Text|Zhu Shenyong.
A man's deviance is not because his wife is getting old and ugly. No matter how beautiful your wife is, she will have aesthetic fatigue after many years of marriage.
There are no ugly people in acquaintances, and there are no beauties in acquaintances, not to mention that not acquaintances are pillow people who get along day and night.
You look at the big stars, they say that they are all beautiful, and there are also extramarital affairs in marriage;You see, the rate of deviance among young men is also very high, and there are many of them whose wives are beautiful and young.
Therefore, the external conditions of the wife are not the core factor that determines whether the husband is deviant.
Whether there is an extramarital affair or not, the core lies in the man's own choice, and whether both parties are aware of it in time to adjust when there is a problem in the marriage.
The core is how to solve the problem when the man encounters the best, whether he has a mission for the marriage, whether he is willing and able to solve the problem together when there are dissatisfaction and problems in the marriage, and whether the wife has a certain vigilance about the marriage, whether she is willing to solve the problem with her husband and improve the ability of marriage management.
And this marriage is usually not good, the satisfaction is high, the satisfaction is high, and the ability to resist risks is relatively stronger.
Raising this question shows that the client attributes men's deviance to sex, to liking the new and hating the old, and to men's animal instincts.
If you feel that you are beautiful enough and beautiful enough, you can put an end to men's deviance at the root. This perception is one-sided, and it is not enough to understand the psychology of men's extramarital affairs.
When a man engages in extramarital affairs, it is not necessarily that his wife is not good enough, but more often it is to satisfy his greed, and the process of deviance is also full of luck.
It's not that a man wants to replace marriage with an extramarital affair, or replace his wife with a third son, if a man deviates in order to find a replacement, he will not engage in extramarital affairs, he will divorce first, and then be with San'er, or just after being with San'er, he will immediately divorce his wife.
This kind of marriage, even if there is no third child, will go to divorce, and even the two may have talked about divorce many times before, and both parties are very low satisfied with their marriage, and they have thought about divorce.
In fact, in a large number of cases, the husband hopes that he will have a threesome, and will engage in extramarital affairs with San'er for many years, while not divorcing his wife, enjoying the value and benefits of marriage to himself, and at the same time having high emotional value when he has an extramarital affair with San'er.
Therefore, the wife should see the man's deviant psychology, see the man's lies, greed, means, and luck.
saw that San'er was also deceived by her husband. Don't unilaterally just think that men are and deviant.
When discovering extramarital affairs, the wife should be brave enough to go to war, provoke her husband's extramarital affair, provoke her husband's extramarital affair psychology, and find out what damage the extramarital affair will bring, clarify her attitude, position and bottom line, determine the goal of the joint efforts of the husband and wife, and clearly ask for the end of the extramarital affair.
Many institutions on the market are asking their wives to pretend that they don't know, to be ostriches, to keep married, to become beautiful and beautiful, and to pull their husbands back with secondary attraction. In fact, this method will only make men more arrogant in their extramarital affairs, and will make men feel that their wives are not brave and afraid of divorce, but he will be more confident to engage in extramarital affairs.
Becoming beautiful and beautiful will only attract the old king next door, which actually has little impact on the husband, and when the wife is getting better and better, the husband will feel that he has done the right thing in extramarital affairs, and it is because of the extramarital affair that he has a more comfortable and more capable marriage as an uncle, but because he has benefited from his deviance.
Even if San'er later finds out the truth and chooses to leave, and the extramarital affair ends hastily, the man's thoughts and soil for extramarital love are still there, and he will go to the next San'er. Continue to satisfy your greed.
Wives find extramarital affairs, whether they are humble or arrogant, gentle and firm, and have goals and bottom lines to solve the problem, this is the core.
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