Wang Dahua's son and daughter proposed to take her to the city and hire a nanny to take care of her, but Wang Dahua was unwilling to accept such an arrangement, and instead proposed to find an old wife. For Wang Dahua, outsiders at home will make her feel uncomfortable, and having an old wife can give her spiritual sustenance and care. Although the son and daughter were a little hesitant at this point, they finally agreed.
The first blind date was calledWang ZhongThe old man, he is two years younger than Wang Dahua, he looks honest and honest and has a certain amount of financial security. However, when Wang Dahua askedWang ZhongHe reluctantly replied that it was because of the after-effects of the car accident. This reminded Wang Dahua of what the introducer told herWang ZhongHer wife died in a car accident, which scared her. She inadvertently asks a sensitive topic, fearful, and wants to end this blind date as soon as possible.
The second blind date was an old man who didn't know his name, and he asked Wang Dahua if he was living with his son and daughter-in-law now. Although the old man sounded very happy and planned to live with Wang Dahua, this question touched on Wang Dahua's sensitive point. She raised her two children by herself and endured a lot of hardships, but they were not there for her when she needed them. This made Wang Dahua angry and disheartened, and left immediately.
After the second blind date, Wang Dahua met her ex-husband. When she was young, her ex-husband cheated, and Wang Dahua resolutely divorced. However, after the divorce, the ex-husband and the mistress came together, leaving Wang Dahua alone to raise the children and pay for the hard work. Decades have passed, and her ex-husband now intends to come back to take care of Wang Dahua, hoping that Wang Dahua can accept his apology and help. However, Wang Dahua was full of anger and distrust and resolutely rejected her ex-husband.
When Wang Dahua was cornered by her ex-husband, she calledWang ZhongHe told Wang Dahua that he had been silently paying attention to her, and although he didn't know her, he saw Wang Dahua's strength and maternal love. He said he was a widowed old man who had been living a lonely life since his wife's death. He has no children, and he is very willing to take care of Wang Dahua, and promises to never leave him.
At this time, Wang Dahua felt that she had finally found someone she could rely on, someone who could give her spiritual sustenance and care. After a long search, she finally found her own happiness.
This story involvesFamilyThe interaction and relationship between Wang Dahua and her children, between Wang Dahua and the blind date, between Wang Dahua and her ex-husband, and between Wang Dahua andWang ZhongThere are some contradictions and problems.
First of all, for Wang Dahua, whether to accept the arrangement of her children is a key issue. As an elderly mother, she wants to be cared for and cared for by her children, but at the same time she wants to maintain her independence and autonomy. She did not want to be a burden to her children, nor did she want to be completely dependent on their arrangements. This is a common oneFamilyEthicsThere are different needs and expectations between the elderly and their children, and how to balance the interests of both parties is a question worth considering.
Secondly, during the blind date, the dialogue between Wang Dahua and the blind date triggered some emotions and problems. In the first blind date, Wang Dahua's worries and fears exposed her fear and anxiety about losing her partner. In the second blind date, Wang Dahua's anger and departure expressed her dissatisfaction and sadness with her children. This reflectsFamilyProblems with poor communication and emotional inadequacy between members, as well as expectations and dependence on each other.
In the end, Wang Dahua reconciled with her ex-husbandWang ZhongThe choice between them also reflects her different choices for happiness and dependence. Her distrust and anger towards her ex-husband, as well as:Wang ZhongThe desire and hope are also prevalent in real life. Sometimes we hesitate and struggle between missing out on a chance to be happy and choosing someone who is more suitable for us, which requires us to find a balance on a moral and emotional level.
To sum up, this story involves:FamilyEthicsof all aspects that reflect the people inFamilyDemands, communication, and choices in relationships. In this process, we need to constantly think and solve problems, balance our own needs with the expectations of others, and find the happiness that suits us.