See you in heaven Please cherish it, the person who grew up with you

Have you ever been cared for by an old man when you were a child?

They give you the warmth of a meal, and they often nag and remember your daily trivialities.

The warmth of childhood always shines in the depths of memory, no matter how many years have passed.

The same is true for actor Jiang Wenli.

13 years ago, Jiang Wenli made the bits and pieces she got along with her grandfather when she was a child into the movie "See You in Heaven".

In the movie, there is the old house in her memory, the smoke and rain in her hometown, and the grandfather who grew up with her, waiting in place.

Lin Qingxuan said:

Everyone needs a person, a tree, and a hometown in their hearts, which may not have to be real, but it is an unchanging stele.

In every memory, every encounter, there is a little light, a little warmth, a little hope.

If you miss them very much, you might as well take a look at this "See You in Heaven".

The movie begins in the 70s of the last century, in a small rainy southern town.

The heroine Jiang Xiaolan is the incarnation of Jiang Wenli, because her parents are far away in Xinjiang, and she depended on her grandfather when she was a child.

Grandpa is over 80 years old, and his body is still strong.

He baked steamed buns and braided her granddaughter every day, and took her to and from school.

When Xiaolan is a little older and has menstruation, grandpa will carefully popularize physiological knowledge for Xiaolan, and then contact the aunt next door to prepare sanitary pads.

However, despite the care of her grandfather, Xiaolan's childhood is still like the smoke and rain in her hometown, shrouded in a layer of sadness.

Because she has the same surname as the villain, her classmates often chase her and scold her as a traitor, and often prank her.

Xiaolan is very envious of those children who are accompanied by their parents, her parents have not been back for so long that she can't even remember what they look like.

Fortunately, every once in a while, my grandfather would receive a letter from my parents and read it to her.

In the letter, her parents often told Xiaolan to listen to her grandfather, study hard and Xi, and not be affected by the words of her classmates.

Every time she listened to her parents' encouragement, Xiaolan would pick herself up again and jump back to school.

By chance, Xiaolan learned about Chinese gymnastics champion Jiang Shaoyi from TV.

Xiaolan was very excited, because Jiang Shaoyi had the same surname as her.

She fantasized that one day, she would be able to stand on the podium like Jiang Shaoyi and wash away the shame of being bullied by her classmates.

So after returning home, Xiaolan pestered her grandfather to sign up for a gymnastics class.

Grandpa was a little embarrassed at first, he was afraid that his granddaughter would break his bones.

But seeing Xiaolan's longing look, grandpa still took her to the gymnastics room.

During the assessment, the coach grabbed Xiaolan's small body and asked her to do the most basic splitting movements.

Xiaolan felt that her body was about to be torn, and she didn't hold on for two seconds before she screamed in pain.

Grandpa looked at Xiaolan's painful appearance, and felt pain in his heart.

He climbed the steps and pretended to be the Monkey King, just to distract his granddaughter.

Knowing that Xiaolan didn't have a practice uniform, her grandfather also went to the store and bought a swimsuit.

He spent a night sewing and mending, and "improved" the swimsuit into a gymnastics uniform for his granddaughter.

In the childhood without parents, grandpa's meticulous care made Xiaolan's heart not too lonely.

Even if many people ostracized her and isolated her, she knew that her grandfather would always stand at the end of the old streets and alleys, waiting for her to come home.

The Biography of the Hulan River reads:

From my grandfather, I learned that in addition to coldness and hatred, life also has warmth and love. ”

In childhood, it was really the happiest thing to be hurt by an old man who knew cold and heat.

They give you all their patience, like a haven with lights on, giving you warmth and keeping you safe.

Many people spend their lives looking for the beauty of the old days, where there are old streets and alleys, small and nagging, dim lights, and hot food.

It is the hometown that haunts me in childhood, and it is also the nostalgia of my life as an adult.

From the movie, we know that grandpa's life is very hard.

Back then, he and his wife had 4 children, but a tuberculosis took the lives of his wife and 3 children.

Grandpa finally raised his only daughter, but he didn't expect a catastrophe to let his daughter and son-in-law go away to Xinjiang, leaving only his granddaughter Xiaolan to raise him.

The deep suffering of the times, like mountains, pressed on the shoulders of grandpa.

But no matter how difficult life is, he does not forget to teach his granddaughter honesty and kindness in life.

In Xiaolan's impression, grandpa insisted on sending money to the blind Lao Xu.

When the neighbor's faucet is broken, he will also stop what he is doing and come to the door to help people repair it.

Xiaolan is very troublesome and often naughty and lies.

After grandpa found out, he would hit Xiaolan's palm with a ring ruler as a punishment.

However, in Xiaolan's impression, she made a mistake once and was not beaten by her grandfather.

It was late one night, and Xiaolan suddenly missed her parents very much.

While her grandfather was sleeping, she secretly climbed into the coal truck, hoping that the car would take her to Xinjiang.

But the next day, the car came back, and Xiaolan could only get out of the car in a gray way, and was taken home by her grandfather, who rushed to hear the news.

Xiaolan knew that she shouldn't run around without telling her grandfather, so when she got home, she found the ring ruler and handed it to her grandfather.

But this time, grandpa didn't hit her.

