Recently, social networks have been flooded with a meme called "Teacher, my family Zihan". The origin of this meme is that a child was bitten by a mosquito, and the parents questioned the teacher about it, which triggered a series of hilarious online comments. In the past few years, almost all children have been called "Zihan", a name that has become very popular across the country. However, as time goes on, more and more parents start to pursue unique names, giving their children names that are too obscure or deliberately exaggerated, which leads to some students not being able to hold their heads up. This article will explain the reasons behind this phenomenon and its implications.
As we all know, the name "Zihan" used to be very popular on social networks, and parents have given their children this name, making children with the same name and surname emerge in endlessly. Some teachers even have to add numeric suffixes to each sub-han in order to avoid mistakes in roll call. This situation has caused some parents to realize that their child is not unique, so they have begun to change their minds and try to come up with a more unique name for their child.
However, the popularity of the new batch of names did not make the students proud, on the contrary, it made them feel heavy. Many parents like to give their children some obscure words, especially those that are difficult to write. Parents of the post-90s generation especially like to be different, and the more difficult the words to write, the more they like them. As a result, at the beginning of the new school year, the teachers were embarrassed to see six students on the roster whose names they did not know. In addition to rare characters, another popular trend is to give children pseudo-compound four-character names, and some even very exaggerated, such as naming "Glory of Kings", or "Tangerine Peel Plum Candy". Such a name makes students often ridiculed by their classmates and feel ashamed.
When parents choose a name for their child, they often only consider their own preferences and ignore all aspects of the student's future development. Some parents like to use rare characters to highlight the uniqueness of their children, but these words are not commonly used, and there are more strokes, which makes students face greater difficulties in the initial stage of writing. Students cry while writing and complain that their parents don't give them a simple, easy-to-write name, which not only breaks down students, but can also affect their enthusiasm for learning Xi to write.
In addition, some names have homophonic or even well-known stalks, which makes students often nicknamed by their classmates, which aggravates students' embarrassment and inferiority complex. The student's name should help them introduce themselves confidently and should not be a reason for them to feel ashamed.
When choosing a name for a child, parents need to take into account many factors rather than just personal preferences. Unusual characters and complex names may increase students' writing difficulties, homophonic stalks may cause students to be teased and ridiculed by their classmates, and names that are too unique may make students feel ashamed to introduce themselves. Therefore, parents should consider the child's future development and personality characteristics when choosing a name for their child, so as to avoid unnecessary distress and negative impact on the child.
A child's name is a gift from a parent and should be carefully considered. When choosing a name, parents should pay attention to the actual needs and psychological feelings of the student, and avoid being too deliberate in pursuing uniqueness and causing the student to be unable to hold his head up. A good name should be simple to understand, easy to write, representative of the student's personality and potential, and prideful for the student to introduce themselves. Only in this way will children be able to confidently face the challenges of the future and show what makes them unique.
As an editor, I am very interested in the topic of naming children. A name is a symbol of a person's identity and a starting point for communicating with others. An appropriate name takes into account both the student's personality and tastes, as well as social and cultural acceptance. Parents should respect their children's wishes and not put too much pressure on them when choosing a name. At the same time, it is also necessary to fully consider the child's academic Xi and social needs, and choose a name that is easy to write and can be loved by others. The most important thing is that giving your child a name that stands out from the crowd doesn't mean it makes them stand out in society. A child's true grades and moral character are the key to his future achievements. Therefore, parents should take a long-term view of their child's name, not too unique or maverick, but build on the child's healthy development and well-being. Choosing an ordinary and meaningful name will make your child feel more confident and proud as they grow up.