In rural areas, because of the limited economic conditions, it is not surprising that the phenomenon of "beating up singles" has emerged.
Before our hometown village, there were often older young people who couldn't get a daughter-in-law, and they would be introduced by someone to bring their daughter-in-law from the mountainous area of Sichuan to live, and at that time, it was normal for there to be a few women in the village who spoke Sichuan.
Now, this situation is less, because everyone's economic conditions have improved, and daughters-in-law from other places are not willing to marry far away. At this time, the problem arises again, once the age of men and women has passed the age of blind date marriage, they will soon be left, especially men, no matter how poor the family is, it is likely that they will be single.
The problem of singles in rural areas has not yet been solved, and four "strange phenomena" have emerged!
One is that what happens after death is more important than living
After the death of an elderly person in the family, they generally do a lot of things, as if the more beautiful they do, the more filial they appear. Quite the opposite, actually.
When the old man is alive, he has many children, of course, in the countryside, the male mainly relies on his son, but he passes the buck to each other, and generally takes turns to live in his son's house, in order not to be laughed at by the village, he barely supports the elderly, but he is not in the heart, the rural elderly, because there is no pension, once they are old, they can't earn money, and when they are sick, they seem to have become a burden. Even many brothers feel unfair because of supporting the elderly, and they fight with each other, and there are even many people who go to court.
As the saying goes, ten thousand piles of ashes in front of the grave are better than a bowl of water before death. When you are alive, filial piety is better than anything else.
Second, the divorce rate is increasing day by day
Not only young people, but also middle-aged and elderly people are getting divorced.
Some time ago, I went back to my hometown and listened to my relatives in my hometown;Chatting said that it is normal for young people to divorce now, especially if they are separated from each other, and one party goes out to work, the divorce rate is higher, and both parents are no longer as before, persuading and not persuading them to leave, and feel that their children have been wronged, so they will divorce immediately.
In addition, some middle-aged and elderly people are the same, they used to think that divorce was a very shameful thing in the countryside, and they couldn't raise their heads, but now, with the development of the Internet, people have become more open-minded, but they feel that they can't get over and break up.
There are fewer divorces in the city, because it involves a series of things such as mortgages and houses, and it is not so easy to make a decision.
The third is the increase in the phenomenon of "young grandmothers" in rural areas
Some young women, who don't go out to work, rely on their husbands to earn money outside, live a beautiful life at home, dress up all day long, play mahjong, and have grandparents to take their children, and they are not proper "young grandmothers".
On the contrary, women who work in the city dress very ordinary, and they don't dress up to show off, and when they go back to their hometowns to visit relatives, they are even regarded as having no money and being poor.
Fourth, there is a growing gap between the younger generation and the rural parents
Nowadays, many young people live in the city, and after living in the city for a long time, the gap between them and the older generation is getting bigger and bigger.
The old people are generally reluctant to leave their rural hometowns, guarding their own acres and threes of land, usually life is still very hard, but young people are unwilling to go back to their hometowns, even if they go back, they also begin to dislike rural life, and would rather go to travel for a trip to spend tens of thousands of yuan on vacation, I don't know that this is the income of the old people for a year.
In short, it is not easy for rural people, and it is even more difficult for the elderly in rural areas, so give them more care and attention, and often go home to see, after all, counting up to three generations, we are all from the countryside!