He put the ring ruler on the table, took out a telescope, and handed it to Xiaolan.

Even if you can't go to Xinjiang, when you miss your parents, you can use a telescope to look into the distance, which can be regarded as relieving the pain of longing.

That day, grandpa took Xiaolan on a train.

My grandfather used to be a train driver, and he is still proficient in driving.

He sat at the locomotive, drove and directed.

Xiaolan was on the speeding train, holding a telescope, looking into the distance.

The humid warm breeze from the south blows in my ears and dissolves all thoughts and loneliness.

That is the wealth that grandpa gave to his granddaughter with love.

Luo Dayou once sang in the song:

My family had the best time of my childhood, which was the place where I escaped later, and where my tears now returned. ”

In the barren years, grandpa was like a guide, giving Xiaolan teachings, guidance and love.

These are enough for her to remember it later and benefit her for the rest of her life.

When people are young, it is a lifetime of luck to be taught by the words and deeds of the elders.

Because the seeds of truth, goodness and beauty will one day take root and sprout in the bottom of their hearts, allowing people to go on with more compassion and strength for the rest of their lives.

Xiaolan first felt the fear of life and death because of the neighbor's sister, who unfortunately died because of a flash flood.

Seeing her former vigorous sister turn into a cold corpse, Xiaolan suddenly became afraid that one day her grandfather would leave her.

That day, Xiaolan was on the way to fish, and suddenly asked her grandfather:

Grandpa, are you afraid of death?”

Grandpa shook his head:

Don't be afraid!"Why?”

I am alive with you, and when I die, I am with your uncle and them, and on both sides are my relatives. ”

People are dead, and they are going to **?

Good people are in heaven and bad people are on earth. ”

Am I a good guy or a bad guy?”

If you help others do good deeds and don't tell nonsense, you are a good person. ”

The grandfather, who has read all the vicissitudes of life, sees life and death very lightly.

In his eyes, death is inevitable, and every kind person will have his own destiny.

However, grandpa is getting old day by day after all.

The crutches gradually lost his body, and he lost the ability to speak after a serious illness.

The doctor said that my grandfather was too old, all organs in his body had failed, and only his heart refused to give up.

After all, his distant daughter and son-in-law haven't come back yet, how can he bear to leave his granddaughter alone in the world?

Since then, Xiaolan has taken on the burden of taking care of her grandfather.

She squeezes toothpaste for her grandfather every day, bakes steamed buns, and boils hot water.

When grandpa is cold, he will dry his cotton jacket, and when grandpa is tired, he will massage him.

People often say that when you get older, you become like a child, and grandpa is like that.

He sometimes loses his temper and skips eating, and he only eats until Xiaolan "threatens" him with a ring ruler.

Xiaolan's doll when she was a child was also held by her grandfather, and she pressed the voice button at night and called her granddaughter to take care of herself.

One day, Xiaolan received a letter from her distant parents.

In the letter, she learned that this was the first letter sent by her parents since they went to Xinjiang.

Due to special reasons, they could not contact their relatives, so the previous letters were all written by their grandfather.

This lie, which lasted for ten years, guarded the softest corner of Xiaolan's heart, so that she could always feel the love of her parents in her childhood without her parents.

At night, Xiaolan looked at her grandfather, who was getting thinner and thinner, and couldn't help crying.

When Grandpa found out, he trembled and used his thin hands to pretend to be Sun Wukong, wanting to make his granddaughter happy.

The passage of time has taken away his grandfather's health, but he still remembers the way ten years ago that could make his granddaughter burst into laughter.

Knowing that Xiaolan's parents were about to return, Grandpa left peacefully on a sunny morning.

On the day of the burial, the car transporting Grandpa's coffin didn't recognize Xiaolan and drove straight to the cemetery.

Many years later, Xiaolan realized that maybe her grandfather didn't want her to see her buried.

Many things in the world have their own providence in the dark.

Just like Xi Murong said:

The sun goes down, and before it rises again, there are some people who will never be with you again.

What we can do is to find a quiet place where we can understand what to do, so that we can not let the precious things and important people be lost again.

The person who grew up with you used to be your backer, and now, you should also be their umbrella, sheltering them from the wind and rain, and protecting them well.

Don't wait until you lose to regret it, and don't wait until you leave to cherish it.

Because there are some people who have left and can only see in heaven.

Jiang Wenli once said that the day before her grandfather died, she went to see her for the last time.

At that time, the grandfather was already unconscious, but when Jiang Wenli held his hand, the old man still shed tears.

In those tears, there may be longing for relatives, reluctance to the world, and the final farewell to the world.

When the arrival of the loved ones, these are poured out like induction, frozen into the eternal image in the memory.

Norwegian Woods

Death is not the opposite of life, but lives forever as a part of life. ”

The warmth, sparkle and strength left to us by the deceased have become part of the long river of life, rushing forward.

Everyone's growth is a reward for the education of their loved ones;

Everyone's progress is also a continuation of the strength of their loved ones.

As long as the memories remain, they have always been with us and have never left.

So, if someone you love goes to heaven, don't be too sad.

Cherishing the present and living well is the best reward for them.

May we all never forget the shining days of our lives, and go down more calmly and with more strength.

At the same time, I also hope that all the love in the world will be answered, and all the thoughts will eventually meet.