People who like to take advantage often lose more because of a small advantage, because trust and sincerity are more rare than a small advantage.
I posted a fruitful ** of my mother's apple orchard in the circle of friends, and my sister-in-law saw it and sent me a message: "Sister-in-law, can I pick it there?"”
When I asked, I found out that she and a few friends were discussing where to go on the weekend, and then I saw the circle of friends I posted, so I thought about driving over to play.
I thought that my sister-in-law wanted to take care of my mother's business, so I sent her the address and my mother's ** number, and asked her to communicate with my mother directly.
The sister-in-law came over on Saturday morning, and her circle of friends was posted in the evening, so she seemed to be having a good time. In the evening, I called my mother, and my brother interjected and said, "Sister, don't do such a thing in the future." ”
It turned out that my sister-in-law made an appointment with my mother for about 6 people, and asked my mother to prepare a lunch meal, but in the end 16 people went. There were so many more people at once, and I didn't say it in advance, and my brother hurriedly ran to the town to buy vegetables.
After lunch, they went to the apple orchard, and each of them picked a large box, and at the end, they went to the vegetable field to gather a large number of greens. The most important thing is that after they finished eating, picking, and picking, none of them gave money.
Originally, the mother and sister-in-law negotiated 100 per person, but until the sister-in-law and they left, the matter of money was never mentioned at all.
If it was someone else, my mother might have asked directly, but because it was my sister-in-law, my mother was afraid that I would not be able to do well in my mother-in-law's house, so she didn't open her mouth.
Mom said, "Forget it, don't talk about it." Maybe in a few days, she'll give it. Forget about it. ”
If it was something else, I still believed it, but when it came to money, I didn't believe that my sister-in-law would forget it. I remember last year, my husband and I took my parents-in-law to the beach for a trip, and my sister-in-law heard that she wanted to follow.
The ticket was bought by my husband, and the food and accommodation were also with us, but when we went out shopping together, she bought drinks and paid for them, and the first thing she did when she turned around was to give me *** and asked me to give her 19 yuan for drinks.
Later, when we went to the duty-free shop, I took a fancy to a perfume and didn't have enough money, so I asked her to borrow 200 yuan, and on the first night I came back, she reminded me on WeChat and asked me to return the 200 yuan to her.
So if you say she can forget about it, I won't believe it at all, and it's likely that she asked her friends for money, but they wouldn't pay my mother.
My sister-in-law is 31 years old this year, she is not married, and she has talked to several boyfriends without a problem. In the early years, under the pressure of my parents-in-law, I also introduced her to many high-quality boys, but she either disliked that others were not tall enough, or felt that others had no ability to make money.
However, it is clear that the other party is 1.75 meters, and it is clear that the person's monthly salary is 16,000. On the other hand, the sister-in-law herself is one meter five or six tall and has a monthly salary of 4,000.
Her requirements are that the man must be 1.8 meters, have a house and a car without a loan, and have a salary of 18,000. She also said that she was old and didn't want to have children, so she wanted to find someone who had the same Dink ideas as her and met these conditions.
After learning about her personality, I would no longer be kind enough to say that I was going to introduce her to someone, and when I asked, I said that there was no man around me who was worthy of her.
A few days later, I called my mother ** and asked her if her sister-in-law had given her money, and my mother said that my sister-in-law didn't even pick her up.
I was a little angry and sent a voice message to my sister-in-law, and my mother-in-law heard it and said, "Oh, how much money can this have?"Your sister is also advertising your home, and maybe more people will buy it later, and buy more. ”
I said, "I don't need her to help with advertising." Every year before the apples are ripe, there is a boss who decides. If you don't think you have much money, you can help her pay for itAfter saying that, I took out my mother's collection code and put it in front of her.
My mother-in-law pushed my phone away and said, "It's your business, you can solve it yourself." ”
In the first few years of marriage, my sister-in-law looked down on me in various ways, and always took my things without asking, so I had a lot of disputes with her.
At first, my mother-in-law was very protective of my sister-in-law, until one time when my sister-in-law took the gold bracelet that my mother gave me, I directly quarreled in front of them, saying, "If you want to change your daughter-in-law, you can take care of this matter." ”
It was also after that that that the sister-in-law moved out. It is said that the small apartment she lives in now was bought for her by her parents-in-law.
This is the case with my sister-in-law, even if she quarrels with you on the first day, she can still call you to invite her to dinner the next day.
Since she can be cheeky, I don't want to take into account my self-esteem, after she didn't reply to my message, I directly called her ** and told her straight to the point: "You can settle the cost of going to my mother's orchard to pick a few days ago." ”
The sister-in-law said, "Oh, I'm too busy to forget." Wait, I'll give it. ”
I waited for ten minutes, and there was still no news, so I called another ** and said, "If you think it is troublesome to scan the collection code, you can transfer it directly to me, and I will give it to my mother." ”
After I hit the fourth **, I finally received a transfer from my sister-in-law on WeChat, and she said, "Are you as good as that?".”
I replied to her, "That's it." ”
Other people's own brothers still settle accounts, not to mention that this is still my sister-in-law and my mother. She can be cheeky and eat and drink for nothing, I can't let my mother be busy for nothing. For such people, you have to take it for granted.