As her granddaughter-in-law's abdomen grew day by day, Bai Zhao's disgust with her deepened, and she almost no longer looked at her granddaughter-in-law's abdomen, let alone her face, and even felt disgusted every time she saw the food brought by her granddaughter-in-law, but she couldn't speak or speak.
Bai Zhao gradually became emaciated, and after harvesting the wheat, he swallowed in the hot three-dog heat.
In the original work of "White Deer Plain", Bai Xiaowen's grandmother, Bai Zhao, in the process of forcing her granddaughter-in-law to "borrow seeds", eventually caused her death due to "disgust".
The difference between the TV series "White Deer Plain" and the original book is that in the TV series, the Bai Zhao family has only two grandchildren, namely Xiaowen and Xiaowu.
In the TV series, the character of Bai Zhao left a fairly good impression on the audience, and although she showed feudal selfishness and occasional indifference, her personality still appeared very kind and friendly. She eventually died in the plague that Tian Xiao'e brought to Bailuyuan.
In the original work, Bai Zhao has three grandsons, and in addition to Xiaowen and Xiaowu, she has another grandson, and that is Bai Xiaoyi.
The image of Bai Zhao in the original work is completely different from the image in the TV series, this woman with sharp and decisive words is not only selfish and indifferent, but also extremely disrespectful to women.
In her perspective, the daughter-in-law is like pasted window paper, and the granddaughter-in-law is like a marionette in her hand, both of whom are important tools for the Bai family to continue the family bloodline.
In order to ensure the continuation of the Bai family's descendants, she not only forced her son Bai Jiaxuan to marry a woman in the seventh room, but also forced her granddaughter-in-law to "borrow seeds" from Changgong.
This woman, who was completely bound and distorted by the feudal system, even forgot that she was also a woman. Everything she did served the feudal forces, and in her opinion, men were the masters of men. The way she dealt with her daughter-in-law and granddaughter-in-law not only revealed her selfishness and indifference, but also showed her inner coldness and ruthlessness.
Inside the gate of the Bai family, there is an indifferent woman.
Before Bai Jiaxuan's father Bingde Lao Han died, he left such a sentence: There are three kinds of unfilial behavior, and no offspring is the greatest, if the Bai family breaks off the relationship, it will be a great unfilial piety.
Influenced by this sentence, Bai Zhao regarded his son's marriage as the most important matter.
After his father's death, Bai Jiaxuan had six weddings and funerals, and in the course of six years, he married six living women with different styles, and finally carried out six cold bodies.
After six weddings and six funerals, Bai Jiaxuan felt a deep blow, he thought that he had been abandoned by this world and had no connection with the outside world. As he stayed in the house for a long time, he felt more and more weak. He often lay on the kang with despair, and when he moved, he was unwilling to even agree to Lusan asking him to eat.
Bai Zhao looked at her son's depressed expression, seeing that he seemed to be unable to continue his life, her attitude was very resolute, and she did not hesitate to talk to him:
Her attitude seemed so depressed and lost!Women are nothing more than paper used to glue windows, and once broken, they are torn off and then pasted with a new layer. If you die six, I will marry you six, and I will spend all my possessions, which is more meaningful than having no children, no women, and cutting off the incense to others."
Bai Zhao's resoluteness and indifference surprised her son Bai Jiaxuan very much: her mother's ability and decisiveness in handling affairs not only surpassed her father's, but also had less hesitation and worry than her father, showing firm determination and decisiveness, and only knew how to take one path instead of running around.
In the past six years, Bai Jiaxuan has experienced six weddings and funerals, and he has been deeply disappointed and frightened by this marriage. He thought that he should marry his wife to him!He didn't want to continue to hurt the daughters of other families, and he even began to wonder if he was poisonous, as the rumors said, or if there was a problem with the Bai family's ancestral grave
He advised his mother to think slowly before getting married.
When Bai Zhao heard the word "slow", her heart was full of anger: "Why slow down?".In my twenties, I dare to slow down again"!
The mother and daughter had a significant disagreement over marriage: Bai Jiaxuan did not want young women to die early because of him, but Bai Zhao remained adamant that women were nothing more than a piece of broken window paper, and once the old one was torn, it should be painted with a new one as soon as possible.
