In interpersonal interactions, we often encounter people who are arrogant and have low self-esteem. Arrogant people tend to be confident and feel good about themselves, while people with low self-esteem often lack self-confidence and have a low sense of self-worth. However, from a psychological point of view, people with arrogance can be saved, while people with low self-esteem have difficulty finding true salvation.
First of all, arrogant people usually have a certain amount of self-confidence and self-esteem. They have a high opinion of their abilities and values, and this self-confidence can stimulate their potential and motivate them to constantly strive for improvement. Arrogant people tend to take risks and challenges, and they believe that they can overcome difficulties and achieve success. Therefore, arrogant people are saved to some extent, as long as they can maintain a moderate level of self-confidence and not be blindly arrogant, they will be able to achieve a certain amount on the road of life.
However, arrogant people are also prone to extremes. When self-confidence is over-inflated, they ignore the opinions and suggestions of others, become opinionated, and are reluctant to accept criticism and setbacks. This overconfidence can lead to their inability to adjust their mindset in time in the face of difficulties and failures, and thus fall into trouble. Therefore, arrogant people need to learn to be humble and introspective, and always maintain a sense of respect and reverence for others in order to truly achieve self-redemption.
In contrast, people with low self-esteem have a hard time finding true salvation. People with low self-esteem often lack confidence in themselves, believing that they are incompetent and useless, and this negative mindset can seriously affect their actions and decisions. People with low self-esteem are often afraid to face challenges and difficulties, and they would rather choose to run away and give up than bravely meet the challenges. This negative mindset deprives them of opportunities to grow and progress, and they fall into a vicious circle from which they cannot extricate themselves.
To help people with low self-esteem out of difficult situations, they first need to be helped to build self-confidence. This requires us to care for and support them from the bottom of our hearts, and give them positive encouragement and affirmation. At the same time, we can help them discover their strengths and potential, so that they realize their value. In addition, we can also improve their self-esteem and self-confidence by nurturing their hobbies and skills.
However, it is not easy to completely redeem a person with low self-esteem. Because the root of low self-esteem is often the psychological trauma and negative emotions deep inside. These traumas and emotions require a long period of time and psychological counseling to gradually disappear. In this process, we need to give enough patience and support to people with low self-esteem to help them gradually come out of the shadows and regain their self-confidence.
In short, the arrogant person can be saved, but the inferior person can hardly get real salvation. Arrogant people need to learn to be humble and introspective, and to maintain a moderate level of self-confidence;People with low self-esteem need our love and support to help them build self-confidence and get out of difficult situations. Only in this way can we achieve true harmony and communion in our interpersonal interactions.