01: Mrs. Jin feels deeply guilty about the Zhou family.
Frankly speaking, until Hao Dongmei's mother passed away, I still couldn't really appreciate her cold attitude."
How can such a kinship be possible?
Although the daughter and son-in-law have been married for twenty or thirty years, as the man's parents, Zhou Zhigang and his wife did not see Hao Dongmei's parents until their death.
The Zhou family lives in a light word piece known as "dirty and messy", while the Hao family lives in a relative's villa in **. Both families were intellectuals. The gap between the two families you mentioned is indeed huge.
Even if you want to call Zhou Bingyi a "phoenix man", you can reluctantly accept it.
The Hao family's family background is really unbelievably high.
If there is a feeling of disparity and stress, then it may be enough to reduce the relationship, and it is really necessary to break ties so completely?
They lived in the same city, did not go to Zhou's house to meet Zhou Zhigang and his wife, nor did they invite people from the Zhou family to Hao's house. They had been in the city for a long time, and they knew that there were two people in this place, both old men who had been dead for many years. When he was still alive, he did not see what was on it.
When Zhou Zhigang and his wife died, the Hao family did not come to express their condolences. Such in-law relationships are really rare.
Even if he didn't see the Zhou family's parents, Zhou Bingyi's younger brother and sister never appeared. In the eyes of the members of the Hao family, everyone in the Zhou family, except for Zhou Bingyi, must meet every day.
The rest of the people are basically "flood beasts".
Zhou Bingkun has a close relationship with Mrs. Qu, and every third day of the Lunar New Year, he will be a guest at Mrs. Qu's home.
The Hao family is located next door to Mrs. Qu's house, which can be described as such that whenever Zhou Bingkun visits, Mrs. Jin will almost notice something.
However, there has never been face-to-face contact with Zhou Bingkun.
Not to mention inviting him to Hao's house for a cup of tea.
There is one episode that is particularly ironic, and that is the moment when Mrs. Kim enters her old age. She celebrated the Spring Festival with her daughter and son-in-law. On the third day of the Lunar New Year, Mrs. Jin, with the support of her daughter and son-in-law, strolled in her yard.
When I walked to the window of Mrs. Qu's house, I noticed that Zhou Bingkun, Mrs. Qu and Ma Shouchang were laughing and laughing, and the relationship was very close.
After Zhou Bingyi saw this scene, he half-jokingly complained: "This guy didn't say a word when he came."
When Mrs. Jin heard what her son-in-law said, she immediately responded:
It's because I don't want to be close to you and I don't want to walk into my house."
Whether it is Zhou Bingyi or Mrs. Jin, they have no position to blame Zhou Bingkun for being "ignorant".
Zhou Bingyi moved to the small bungalow of the Hao family and made some suggestions to Zhou BingkunDon't tell me, or let me go on my own. Unless there is something else, it is best not to walk through the door of the Hao family.
Mrs. Jin is in **.
Why is the relationship between Zhou Bingkun and you not close?
It's not just because you didn't see Zhou Zhigang and his wife when they were still alive. What's more important is that you don't know until they're dead. When they died, they did not go to mourn.
From the beginning to the end, you never showed the slightest closeness to the Zhou family.
You don't want to be in-laws with the Zhou family, considering that Zhou Bingkun cares about face very much, how could he take the initiative to approach?
Mrs. Kim's arrogant figure and "cold" attitude once made me have a strong dislike for this character.
Although Mrs. Qu and others are senior cadres, why can she establish a deep relationship with the public, and Mrs. Jin always finds it difficult to let go of her dignity in her interactions with her in-laws?
In every member of the Zhou family, whether it is Zhou Zhigang and his wife, or Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Rong's children, they are all people who are both cultivated and conscious
On days like these, it is understandable if the nature of the spleen is not fully understood.
Been here for a dozen to twenty years and still not sure?
However, until Mrs. Jin died, not a single member of the Zhou family appeared. Her sons and daughters did not see her for the last time. She felt deeply guilty about the Zhou family.
Throughout her life, Mrs. Jin has always been cautious in her words, focusing on both principles and discipline. In her opinion, she is an "honest person" and should not do anything bad. The last "exception" in Zhou Bingkun's life was in the last moment of his life, "relying on the old and selling the old" to intercede for him.
It was this "special case" that fully demonstrated her guilt towards the Zhou family.
