Love Notebook What is love?What is love?What is a husband and wife?

In the sea of life, it is a blessing to meet people who know and love each other.

Just as Shen Congwen wrote in "Love Letter to Zhang Zhaohe":

Between the green mountains and green waters, I want to hold your hand and walk across this bridge.

On the bridge is green leaves and red flowers, under the bridge is flowing water, the other end of the bridge is green silk, and the end of the bridge is white hair. ”

Today, I would like to recommend you a movie about love.

It is adapted from Nicholas, the "father of pure love" in the United States, and tells the touching love of a pair of lovers who cross life and death.

The name of the movie, is"The Notebook".

After reading the love of this pair of lovers, maybe you can understand what love is in life

What is love?What is a husband and wife?

Love: It is a precious acquaintance, and it is also a short-lived heartbeat

The story begins in a nursing home, a story told by an old grandfather to the grandmother next to him.

In the 40s of the last century, there was a boy named Noah, at the carnival party, who fell in love with the girl Ellie at first sight.

Noah invites Ellie on a date, and the two dance under the night light and lie down on the road and chat.

Noah's uninhibited temperament brings out the lively side of Ellie's nature, and the two young men begin a brief summer romance.

They kissed passionately in full view of everyone, raced unbridled on the tree-lined paths, laughed all the way, and grew joy everywhere.

Noah even takes Ellie to his secret cottage to discuss how the two can decorate the house to their liking after they get married.

As the saying goes, whoever you are, you fall in love with.

Two young people who yearn for freedom in their bones, love like glue on that sunny summer day.

However, the short-term emotion cannot withstand the pressure of the outside world.

Noah is just an ordinary lumberjack, while Ellie's family is well-off and ready to go to the city to study.

The relationship between the two was strongly opposed by Ellie's parents.

After the holidays, Ellie is quickly sent to the city and cut off contact with Noah.

Noah tried his best to find out Ellie's address, and he sent a letter to tell him how much he missed Ellie.

But Noah's letter did not receive a reply.

Noah was unwilling, he insisted on writing letters to Ellie for a year, but every letter was lost.

Noah is discouraged, he decides not to bother Ellie anymore, and the relationship between the two ends without a hitch.

The feelings of childhood are like shooting stars in the sky, although they are bright and bright, they are also fleeting.

Maybe we also had the heart of the electric flint, but the love is shallow, and after all, we rubbed shoulders with each other in the vast sea of people.

If love doesn't come to the end, perhaps the most gentle blessing is to let go.

Just like the writer Tian Wei said, let this silent love become the secret of a lifetime, return to dust, return to rain and dew.

When time goes by and remembers that you have been loved well, you can also reduce your regrets a little.

Love: It is unswerving perseverance, and it is also a two-way rush

After listening to Noah and Ellie's story, the old grandmother sighed.

She asks the old man why Ellie didn't reply to Noah

The old man smiled and continued to tell the story.

It turned out that Ellie didn't deliberately not reply to the letter back then, but her mother hid it from her.

Ellie didn't receive Noah's letter, and thought that her sweetheart was unkind, so she never went to him again.

A few years passed, and Ellie and Noah had their own lives.

Noah fought in World War II and used his military pay to buy the secret hut he once lovedEllie, like most of the girls around her, goes to school, works, and has a fiancé who loves her very much.

The long river of time flows forward, but the years inevitably leave a mark on everyone.

When renovating the secret cabin, Noah would always remember what Ellie had said, painting the walls to her liking color and decorating the room to her liking.

And Ellie can't help but compare Noah to her fiancé.

Fate can tear apart the lovers who accompany each other day and night, and it can also bring the old people who have been separated for a long time back together.

On the eve of her wedding, Ellie sees in the newspaper that Noah is renovating her cottage.

Her heart seemed to have been hit hard, and the bits and pieces of getting along with Noah resurfaced in front of her.

Ellie wants to meet Noah.

The next day, she returned to Noah's secret hut.

Surprised and delighted to see Ellie return, Noah invites Ellie to go boating.

The afterglow of the sunset shone on the shiny lines of the lake, just like when the two of them used to swim in the lake.

Ellie couldn't help but ask Noah, "I've been waiting for you for seven years, why didn't you come to me?".”

Noah was stunned: "I wrote you 365 letters, but you didn't reply to any of them. ”

The former misunderstanding was solved in the conversation, and the two lingered in fiery emotions for a night.

The next morning, Ellie's mother arrived.

Ellie asks her mother why she hid Noah's letter in the first place.

Instead of explaining why, the mother takes Ellie to Noah's factory, where the mud is flying and dusty.

The implication of the mother's words is obvious, if Ellie chooses Noah, the material conditions in the future will not be so good that it will be **.

Is it to live with a poor boy, or to marry a rich second generation and continue to live a prosperous life?

Ellie hesitated.

After returning, the mother gave her daughter all the letters Noah had written, hoping that she would make the right decision.

