"On the stage of getting along, narcissism is like a vain play, while negativity is a melancholy melody, and the two are intertwined into a nasty picture. "
In the journey of life, we will meet all kinds of people, and some people get along with each other as if it was a tiring performance.
In the long journey of life, we will inevitably meet all kinds of people, and there are two kinds of people, but the more they get along, the more annoying they are, just like a relativity theory in life.
This theory of relativity is not because the distance is closer to reality, but it leads people to a bewildering spiritual journey.
In the final analysis, there are two kinds of people, and the more they get along, the more annoying they feel.
1. Narcissistic type: The more you understand, the more annoying it is
There are people who seem to be immersed in a self-constructed universe, blind to everything outside the world and only focus on their own inner world. They are extremely fascinated by their every thought and every action, as if they are the center of the world, the master of the universe.
In the initial stages, their narcissism may still make us find funny and even a little cute. Their attitude of self-absorption and self-appreciation seems to be an expression of self-confidence and individuality. We may look at all this with tolerance and even somewhat appreciate their narcissism.
However, as time goes on, and we spend time with them, we begin to feel the negative effects of their narcissism. Their world is getting smaller and smaller, more and more confined to themselves. They turn a blind eye to other people's opinions, suggestions, feelings, and only focus on their own needs and desires. They can't seem to understand or accept other people's perspectives because they are completely immersed in their own world.
The deeper we engage with them, the more we feel the pain of their narcissism. Their self-centered attitude makes people feel neglected and forgotten. Their actions and words often make people feel offended and hurt. Their disdain for others makes us feel belittled and belittled.
Their narcissism, like an invisible sword, pierces into our hearts. We begin to feel upset about their behavior and disgusted by their attitude. We want them to be able to see our existence, to respect our feelings, to let go of their narcissism and to rediscover the world.
2. Negative type: The more you get along, the more you feel negative energy
The other kind of people, who always seem to be shrouded in an invisible haze, always carry a gloomy face whenever and wherever they are, as if the whole world owes them a smile. Their words are full of negative energy, and for everything, they can see the pessimistic side in it, and this negativity is like a virus that constantly erodes the hearts and minds of those around them.
At first, we may try to understand them and care about their feelings, but over time we begin to realize that this negative energy is not a force that can be easily resisted. Their pessimism is like an invisible burden, which makes people feel depressed and heavy. We begin to wonder if we have the same emotions and if we can be affected by this negative emotion as well.
The more time we spend with them, the more we can feel their pessimistic mood. This emotion is like an invisible pressure that makes people feel suffocated. We start to feel unbearable, and we start to want to escape from the clutches of this emotion.
Emotional Message:
On this colorful stage of life, we will always intertwine with all kinds of people. However, there are two kinds of people, and the more they get along, the more annoying they feel, as if it is an inevitable mental challenge.
Narcissistic self or negativity are like a thick fog that makes it difficult for people to see through the truth. In the face of such people, perhaps we need to learn to keep ourselves, stay positive, and keep an appropriate distance from them.
Life is too short, and we deserve to have good relationships, not to dwell on annoying relationships. May we maintain a clear heart and radiate the light of positive energy in this intricate life.
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