Bai Jiaxuan saw his mother's eager expression, and he patiently explained to her the pros and cons of the matter: if you always get married in such a hurry, it will not only lead to not being able to accomplish anything in your life, but it will also bring trouble to many girls
Bai Zhao didn't pay attention to what her son said, she only cared about how the descendants of the Bai family continued, only cared about her future fate, and how to explain to the old man of Bingde and the ancestors of the Bai family in the underworld.
What has nothing to do with her is the life and death of women in other families!
In Bai Zhao's concept, the women his son married were only a few stones of wheat and a few bundles of cotton, and at most a mule, and the value of their lives was almost negligible.
The old ones don't go, the new ones don't come", because they can't leave descendants for the Bai family, their deaths are not important, so the six women who died in Bai Jiaxuan were all buried in a hurry.
Bai Zhao, who only cares about the traditions of the descendants of the Bai family, regards his daughter-in-law as a decoration on paper, and believes that a woman's life is lighter than a mule, inside the gate of the Bai family, is a cold woman who has been domesticated by the feudal system and has a distorted heart.
The selfish woman who protects the calf and doesn't care about the emotions of others.
In the original work of "White Deer Plain", Bai Zhao is a woman who is very protective of calves and will not give any face. Her love is principled and measured, and her death is also above her bottom line. In the relationship between grandchildren, one's own grandson is always right, while granddaughter-in-law is always wrong.
After the eldest grandson Bai Xiaowen got married, he experienced the sweet time between husband and wife, and he couldn't extricate himself from it.
Bai Zhao saw that her grandson was becoming more and more emaciated and emaciated because of excessive love, and she put all the blame on her granddaughter-in-law. So, she called her eldest sister to her room, and without beating around the bush, she told her directly and firmly:
You are older than the foal (Bai Xiaowen's milk name), you are nineteen years old and he is only sixteen, although you are physically strong, the foal is still like a young seedling, you should always support him, listen to me"?
The eldest son of Hyo-moon's wife, who is three years older than Hyo-moon, was born in a sturdy and robust state. Her son's name is Ah Gong, he is six years old this year, and he is a bright, lively boy. When Grandma's words made sense, she shyly responded, "Mother, I understand what you mean."
Out of concern for her granddaughter-in-law, Bai Zhao put her words aside after agreeing, she further strengthened her tone and said something that embarrassed her granddaughter-in-law in a way that embarrassed her:
If you tease the foal non-stop every night to make his body empty and vulnerable, then you could face a lifetime of loneliness."
The eldest sister felt extremely ashamed after being severely reprimanded by Bai Zhao, so that night, she rejected Bai Xiaowen's pursuit with an indifferent attitude. "I'm not marrying you anymore!After Bai Xiaowen learned the truth of the matter, he said with anger and incomprehension: "Why didn't my mother-in-law even let go of this matter"?
Bai Zhao originally thought that as long as he reprimanded his granddaughter-in-law, the problem could be completely solved, but in fact, the private relationship between men and women is not decided by a woman.
Due to the intervention of the Bai Zhao family, Xiaowen developed a rebellious mood, he became more obsessed with the love between men and women, and after dinner, he would close the door and go to the kang, pestering his eldest sister.
Bai Zhao found that his teachings did not produce any effect, so he did not find any reason from his grandson, but called his granddaughter-in-law to his room.
This time, Bai Zhao's behavior became more intense, she was expressionless, and said to her sister in a vicious tone
More on the foal's side later, you have to control yourself first, and if you can't, I'll use a needle to break your pieces. stitch it up".
After listening to Grandma's teachings, the eldest sister felt that the dignity of a woman had been completely destroyed, and she lowered her head, so ashamed that she almost lost herself. Her tears were like pearls with broken threads, drawing a beautiful arc in the air. She couldn't justify herself, so she had to shed tears with grievances.
The insulting words that Bai Zhao said to his granddaughter-in-law were completely heard by his daughter-in-law Xiancao. Seeing the eldest sister crying and bowing her head in front of her, she felt very pitiful in her heart: her mother-in-law's words were too ugly to hear, and she didn't say anything about face. This way of humiliating her granddaughter-in-law made her feel very embarrassed
Although Xiancao deeply sympathized with her daughter-in-law, she did not dare to confront her mother-in-law, so at night, she told her husband about her mother-in-law's reprimand for her eldest sister. "Do you want me to marry my daughter-in-law into your family?Then you'll have to be my daughter-in-law!After Bai Jiaxuan heard those vulgar words from his mother's mouth, his face turned red and white, and it took a long time before he confided in Xiancao:
The older a mother gets, the less likely it is for her way of speaking to change."
