It is often said that there is no better scenery than in memory. This sentence may be a little sad, but it speaks to a common psychological phenomenon. When we miss the good old days, we often feel that those experiences and scenery have become more beautiful in our memories. However, should we take the same attitude towards the act of revisiting?
First of all, we need to make it clear that the beauty of the scenery in memories is largely due to the fact that we selectively extract the beautiful fragments when recalling, and ignore the shortcomings in them. This selective recollection gives us a tendency to glorify past experiences. However, when we actually return to that place, we may find that the reality is far from the image in our memory, and we may even feel disappointed and depressed. This is because we can't go back in time and experience that pure beauty again.
Second, revisiting the old places can ruin our fond memories of the past. When we return to where we once were, we may find that something has changed dramatically, or we can no longer find the familiar feeling we once had. This change can make us feel lost and confused, and it can even take a toll on our hearts. In contrast, keeping good memories of the past can give us a sense of comfort and satisfaction in our hearts.
In addition, revisiting the old place can also make us stuck in the past. When we return to the place we once were, we may unconsciously recall the bits and pieces of the past, which may leave us stuck in endless memories and unable to extricate ourselves. This act of over-dwelling in the past can affect our acceptance of reality and our outlook for the future. Therefore, it is not a wise choice to visit the old place.
Of course, that's not to say we should give up on revisiting the old places entirely. In some cases, revisiting the same place can be unexpected. For example, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks in real life, returning to where we once used to be may allow us to regain our courage and confidence. In addition, revisiting the old place allows us to better understand our own growth and change, so that we can better face the challenges of the future.
In conclusion, while memories of scenery are often considered beautiful, revisiting the old place is not always the best choice. We should learn to cherish and protect those good memories, instead of trying to find the shadow of the past by revisiting the old place. At the same time, we should also be brave enough to face the reality and strive to create new good memories so that life can be full of sunshine and hope.