We will meet people who have been with us for a while but have ended up separating for various reasons. Sometimes there is often a delusion that if you don't take the initiative to contact the other person, you will miss the person and the relationship.
When we resist not contacting someone, they may be glad that you didn't bother them;You think that if you don't take the initiative, you will miss it, but it may be a relief in his eyes.
Everyone has their own trajectory in life, and we can't force others to be there for us all the time. Sometimes, we need to learn to let go and let the other person pursue their own happiness.
Not reaching out doesn't mean missing out. Life is like a marathon, we are constantly running, constantly meeting new people and new things. Sometimes, we pass by someone at a certain point, but that doesn't mean we're missing out on the whole thing. This may be a new beginning, giving us the opportunity to meet better people and experience a better life.
Not intrusion is also a form of respect, everyone has their own way of life and values, and we cannot force others to accept our views and perceptions.
When we resist not contacting someone, don't think it's a miss, maybe in the eyes of the other person, it's a relief. We have to learn to let go and let the other person pursue their own happiness;Learn to cherish and appreciate the true meaning of life;Learn to respect and understand everyone's values and lifestyle. Only in this way can we go further and see more openly in the journey of life.