As the saying goes, "If it's not a family, it's not a family." People who are able to walk into a family are often considered to have a fate in a past life. Sometimes, this fate can be a passing by accident and coincidence. Today, we are telling the story that takes place in Henan, a wedding full of drama and coincidence.
The bride of Henan faced an unprecedented dilemma on the day of her wedding - the groom's father died.
What's even more special is that the wedding date coincided with the groom's father's funeral day. At this seemingly inconsistency intersection, the story becomes extremely confusing.
Coincidences in the world often transcend the ideas of TV drama screenwriters. In this story, the bride's father-in-law dies on the wedding day, and the wedding unfortunately collides with the day of the funeral. This kind of bizarre plot may seem hard to believe, but it is in this real life that the drama of the story is real.
Through the public information, we learned that the bride in Henan did not give up the wedding in the face of this special situation. Instead, following local custom, she decided to bid farewell to the groom's father at this difficult time. This process is like a drama, first wearing red, then wearing white, first passing through the door, and then putting on linen and filial piety for the elderly. This unique scene made many netizens admire the local Xi, and at the same time pay tribute to the bride, believing that she is a good woman.
*, the bride looks youthful and beautiful, but on this occasion, she dresses solemnly and solemnly.
Wearing a red wedding dress and then changing into a white mourning dress symbolizes that she has become the rightful daughter-in-law of the family.
During the farewell ceremony for the groom's father, she and the groom kowtowed together in the mourning hall to complete the ceremony of this special wedding.
However, there are still many netizens who have questions about such stories. Some questioned why the wedding had to take place on the same day and whether there was an option to reschedule. Some people also think that the bride is a good girl, who knows how to read the general situation, and should cherish it when she meets such a good girl.
In fact, in addition to coincidences, many things also contain a lot of helplessness. In some parts of China, the wedding day cannot be rescheduled, and some places stipulate that if you do not get married on that day, you must marry again after three years, similar to the Xi of filial piety.
For unmarried women, it is better not to attend the funeral of the other family, if they are not married, because in many places it is a taboo. The so-called "coffin wedding" ceremony is usually relatively simple, the newlyweds will first put on auspicious clothes, and then hold a marriage ceremony at home, and then take off the auspicious clothes and change into mourning clothes or white plain clothes, and the husband and wife worship heaven and earth, knock on the tablet of their parents, and complete the whole ceremony.
This story is perhaps reminiscent of life's frustration and coincidence. At this dramatic intersection, weddings and funerals intertwine to show the unpredictability of life. This also makes us think more deeply about traditional Xi and marriage. In dealing with such a special situation, in addition to coincidence, more understanding and tolerance are also needed. Perhaps, it is such a story that makes us cherish every moment of life more and deeply appreciate the wonder of fate and the impermanence of life.