Foreword: In contemporary society, many young people regard civil service work as a stable job, so the public examination has become their goal. However, with that comes some inevitable problems. Especially for couples in love, when one of them successfully lands, it often leads to a change in the relationship. Girls began to complain about their boyfriends becoming different from before, while boys became synonymous with "phoenix men", a phenomenon that has become a hot topic in society. This article will provide readers with a more comprehensive perspective by revealing the experience of a girl complaining about her boyfriend and analyzing the reasons behind this phenomenon.
In recent years, the number of public applicants has continued to rise, especially the enthusiasm of fresh graduates to chase the national examination. Civil service jobs are regarded as iron jobs, and for couples in love, the success of one party in the system often leads to a change in relationship or even termination. This phenomenon is ridiculed as "the first sword on the shore, the first to kill the person you like", and the love and career choices between lovers have produced a helpless contradiction. The experience of a girl complaining about her boyfriend has become a hot topic, and at the same time, the system man has become synonymous with "Phoenix Man".
However, not all boys who come ashore will have this change. The experience of a friend by my side can be used as evidence. The childhood sweetheart's couple were classmates when they were young, and later went to the big city because of the woman's father's career development. However, they meet again in college and begin a sweet relationship. The man took good care of the girl during college, and the relationship between the two was very stable. However, the man has his own graduation plan, and he hopes to get better development through the public examination. Fortunately, the man successfully passed the civil service examination in the local county in the first year of graduation. However, the woman feels that the man has changed. She thinks that there is a lack of common ground between them, and in her opinion, she is still stuck in the innocence of her student days, while the man has entered another world. This example shows that the reason why a girl complains about the change in her boyfriend is not an isolated case, and similar situations are not uncommon in real life.
In recent years, many young people who have been admitted to the civil service have changed their destiny through unremitting study and Xi efforts because of their ordinary family backgrounds, and finally succeeded in the civil service examination. However, once they came ashore, they seemed to forget their experiences and became arrogant. This phenomenon may have something to do with the education they received during their school years. During their time at school, they have not really entered the society, they have not yet experienced the pressure of life, and they only focus on the stable job at present, but do not consider the future development and income. While civil service jobs are relatively stable, most people don't get paid well. In the process of preparing for the civil service examination, many young people lack an understanding of social work and hold an idealistic view that work within the system is prosperous and stable. This perception ignores the problems posed by social phenomena and personal development.
The main problem of the girl complaining about her boyfriend is not that her boyfriend has been admitted to the civil service, but that her boyfriend has become different from the past because he has been admitted to the system. This suggests that the problem is not with the profession itself, but with the misalignment of the values of the two men. Especially for new graduates, it is important to establish the right values. Job stability in civil servants is one thing, but we should not pursue a relatively stable career at the expense of personal development and interests. Especially for girls, they should establish correct values, not rely on others, and be clear about what they want. When facing emotional problems, you should not give up your own learning Xi and growth. Especially for college students, they should focus on their studies and clarify their goals and future plans.
It is very important for students at the university level to have clear goals Xi school. If we plan to take the public examination, we should prepare in advance. There is relatively plenty of time and energy during college, and we should make the most of this time to improve our abilities and competitiveness. Even in a relationship, if both parties have plans to take the public examination, then they can make progress together and support each other. Even if one of them succeeds and the other doesn't, the Xi experience is still valuable and equally important for choosing other career paths.
The future is full of endless possibilities, and we can't just give up on pursuing bigger dreams just for a relatively stable job. Being in love is a part of life, but it can't be the reason why we lose ourselves. Whether we are pursuing a civil service or other career paths, we should all set the right values, insist on self-improvement, and maintain self-confidence and independent thinking during the job search process. Only in this way can we realize our ideals in real life and find a life path that truly suits us.
Conclusion: It is not an isolated case that there is a situation of "breaking up when you go ashore", it may be caused by different values and attitudes towards life. As school students, we should put our studies first and establish the right values. If you plan to become a civil servant, you should prepare in advance. We should cherish the sufficient time and energy during the school period to lay a solid foundation for future development. Whether in our relationship or career, we should stick to our goals and principles and not be influenced by others.