In fact, Bai Zhao is not unable to turn, she has never thought of turning. In her concept, her granddaughter-in-law is like a marionette in her hand, and she can operate it as she pleases.
Considering that Sun Zi Xiaowen is still young and has not yet reached the stage of the birth of the child, the granddaughter-in-law must consider her husband's health and ensure her own safety.
Bai Zhao, a selfish person who makes people feel ridiculous, has never really thought from a woman's point of view, even though he is a woman.
Out of protection for her calf, she selfishly blames her granddaughter-in-law for her grandson's greedy behavior. In order to make her granddaughter eat well, her daughter-in-law has to feed her son milk and eggs every day, and she also pastes yellow paper on her mouth. She never expected that those vulgar words that came out of her mouth would not only cause humiliation to her daughter-in-law, but also have a negative impact on the marital relationship between her granddaughter-in-law and Xiaowen.
Under Bai Zhao's severe reprimand and humiliation, the eldest sister's heart was deeply traumatized. She always avoids talking in front of Hyo-wen, and this behavior inadvertently brings psychological distress to Hyo-wen, causing the relationship between them to gradually become indifferent.
Due to the abnormality of the relationship between husband and wife, this created conditions for Bai Xiaowen's subsequent infidelity with Tian Xiao'e.
As an old lady, Bai Zhao's insults and bad words towards her granddaughter-in-law show a cold and selfish female image.
A ruthless woman who does not hesitate to sacrifice her life in order to achieve her goals.
In the original work of "White Deer Plain", when Bai Xiaoyi got married, his mother Xiancao had passed away, and his wedding was planned and arranged by his grandmother Bai Zhao herself. Therefore, Bai Zhao felt that among the three granddaughters-in-law, the filial daughter-in-law was the most satisfying one.
This granddaughter-in-law is not only well-educated, but also kind-hearted and a flawless woman.
However, this granddaughter-in-law, who was selected by the Bai Zhao family after countless screenings, has an indescribable weakness - despite being married for many years, she has not been able to bring a male and half female offspring to the Bai family.
The Bai Zhao family never participated in temple fairs, and the women of the Bai family were not allowed to go around praying, burning incense, and kowtowing. In order to achieve this goal, she led her granddaughter-in-law to search for the gods of all the original ancestral temples, but never found any solution.
Bai Zhao took his granddaughter-in-law to find Mr. Leng, a famous doctor in Bailu Plain, many times, but after taking various decoctions prepared by Mr. Leng, his granddaughter-in-law's abdomen still did not react.
Despite all possible measures, the Bai Zhao clan still firmly stated that the Bai family would never tolerate a complete severance of relations in the place of Xiaoyi.
After listening to the old lady's words, Bai Jiaxuan walked into Mr. Leng's Chinese medicine hall and said to him in despair: "It seems that it is impossible to be filial to a daughter-in-law."
Mr. Leng, who had always been taciturn, asked him with a smile like never before:
What if the problem is with our children?Even if you give up this and marry another one, you can't keep the offspring.
In the end, Mr. Leng made a suggestion to Bai Jiaxuan, that is, to invite his filial daughter-in-law to participate in a "mallet meeting".
Bai Jiaxuan chose to remain silent after hearing Mr. Leng's suggestion, believing that participating in the "mallet meeting" was an insulting and malicious remark. The "Mallet Club" is an interesting place, and it has an interesting name - "Mallet" because it has a very large rod with many small dots engraved on it, like a small wooden card. Except for Mr. Leng, when anyone said this, his jujube wood crutch had already swung to the bridge of the other party's nose.
Although Mr. Leng's remarks embarrassed Bai Jiaxuan, it gave Bai Zhao a new revelation and made her think of a solution - let her granddaughter-in-law "borrow seeds".
Bai Zhao is a woman who never cares when she acts, and is willing to give everything without hesitation in order to achieve her goals. Her mother was a very clever person, and she always tried to make better living conditions for her husband's son and grandson-in-law at home, but in the end it ended in failure. She didn't need to consult her granddaughter-in-law's opinion, let alone whether her granddaughter-in-law agreed, she acted arbitrarily and decided on the plan of "borrowing seeds" without hesitation.
