who had been a teacher for many years, said that the child looked obedient and honest on the surface, but in fact it was obviousLow self-esteemperformance, just parents did not find out. When a child has the following these parents thinkPros:In fact, it is already a manifestation of severe inferiority, and parents should also pay attention to it.
1. Very shy and reluctant to contact strangers
Before entering into oneUnfamiliarWhen it comes to the environment, children will be shy and nervous, after all, it takes a certain amount to adapt to a new environmentprocess。But some children can't do without their parents at a step, and they always want their parents to stay by their side and not with othersCommunicationand look at each other. It's not just a fear of an unfamiliar environment, butNopeA sense of security, a manifestation of inner inferiority. When a child meets a stranger, it willHideBehind the parents' back, don't think that this is a sign of the child's shyness, just to tease the child, and not pay attention to the childTrueproblems.
Most parents would think that quietObedientThe child will let himself worry a lot less. Children who are too naughty and not afraid of unfamiliar environments will always bring to their parentsTrouble, there is such a measure. So when you see a child who is more introverted and shy, it will feel very goodHappy, but others are not clear about the situation, parents must recognize their childrenTrueCircumstance.
2. Let others everywhere and behave too modestly
Usually visit relatives and friends, as long as there is good food, get the parents'Allowed, you can see the children hurriedly choosing their bestI want toTarget. But children with low self-esteem don't care too much about this, and choose to let others take it first, it always seemsAfraidGo with someone else. When someone asked him, he whispered that he would wait until someone else had finished taking it. Adults saw thisCircumstance. , they will take him as an exampleTeachingThe other children, let the other children learn his spirit of melting the pear. But it's because of the children themselvesYesToo much, not as confident as other kidsAfraidCompeting with others or something, always giving way to others first.
3. I listen to my mother too much
Children with low self-esteem have to drag their parents no matter how much they goAccompaniment, have a strong dependence on their parents. When there are adults and himCommunicationWhen they don't have their own opinions, always with their eyesSeekParental help. Or just hide behind my parents and say, I listen to my mother in everything. This kind of performance usually attracts adultsRejoice, will think that this is a good child who listens to his mother. But these are all children who do not have their ownIdeas, not confident, like to rely on the performance of parents.
If a child is confident enough, he will be able to move quickly in an unfamiliar environmentBlend inGet in. When you come across something you like, you will work hard to get it. It will be veryInitiativeIt is also generous and appropriate to express one's thoughts and communicate with others. Therefore, if you find that your child appears aboveCircumstance. Don't be proud of the praise of others, and pay attention to your child's character.
Because in today's society, children don't just need to have good academic performance, goodCharacterIt is also crucial. After all, children with strong self-confidence will have a good job in other areas, even if they do not do well in schoolAchievements
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