02: Zhou Bingyi has complex feelings for his mother-in-law, who is known as the "guide", both love and hatred.
Zhou Bingyi once did something that I was extremely disgusted with.
Just as Zhou Zhigang and his wife died, Hao Dongmei made a suggestion to have her mother, Mrs. Jin, come to express her condolences.
However, in the face of his wife's suggestion, Zhou Bingyi unexpectedly immediately refused. "I don't like her attitude, she's too enthusiastic, she's too assertive. The reason behind his response is undoubtedly very "caring".
On this road, which is only a piece of light, vehicles cannot enter."
The temperature is too low, the mother's health is not good, and it makes no sense to force her to come and express her condolences".
I was really confused when I heard that.
When Mrs. Kim's parents were still alive, she did not come to meet them. Now that everyone has passed away, it would be impossible to put into words words if we did not come to express our condolences.
Despite Zhou Bingyi's insistent request, Mrs. Jin still did not come to express her condolences. Zhou Bingyi's response once made people feel extremely indifferent.
The Hao family inherited his filial piety almost completely.
His filial piety to his parents was nothing more than a verbal promise.
It wasn't until after the two episodes that I updated yesterday that I realized that at the moment of the death of my parents, Zhou Bingyi's "thoughtfulness" was actually the harshest "revenge" against Mrs. Jin.
In the plot updated yesterday, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei had a direct conflict for the first time after marriage because of professional problems.
The dispute that erupted, at first glance, appears to be a disagreement caused by a change in work between the two sides.
In fact, this is a "grudge" that has accumulated for twenty or thirty years.
Work is nothing more than a medium to light a flame.
Hao Dongmei complained that Zhou Bingyi never really cared about her emotions when making decisions. I grew up in her home, she said. In this family, she has always been the one who has been abandoned and neglected.
As for Zhou Bingyi?
However, this also reveals the "resentment" that has been hidden in his heart for decades.
Soon after his marriage, he moved to the Hao family and became a disguised inverted son-in-law."
Due to Cai Xiaoguang's problem, I asked Governor Hao for help, but I was used by him to play on the topic, and my attitude was cold and cold."
Until his parents died, they did not see their legendary in-laws as senior leaders."
The previous two had behaved quite well, but when Zhou Bingyi mentioned that his parents had not seen Mrs. Jin and his wife until they died, he was almost furious.
I feel a deep hatred for the cold attitude of Mrs. and Mrs. Kim.
I hate myself even more for being helpless.
He worked so hard at his work, even willing to sacrifice his body for the sake of work, more or less, he wanted to fight for his parents.
Since his parents were ordinary laborers, Mrs. Kim was always wary and distant from him.
If they are all **, then Mrs. Jin and her team may choose to never reunite with the Zhou family?
Zhou Bingyi saw the cold reception and prejudice suffered by his parents, and he hoped that through his political achievements, he would make his deceased parents proud and proud.
Zhou Bingyi has always adhered to a core belief, that is, not to disappoint his father and give him a reasonable explanation, which is also one of the most important creeds of his hard work.
After understanding Zhou Bingyi's true feelings, let's review why he didn't allow Mrs. Jin to mourn her parents in the first place.
Is this really out of "sympathy"?
This is not the case.
Obviously, this is an attitude of "resistance" and "non-acceptance".
He never saw anyone in his lifetime, but after his death, he still came to express his condolences, for whom?I think some people may be doing it for themselves. Does this really make sense?Does it make sense?The only possible purpose may be to make Mrs. Jin's heart feel more comfortable.
The level of guilt should be reduced.
Refusing Mrs. Jin to come to express her condolences is actually an act of "revenge" by Zhou Bingyi.
He hoped that his parents, both during their lifetime and after their death, would continue to maintain a tough attitude in front of their in-laws. I also hope that in Mrs. Jin's heart, she will feel even more guilty about the Zhou family.
For Mrs. Jin, she felt deeply guilty about every death of the Zhou family.
Zhou Bingyi is full of gratitude to Mrs. Jin's mother-in-law, but also has indescribable resentment.
03: Mrs. Jin's indifferent attitude towards the Zhou family, really misunderstood?
Mrs. Kim is a visionary woman.
From Feng Yue's experience, we can clearly feel this. She had only taken a small step and had already foreseen the impact of five or even ten steps.
