Mom s Wonder Boy It s better to cry hard, than to run hard

Mondo Health Updated on 2024-01-28

In the dark corner, the boy said while crying

I want to run faster......I've worked hard......”

His mother squatted aside, did not come forward to hug him, did not say comfort, but looked into his eyes and said a few words with great firmness:

"It's better to cry harder than to run hard. ”

He understood what his mother meant, stabilized his mood a little, and then nodded his head equally firmly.

This is a scene from the movie "Mom's Wonder Boy", which poked the tears of countless people.

In the film, the teenager Su Huawei is a disabled person, but with the encouragement of his mother, he stepped onto the podium of the Olympic Games.

He used his crippled body to chase honor and dreams, and finally broke through the shackles of fate and achieved a legend.

The reason why it has become a legend is that it "starts from the end, becomes from suffering, and starts from hard work".

Su Huawei can rewrite his life, in addition to the careful companionship of his mother, it is also the result of his own efforts.

When he was in distress, he did not secretly grieve himself, but proved his strength with actions.

This should be true for each and every one of us.

After all, "running hard" is more important than "crying hard".

If you go against the current, you can survive in a desperate place

Su Huawei was unlucky.

He was born with jaundice, which caused cerebral spasms and hearing loss.

There was no school to accept him, and Su's mother also took him with her when she went to work in the factory.

Because of this, she delayed her work and was scolded by her boss and disliked by her colleagues.

What's worse is that at night, my son is gone.

She searched like crazy, and finally found her son under a pile of debris.

In the face of her anger, the son just giggled.

When she couldn't bear it anymore, she ruthlessly put her son on the conveyor belt and shouted: "Go, if you don't go, we will die together." ”

Behind the conveyor belt is a dense network of gears, and if you get caught in it, you will surely die.

She tried to stimulate her son, but he sat on the conveyor belt and looked at her blankly.

Seeing that her son was about to fall, Su's mother hurriedly pressed the close button.

There is no easy word in the adult world, and the collapse is often only in an instant.

She couldn't take it anymore, and in desperation, she bit the towel and cried bitterly on the conveyor belt.

Maybe it was the favor of God, and in the next second, a miracle happened.

Little Su Huawei grabbed the railing with both hands, stood up tremblingly, and staggered forward.

Su's mother was overjoyed, ran to her son's side, hugged her son, and let tears flow out.

It was as if, at that moment, nothing could dilute the pain in her heart more than tears.

She knew that her son was "saved."

In order to make her son the same as children of the same age, she insisted on training her son to walk.

Sure enough, after a while, Su Huawei learned to walk.

Long-term exercise not only enhanced Su Huawei's physique, but also brought her a bigger surprise.

Once, Su Huawei was playing in the corridor and was bullied by several children.

He was in a hurry, and ran away while others were not paying attention, and the other children shouted and chased after him.

Su's mother, who was cooking, heard the sound and was surprised to see that her son was far ahead.

She waved the spatula in her hand and excitedly shouted at her son, "Hurry up." ”

Hope, always inadvertently.

It was also this run that Su Ma's mentality changed.

Everyone doesn't think of her son as an ordinary person, but she thinks that her son can be an unordinary person at all.

After being rejected for the para track and field team, she and her son passed by the track and field, and some disabled athletes happened to be running, and Su Huawei unconsciously followed suit.

Surprisingly, he can run faster than many professional athletes.

The coach noticed this talented kid and invited him to join the para track and field team.

Since then, he has officially become a professional athlete.

Along the way, he stumbled, but he was always strong until he started a new life with hard work.

For him, the cracks of life shone into the bright sunshine.

His inspirational experience is just like Napoleon's words: Life is like a river, and I am never afraid to sail against the current.

There is no such thing as a desperate situation, only a desperate situation, and it has always been so.

As long as we are not afraid of difficulties and swim against the current, we can survive in desperate places.

Love that goes both ways

It is an irreplaceable force

From a disabled person to an athlete, Su Huawei's path to advancement is not unrelated to Su Ma.

For many years, Su's mother has endured all the hardships and white eyes.

However, a "mother" gave her a lifelong responsibility.

No matter what problems she encounters, she always tries her best to solve them.

At the beginning of the training camp, Su's mother was not at ease, and took a small horse to sit outside the barbed wire fence every day and quietly watched her son.

As time passed, Su Huawei's natural flaws were also exposed.

He has limited mobility, poor balance, and often falls at the bends of the track.

In order to train her son's balance ability, Su's mother accompanied her to climb the steps.

She also bought boxes and boxes of eggs for her son to step on over and over again to practice Xi.

In order to increase her speed, she accompanied her son to race with the train, pushing the limit little by little.

When the gun starts, he will always be half a beat slower than others because of his weak hearing.

In order to cheer him up, Su's mother often stood at the finish line, smiling and gesturing to him: "Look at Mom, set, go!."”

For Su Huawei, her mother is the spiritual pillar, her gaze, her smile, has endless power.

Every time he leaned over the starting line, he was full of confidence.

