On the weekend, Feng Qing took the children back to their parents' house for dinner.
Since Feng's father was discharged from the hospital last week, Feng Qing has returned to her parents' house more frequently, and suddenly realized that her parents are old and wants to spend more time with them.
After the family finished eating that day, Feng's mother talked about Feng's father's hospitalization at the dinner table.
Qingqing, your father spent a total of 6,000 yuan during his hospitalization, and you have to share this money with your brother. ”
Feng Qing was stunned and looked at Feng's mother in disbelief.
Feng's father was hospitalized for a week, and she took leave to accompany her.
Feng's mother is not in good health, she can't stay up late, and she has to help her brother and sister-in-law take care of the children during the day.
My brother and sister-in-law excused themselves to be too busy at work and couldn't take leave.
She worked hard to take care of her for a week, but in the end, Feng's mother asked her and her brother to share the medical expenses equally?
Feng Qing has been married for seven years, and when she got married, Feng's mother told her that she would soon be someone else's daughter-in-law, and all the things she and her father would give to her brother in the future.
After all, she will have to rely on her brother to support her in the future.
Feng Qing felt sad, but she also understood that her daughter was different from her son after all.
So after getting married, no matter how difficult it is, Feng Qing will not open her mouth to her parents.
In her heart, her parents' parents are no longer her dependence.
So when Feng's father was hospitalized, she was doing her filial piety.
Never talk much about taking care of her.
But she also subconsciously thought that since she had contributed, her brother should be responsible for the money.
And the medical expenses are not much, only a few thousand yuan.
Unexpectedly, Feng Ma also let her share thousands of yuan.
If she had known that she would have to share it evenly, she would not have worked hard to take care of Feng's father in the hospital alone.
Parents can't treat their children fairly, so why should they ask their daughters?
Feng Qing glanced at Feng's mother, and then at Feng's father, her brother and sister-in-law, and they were silent, and let her share Feng's father's medical expenses by default.
If Mother Feng hadn't said that to her before she got married, she wouldn't have been so clear.
But Mama Feng not only said those words to her, but also did so.
Last year, part of the family's land was expropriated, and nearly 100,000 yuan was divided, and Feng's father and Feng's mother gave it all to her brother, and they didn't give her a penny.
Feng's mother also asked her not to think about it, saying that her daughter's family is like this.
When there are benefits, if you don't do it fairly, you need to pay for it, and your sons and daughters have to share it equally, what is the reason?
Six thousand yuan is only three thousand yuan for one person, Feng Qing is not short of these three thousand yuan, but she is uncomfortable in her heart.
When my dad was hospitalized, I was taking care of it alone, so it wouldn't be appropriate for me to pay for it, right? ”
The sister-in-law hurriedly said, "How can it be the same? Contributing money is contribution, contributing is contribution, you have been by your side to take care of your father, and others will only see your filial piety, right? ”
Hehe! She also doesn't lack a kind word from others.
Sister-in-law, what you said is not right, when Dad is sick, you don't ask for leave to take care of me, since you can't contribute, then you should pay, it's normal, and there is not much money, it makes no sense to let me share it evenly.
Besides, my parents' property in the future will be left to you, and I am not eligible to enjoy it, since the benefits have been given to you, should you pay for your father's illness? ”
The sister-in-law was unhappy: "That's right, your parents are your own parents, and it is natural for you to pay money, and those who are children have the responsibility of supporting the elderly." ”
According to what you say, my mother's property should also have my share, should we divide the land levy last year? ”
She glanced at her sister-in-law, whose face had changed, and continued: "If you can't be fair, don't ask me to be fair when you need to pay." I do have my responsibility to take care of my parents, and I have done my duty.
If you have to pay for it, then I will ask for fairness in last year's levy. ”
The sister-in-law was silent, afraid that Feng Qing would really make trouble with the 100,000 yuan, and it would be worth the loss.
Seeing that they were silent, Feng Qing did not intend to pursue it.
She understands that no matter how good she is, in the eyes of her parents, she is always inferior to her brother.
Once it comes to the issue of interests, her parents will definitely favor her brother as soon as possible.
Thinking of this, she felt unspeakably sad in her heart.
They are all children and raised the same, so why can they be treated differently?
Is it just because of the different genders?
No wonder others say that girls grow up without a home.
My mother's family is not my own home, and my mother-in-law's family can't be integrated.
It seems that this is indeed the case.
That's fine. Since her mother's family can't treat her and her brother fairly, she doesn't need to force it, just live her own life.
Because of the mustard in her heart, Feng Qing went back to her parents' house less often.
Her parents knew that she had a pimple in her heart, and they were not embarrassed to give her a **.
She thought that this would be it, going back to see the second elder during the New Year's holidays would be regarded as her filial piety as a daughter.
But she didn't expect Feng's mother to take the initiative to call her **.
Feng's mother said in ** that her brother was making a fuss about divorcing her sister-in-law!
It turned out that the sister-in-law secretly gave her brother-in-law 200,000 yuan to open a restaurant without telling her brother, and the sister-in-law also promised that as long as the hotel made money, he would return it to his sister-in-law immediately, and he would give her a stake in the business.
The sister-in-law's parents also persuaded her to help her younger brother, saying that in the future, her younger brother will be born, and she will not be happy as a sister.
The sister-in-law told Brother Feng Qing about this, but Brother Feng Qing disagreed, saying that her married daughter was not obliged to take money to help her brother.
But the sister-in-law disagreed, so she secretly gave the money to her brother.
As a result, her brother's business did not start and he lost a lot of money.
The sister-in-law was dumbfounded.
asked the younger brother to pay it back, but the younger brother said that he had no money, and he didn't plan to pay it back.
The sister-in-law looked for her parents again, but her parents said that if they didn't pay it back, they wouldn't pay it back, so they would treat her as a sister to her younger brother.
My sister-in-law didn't do it, I was afraid that Brother Feng Qing would know about it, so I wanted to get the money back quickly.
As a result, my sister-in-law's parents were not happy, saying that she was a married daughter, and the money was in her mother-in-law's house, and she didn't want her to give money every month, and the 200,000 yuan should be used as their pension money, so that the sister-in-law didn't ask again.
Only then did my sister-in-law know that she regretted it.
Seeing that she couldn't hide it, she had to take the initiative to confess to Brother Feng Qing.
Brother Feng Qing was angry and wanted to divorce.
Feng Qing thought that her sister-in-law would be able to understand her situation very well now.
At the beginning, my sister-in-law used the words that her son and daughter were different, but now she is treated differently by her own parents, and I am afraid that she will not feel good in her heart.
Feng Qing's mother called her ** because she wanted her to go back and persuade her brother.
But Feng Qing didn't plan to interfere.
Let a sleeping dog lie.
She can't manage her mother's affairs, no matter how well she manages it or not, she can't get half a good word, so why do she have to go to that troubled water.
The maiden home is where a woman grew up, but as long as some women get married, their maiden home is no longer her closest home.
At this time, women should learn to let go, don't get along with themselves, and don't always think about what to please or change.
If you can't change it, it's better to go with the flow and look a little more.
Just live your own little life.