Alice thought about it, she could give up her privileged life, but she couldn't bear to live up to her fiancé who loved her.

She is determined to leave Noah.

Seeing Ellie packing her bags, Noah and her break out into a heated argument.

Noah is disappointed that Ellie has failed her feelings, and Ellie is angry that Noah doesn't understand her decision.

At the end of the argument, Noah angrily said to Ellie

"If you don't feel like you're missing something, you won't come back!You don't always think about what other people want, what your parents want, you have to think about what you want yourself!”

As it says in "The Ferryman":

Don't be afraid to love because you are afraid of separation, if you compare the results, you will ignore the joy and emotion that the other person brings to you in the process. ”

Noah's words made Ellie's heart tremble.

On the way home, she pulls out the letter Noah once wrote.

The words and sentences on it all condense the deepest affection of a teenager in a long time.

Falling in love doesn't necessarily have results, but it does have meaning. ”

Ellie read, tears welling up in her eyes.

After returning home, Ellie and her fiancé confess their feelings for Noah.

Since no matter who you choose, someone will get hurt, then at least, be worthy of your lover and yourself.

At Ellie's insistence, her fiancé let go, and Ellie and Noah eventually became married.

Writer Suzen said:

The best feeling is to know that someone will not leave you easily, no matter what setbacks and ** you go through, go around in circles, or walk back.

For them, the ordeal is both a test and a catalyst, allowing each other to burst out stronger determination and stronger courage in the long years.

Even if the wind and rain are like obscurity, the original intention will not change;Even if they judge each other, they are closely interdependent.

The people who belong to you, even if they go around and around, will come back to you.

Husband and wife: It is the companionship of long-term affection and the destination of peace of mind

This is the end of Noah and Ellie's story.

The old man closed the diary telling the story, and the old grandmother's eyes were filled with tears.

She finally remembered that she was Ellie, and the person in front of her who told her the story was Noah.

It turned out that Ellie had Alzheimer's disease, and in the past few years, she has been carefully cared for by Noah.

She didn't remember her children, so Noah took her to identify them one by oneShe couldn't take care of herself, so Noah came to the nursing home every day to take care of her.

Once, Ellie wrote on the title page of her diary: "Read our story to me, and I'll come back to you." ”

So for the past few years, Noah has read stories to his wife every day.

Those fragments of stories scattered in the gaps of time are the key to awakening memories and the magic of reviving love.

However, as she grew older, Ellie's condition deteriorated rapidly.

She often talks and laughs one second, and the next second she starts to go crazy and curse.

And Noah also suffered from angina, and his health was not as good as before.

There is a sentence in "The Best Farewell": "Aging is not a battle, but a **."

* Lose your health, memory, and beauty, leaving only an old body and a head full of gray hair.

Even in the face of physical illness and physical aging, no matter how great the love is, there is nothing that can be done.

But the temperature of feelings can make people less cold and lonely when they slide to the end.

One day, Noah suddenly suffered cardiac arrest and was taken to the emergency room.

was finally rescued, and the first thing he did when he woke up was to visit Ellie.

At this time, Ellie was lying alone on the hospital bed with no one around to take care of her.

She saw Noah and gently called his name.

Ellie asks Noah, "Do you think our love can work miracles?"”

Noah: "I think so, because of love, you can come back to me every time." ”

Ellie: "Do you think our love will allow us to leave together?"”

Noah: "I think our love can do anything." ”

After saying goodnight to each other, the two old men held hands and fell asleep.

The next morning, people enter the hospital room and find Ellie and Noah lying peacefully in bed, having stopped breathing.

Ask the world, what is love, and teach people to live and die.

The most touching love is not only when you are young, running across the mountains and seas, but also at the end of your life, there is still love waiting.

As one song goes:

You and I will eventually die, and the river of time will erase the traces of existence.

But since the moment humans learn to love each other, we have gained meaning because of each other's existence.

Recently, I swiped a hot search.

A woman in Henan posted her grandfather's handwritten diary for her grandmother for more than ten years.

My grandmother had been dead for many years, and the paper of the diary had long since yellowed.

can open the diary, and you can still feel between the lines, grandpa's deep affection and nostalgia for grandma.

Netizens left messages and sighed: "This is the most romantic text in the world." ”

In the era when true love is scarce, people are always easily moved by the love that accompanies them until they grow old.

is like Noah and Ellie in the movie, just like many couples from youth to twilight in ordinary life.

has experienced some of the ups and downs of the world, and has seen too many stories of Lan Yinsu, we all know how rare it is to stick to the relationship from the beginning.

It's easy to call your husband, but it's too hard to call your husband;It's easy to call a wife, but it's too hard to call an old woman.

Good love has both the courage to cross the mountains and seas, and the burden of trivial daily life.

As in the movie, Noah said:

"I'm more successful than anyone else in one thing, I love someone with all my heart, and that's enough for me. ”

Oh, yes. The weight of life is nothing but warmth and love;

All I want in my life is to be fed and loved.