"Hitting is kissing, scolding is love. This proverb is often used to describe the harsh discipline that parents give to their children. However, when the child is yelled at by the mother, why not only do they not hold grudges, but also ask for a hug?Let's explore the mystery of this parent-child relationship together.
Mother's love is like water, moisturizing things silently. —Shakespeare.
The child's inner world is full of love, and they understand that the mother's strictness is out of care and love. As parents, we need to know more about our children's inner world, feel their emotional needs with our hearts, and warm their growth path with love. Let's work together to be better parents.
As parents, we all want the best for our children. But sometimes, we also get angry with our children for various reasons. After yelling at our children, do we really pay attention to their feelings?Let's work together on this topic, pay attention to the inner world of children, and grow into better parents together.
Have you ever felt guilty after yelling at your child?And how do you deal with this feeling of guilt?Share your stories and experiences in the comments section and let's learn together how to better communicate with your child.
Many people feel guilty and self-blame after yelling at their children, fearing that it will leave a psychological shadow on their children. However, children seek hugs from their parents after being yelled at because they understand that their parents' strictness is out of concern and love. This unexpected truth makes us re-examine the parent-child relationship and reminds us to pay more attention to our children's inner world.
Some parents will loudly reprimand their children when they accidentally break the bowl. However, when the child cries and seeks a cuddle, the hearts of the parents are also filled with love and tenderness. These examples all illustrate a child's dependence and trust in their parents.
It is a natural instinct for children to trust and rely on their parents. When children are yelled at by their mothers, they still ask for hugs because they understand that their mother's strictness is out of concern and love. As parents, we need to know more about our children's inner world, feel their emotional needs with our hearts, and warm their growth path with love. Let's work together to be better parents.
What other interesting experiences have you had with your children in your daily life?Welcome to share your story in the comment area, so that more people can understand the mystery of parent-child relationship!