One night, she made a plate of crispy steamed buns and prepared five poached eggs, and then went to Ma Hao to invite Changgong Lusan's young son Rabbit to dinner.
In the original work of "White Deer Plain", Lu San has two sons, of which the eldest son is named Heiwa, and the younger son is Rabbit Baby.
Rabbit is a sincere and unpretentious little girl, seeing that Bai Zhao made so much delicious food, I commented a little shyly:
My wife told me what to do, and I prepared so much delicious food to do."
Bai Zhao looked at the sweaty rabbit baby and talked to him affectionately:
Your third sister-in-law is sick, and God advises you to find a virgin boy to sleep with to ward off evil spirits, and you can be your third sister-in-law for two nights."
Rabbit was strictly restrained by Lusan when he was a child, and he didn't know anything about the unknown secrets between men and women, and he agreed without hesitation.
After the rabbit baby finished eating, Bai Zhao lowered his voice and said to him
I dare not say a word to anyone about sleeping with your third sister-in-law, for I have said that God will pull out your tongue."
Bai Zhao is indeed an extraordinary woman, and when she forced her granddaughter-in-law to "borrow seeds to have children", her plans and arrangements were impeccable, without any delay and without leaving any gaps.
On that day, she sent everyone out of the house in a reasonable way, and at night, only she and her filial daughter-in-law were left in the house. She packed all her clothes neatly and sent the bunny to the door. When she heard the light footsteps of the rabbit baby walking into her granddaughter-in-law's house, she coughed softly in the yard and then slammed the door of the street shut.
The rabbit baby is afraid of her immaturity and sluggishness, and if she does not listen or yells loudly and causes the problem to worsen, she will lie quietly on her granddaughter-in-law's windowsill like an old cat, ready to take urgent action at any time.
It was only when she learned that her granddaughter-in-law had succeeded that she breathed a sigh of relief and returned to her room with a blank face.
Three months later, Xiaoyi's daughter-in-law began to vomit, so Bai Zhao instructed her son Bai Jiaxuan to send Mr. Leng a high-quality leather jacket.
Bai Zhao is a very careful person, and she hopes that while Mr. Leng accepts flattery and gratitude, he can also accept a false and true truth, so that Mr. Leng's mouth can be sealed.
However, as the belly of the filial daughter-in-law increased day by day, Bai Zhao's mood changed, which led to the initial scenario - Bai Zhao felt extremely uncomfortable because of his granddaughter-in-law's "borrowing seeds".
In order to ensure the continuation of the family, the Bai Zhao family disregarded the honor of the family, gave up the identity and status of the Bai family, and forced his granddaughter-in-law to "borrow seeds" from Changgong at any cost. In order to make a living, the granddaughter-in-law had to swallow her anger. When her goal was achieved, she regarded the loss of dignity and reduced status as the fault of her granddaughter-in-law, and expressed disgust, contempt, and even suppressed her for no reason.
This capricious behavior profoundly reveals the selfishness and ruthlessness of the Bai Zhao family.
Some people believe that it is not worth it for Bai Zhao to end his life in order to make Xiaoyi feel "disgusting", but they forget that Bai Zhao is the kind of person who is willing to sacrifice everything without hesitation in order to achieve his goals.
This woman is willing to sacrifice her life for the descendants of the Bai family, needless to say, you also understand her ruthlessness.
Please write it at the end of the article:
As a woman, Bai Zhao seems to be a kind-hearted elder on the outside, but in fact, under the continuous influence of feudal etiquette, she has lost her memory of her identity as a woman.
Inadvertently, she gradually becomes a follower of patriarchal notions of inferiority and loses the ability to engage in self-reflection.
Seeing his daughter-in-law as "pasted window paper" and forcing his granddaughter-in-law to "borrow seeds", Bai Zhao's mentality, which has been distorted, seems to have become an oppressor who binds and manipulates the weak.
She adopted feudal etiquette and the concept of male superiority and inferiority, and ruthlessly suppressed the nature of her granddaughter-in-law, which not only caused them to lose their dignity and freedom in the land of the Bai family, but also caused them to be physically and mentally restrained and controlled.
The tragedy has its deep-seated reasons, from an oppressed person to a real oppressor, until the end of his life, Bai Zhao's numb heart has never been able to get rid of the oppression and deception of the feudal system.
She has always been a puppet and victim of feudal etiquette!