On that day, I planned to sort out the family's accounts and prepare some materials for my son Xiaolong for the college entrance examination by the way. As soon as I opened the drawer, I found a thick stack of debt notices, and the shock and confusion caused ripples in my heart.
Li Dayuan, what's going on?"I looked up at my husband with a look of doubt on his face.
Oh, that ......Nothing, the unit has recently made some mistakes in some accounts and I'm dealing with it. Li Dayuan smiled awkwardly, but he didn't even dare to look at me directly.
I clearly sensed something was wrong, so I started to ask, "Did you make a mistake in the accounts?"So how do you interpret these demand letters and debt notices?And what's going on with these 3 million loan sharks?”
The husband's expression became hesitant, and finally, he sighed and lowered his head: "Wang Fang, my investment failed, and then in order to make up for the shortfall, I embarked on a road of no return and owed so many debts. ”
I froze, and the papers in my hand fell to the ground. I couldn't believe what was in front of me, how could it be that the person I had always loved, my husband, had such a huge debt, and I had been kept in the dark.
Why didn't you tell me?I couldn't help but question out loud.
I'm afraid you're worried, I'm afraid you'll be embarrassed, I've been trying to solve it, but it's ......But the deeper he fell, the deeper he fell. He muttered under his breath, a hint of helplessness on his face.
I suddenly felt like I was being pushed into a bottomless abyss, my son was about to take the college entrance examination, and our family was facing such a huge crisis. I looked at my husband with anger and despair, but more of a confusion about the future.
What do we do?I finally asked softly.
I ......I don't know, I really can't help it. The husband's voice was full of helplessness.
At this time, I decided to confide in my in-laws and hope that they can give us some support and advice. When my in-laws learned the truth, they were outraged, but at my insistence, they finally agreed to help us through this difficult time.
In the following days, I negotiated with my in-laws, took out all my savings, and borrowed nearly 800,000 from relatives and friends, and scraped together 3 million to pay off my husband's debts.
This decision was made not only out of affection for the past, but also to protect our family and son. I hope that my husband will learn from this lesson, go back and start over.
However, half a year later, I unexpectedly found that my husband fell into the whirlpool of debts again, this time the amount of debts reached 400,000, he still did not give up online gambling, he always felt that he could win back and prove how correct his judgment was.
In the face of this familiar stranger, I feel that he has no bottom line. I looked at him, was silent for a moment, and finally spoke: "You know, last time our family worked hard to raise 3 million and pay off all your debts. But this time, I can't help you anymore. ”
Faced with his betrayal and despair of our marriage, I made up my mind, I asked for a divorce, and I decided to sell our house to pay off the debts of relatives and friends, as well as his debts.
It was a difficult decision, but I had to make this sacrifice in order to give myself and my son a fresh start. Life after the divorce was not easy, but I tried my best to stay optimistic and strong. The most important thing is that I am no longer afraid of the debt landmines that my husband has brought to our family as I used to.
That year, my son was successfully admitted to a good university, and I also started my rental career, and it was really sad that I didn't even have a place to live in middle age. But I didn't get discouraged, I threw myself into my work, and I also cooperated with a friend to start an online sales company, and my career gradually made a breakthrough.
After 4 years, I finally realized my dream and bought a new house, and my mood became happy. Since the divorce, I have rarely been in contact with my ex-husband, and I feel that my life is more meaningful without his troubles. Although this marriage has brought me pain and pain, I have learned many valuable lessons and lessons. I realized that no matter what difficulties we encounter, we must stick to our bottom line and principles, and not give up on our happiness easily. Especially in the face of a spouse who "can't hold up the wall with mud", the sooner you choose to let go, the sooner you can get relief.
In the days after the divorce, I learned to be independent and to be strong. Despite going through a turmoil in my relationship, I didn't give up my love of life. I work hard to improve my life, but I also try to care about my son's development.
During that time, I rented a small room in a small community, but I felt more intimate than the mansion I used to have. My son has gradually found his interests in college, and I am very proud of him.
I had less and less contact with my ex-husband, and my life gradually returned to peace. I no longer have to worry about his gambling and debts, and the baggage on my heart is lightened. Every night, I can sleep peacefully, no longer worrying about the unforeseen risks of tomorrow.
Time slowly passed and I found myself stronger and more independent. The breakthrough in my work has also earned me respect and recognition. That day, when I finally bought a new house, I felt the difficulty of life, and I also felt my own growth.
I stood in front of the window of my new house, looking out at the scenery and looking forward to the future. Although divorce is a difficult choice, I understand that only by letting go of the past can we embrace a better tomorrow.
This marriage may have been a tortuous experience in my life, but I have no regrets. It taught me tenacity and bravery, and made me more clear about my bottom line and principles. Perhaps, life is a journey, and different landscapes need to be appreciated differently. I choose to let go of the gloom of the past and embrace a new life, because I believe that as long as I work hard, happiness will come quietly.
And now, I share this experience with you, hoping that everyone who is lost in a relationship can find their own happiness. There is more than one choice in life, let go of the burden of the past, and maybe there will be a better tomorrow waiting for us.