Characteristics of children who are often yelled at
In home education, yelling and scolding seems to have become a common method, but in the long run, it will have a negative impact on the child's development. This article will help parents and educators better understand and pay attention to the inner world of these children by the characteristics of children who are often yelled at.
1. Low self-esteem and introversion.
Children who are often yelled at often often show low self-esteem and introversion. They may lack self-confidence, don't believe in their abilities, and are afraid to try new things. In social situations, they may withdraw from social situations, be reluctant to socialize with people, and even develop communication barriers.
2. Emotional instability.
These children may often be in negative emotions such as nervousness, anxiety, depression, etc. They may have frequent tantrums, have high emotional swings, and have a weak tolerance for setbacks and failures.
3. Behavioural issues.
As a result of being yelled at for a long time, children may experience behavioral problems such as aggressive behavior, truancy, internet addiction, etc. They may be dismissive of parental orders and even act rebelliously.
Fourth, learning difficulties.
Children who are constantly yelled at may have difficulty learning. They may lose interest in learning, have trouble concentrating, and have poor memory. At the same time, they may lack motivation and self-confidence, leading to a decline in academic performance.
5. Psychological problems.
Children who have been yelled at for a long time may have psychological problems, such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, etc. These problems may affect their daily lives and future development.
In summary, children who are often yelled at may develop characteristics such as low self-esteem and introversion, emotional instability, behavioral problems, learning difficulties, and psychological problems. For the sake of children's healthy development, parents and educators should pay attention to these issues and seek effective ways to educate children to cultivate their self-confidence and enthusiasm. At the same time, parents should also learn to control their emotions and avoid causing unnecessary harm to their children.