Initially, I thought that she and Governor Hao did not see the Zhou family's family out of full precaution.
They are afraid of some kind of "connection" with the workers in general, so they start to constantly look for unfair ways, and all kinds of headaches await them.
This is a violation of discipline. "This is a classic plot in "Dream of Red Mansions". In real life, "helpers" seem to have become a common phenomenon, and some units also regard helping employees solve difficulties as an important task. But it often backfires. If you don't help, it will hurt the feelings between relatives. If you do this, you should choose not to meet each other instead of doing so.
However, as the storyline gradually deepened, until the finale approached, I finally deeply understood Mrs. Jin's "cold" attitude from Zhou Bingkun's "dilemma".
For Zhou Bingkun, having an older brother who serves as mayor is a good thing or a bad thing?
In the play, Zhou Bingkun is an honest and kind-hearted character, and he always behaves very sincerely when interacting with people.
Around him, friends like Xiao Guoqing, Sun Catch-up and Chang Jinjin all have similar personalities and characteristics. However, Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao constitute a unique example.
These two are not just greedy.
The size of the heart's eye is even smaller than a needle.
In the play, Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao were hostile to Zhou Bingkun twice. For the first time, the Women's Federation decided to take back the house, but Zhou Bingkun did not intercede with Zhou Bingyi for her.
This is the second time, Qiao Chunyan is ** because of her relationship with Mr. Qin, Cao Debao has a deep hatred for Zheng Juan and does not express it to Zhou Bingyi.
As the saying goes, "The husband is not guilty, but he is guilty", in Zhou Bingkun's view, this is also the same logic.
Zhou Bingkun's brother was the mayor, but in some people's opinion, he is seen as "original sin."
Xiao Guoqing, Sun Catch-up and others can understand the predicament faced by Zhou Bingkun and can clearly distinguish between right and wrong. However, not every friend and every relative is able to fully understand this.
Qiao Chunyan and Cao Debao, for example, already own a home, and their parents are eligible for another according to the demolition policy.
However, she was not satisfied and still wanted to own a home.
In order to pursue more housing, Qiao Chunyan can choose not to pursue face, but also choose not to pursue substance, and even sometimes emotionally oppresses Zhou Bingkun.
Seeing that Hong and Chang Jinjin were both assigned to their respective rooms, their relationship became even more tense, and they even openly clashed with Zhou Bingyi.
If something soft doesn't suit, choose a hard one.
This is the true face of people like Qiao Chunyan.
The reason why they have a grudge against Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Bingyi is precisely because "they can take a hand, but they don't stretch out."
However, Qiao Chunyan never expected that Zhou Bingkun would help surpass and support Yu Hong, and Zhou Bingyi provided a room for Yu Hong and Chang Jinjin, which was undoubtedly a life-saving means!
More importantly, all procedures are reasonable and more legal.
But what about her?
Which request did not violate discipline?
When faced with this type of friend, Zhou Bingkun felt very embarrassed. His altercation with Cao Debao and Qiao Chunyan was not surprising.
If you have a biological brother who is the mayor and it is difficult to be such a person, what if you have an in-laws who become the governor?
It wasn't until this moment that I truly understood the deep meaning of Mrs. Jin. If she had originally had a marriage engagement with the Zhou family, she did not appear as "official" and deliberately kept her distance.
In that Zhou family, the daily life of Zhou's father and Zhou's mother can still be so peaceful?
Maybe it's not this one time today, but the one tomorrow. According to Zhou's father's knowledge and understanding, he undoubtedly unanimously refused.
Despite the increased frequency of rejections, this relationship between the family and the neighbors remains so harmonious?Her parents could only reluctantly accept it. Moreover, every refusal made Zhou's father and mother feel very embarrassed.
In contrast, due to Mrs. Jin's cold attitude, she did not meet the Zhou family during her lifetime, and she did not express condolences after her death, which made the Zhou family very rare because of the trouble caused by Governor Hao, a member of the family.
At least, when the number of episodes of the TV series reached 56, what made Zhou Bingkun feel embarrassed was only his brother Zhou Bingyi's role as mayor.
It was only at this moment that I fully realized that Mrs. Jin was actually playing the role of a "bad guy" in exchange for the tranquility of the two families.
Qiao Chunyan's farce brought an opportunity for Mrs. Jin to "redress her grievances".