All efforts will not be in vain, and all perseverance will not be disappointed.

Su Huawei hung the Olympic gold medal around his mother's neck, and said something heartfelt:

When I was a child, I heard my grandfather say all day long that when you married your father, you didn't have a single gold weapon, so I will give you a lot of gold medals in the future.
Her son's understanding and concern touched Su's mother.

She didn't speak, letting the tears run silently.

"What is more important than the gold medal is love", when the effort is answered, all the hard work is worth it.

However, bad luck picks on the miserable.

Su Huawei's father was injured and hospitalized, and the burden of the whole family fell on Su's mother's shoulders.

She didn't want to delay her son's run, so she worked four jobs by herself and barely made ends meet.

Su's mother used the strength of the whole family to fulfill his dream, and the sensible Su Huawei couldn't bear it, so he ran to be a courier.

After learning the news, Su Ma tried her best to dissuade her, "You have to run to be looked up to." ”

And her son's words made Su's mother cry even more, "Now I look down on myself." ”

In the face of reality, people have to bow their heads.

By chance, Su's mother saw her son staring intently at the game program on TV, and she knew her son's thoughts.

With the help of everyone, Su Huawei participated in the 2008 Beijing Paralympic Games, not only winning the championship in one fell swoop, but also breaking the record.

Even if "a moment of brilliance does not mean eternity", various honors are also proof of his courageous progress.

After years of perseverance, the mother helped her son become a wonder boy, and the son also gave back to the mother infinite warmth and glory.

I've seen such a sentence:

In the face of the sorrow and coldness of life, love is your best**, it is tranquil and soft, but it has indestructible power, it can see the clouds and bring us hope. ”

In this world, there is a kind of love called two-way running.

Love that goes both ways is giving, sharing, and a positive spiritual force.

It can help us overcome hardships and move towards a better life.

An enterprising life can always achieve a counterattack

Someone once said, "The Olympics are a place where heroes are created, and the Paralympics are a place where heroes meet." ”

As athletes with disabilities, only they know the hardships of being able to appear on the Olympic stage through unremitting efforts, and even reach the high podium.

Su Huawei used the hostility and shame he had received in the past as a bargaining chip for his own progress, and finally turned it into supreme glory.

When he won gold one after another, he was no longer a cripple in the eyes of others, but a shining hero.

His glory days have passed, but his credits will not be forgotten.

He has a strong record, competing in four consecutive Paralympic Games, winning six Olympic gold medals in athletics and holding several world records.

Such positive deeds have inspired and inspired many people, including Su Bingtian, who ran the fastest in China at the Tokyo Olympics last year.

Su Bingtian wrote on social **: "Everyone calls me 'Su Shen', and there is also a 'Su God' in my mind." ”

The "Su Shen" he spoke of was Su Huawei.

Su Huawei has also grown a lot from a disabled child who can't walk normally to an Olympic champion who has won glory for the country.

For his years of running hard, he told the truth:

I know I'm slow to start, but that's why I'm going to keep rushing and chasing, and as with my life, I'm just going to catch up from behind.
In fact, he did.

There is no natural good life, no wealthy family background, all he has is a strong and unyielding heart.

Although he was repeatedly hit and tribulated, he kept running forward, facing cold eyes and ridicule, facing cold wind and cold rain, and finally realized the counterattack in life.

And the better the people, the harder, the harder, the luckier.

As early as the 2000 Sydney Paralympics, Su Huawei won three golds and two bronzes, which attracted the special attention of Andy Lau, who was the image ambassador at the time.

Later, Andy Lau learned about his difficult life, so he supported him to continue running in the form of an employee, providing him with life security in disguise and giving him full respect.

Su Huawei has always understood that people cannot rely on tears to win sympathy, but to rely on sweat to win respect.

Because every drop of sweat is a medal for strugglers.

He deserves this respect and luck for his hard work.

Fate made him lose at the starting line, but he desperately chased and won at the finish line.

Ernest Hemingway once said, "Life always leaves us bruised, but in the end, those wounded places will become our strongest places." ”

The road of life is long and obstructive, and the scars of the past will also become hard armor.

As long as we don't give up, even in the face of adversity, we can find light and stand out from the encirclement.

No matter how hard it is, we have to do our best. Unblessed by good fortune, courage is in the skin, spending a lifetime to develop some kind of ambition. ”

At the end of the film, when the theme song "Magical Road" sounded, the real recording of the Olympic Games and the movie pictures alternated, and many viewers cried again.

A mother, a son, born for love, invincible, and together create miracles.

In fact, this touching film is adapted from the true experience of Paralympic champion Su Huawei.

When encountering all kinds of difficulties, Su Huawei in reality also followed his mother's advice, did not "cry hard", but "ran hard", and achieved a successful counterattack.

Suffering fate is not terrible, what is terrible is that there is never the courage and guts to fight against fate.

Life has ups and downs, may you also be like Su Huawei, have the power to break your fate and become the "magic boy" of your own life!

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