Vinny Sha Tu Nisha.
The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. ”
Dealing with the world is an esoteric knowledge that requires us to continue to cultivate and comprehend.
Today, I'm here to teach you a few unspoken rules for living in the world, hoping to help you be more calm and steady on the road of life.
1. Endure small things and avoid unnecessary disputes.
Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. ”
In life, we will inevitably encounter some trivial things, such as being misunderstood, being wronged, etc.
At this time, if we can endure and not lose our temper easily, we can often avoid a lot of unnecessary disputes and conflicts.
My old friend Lao Li is a typical example. He has a gentle personality, always laughs at small things, and never cares about people. Therefore, his popularity is particularly good, and everyone is willing to make friends with him.
Second, major events must be stable and calmly respond to challenges.
Mount Tai collapsed in front and the color remained unchanged, and the elk was on the left and the eyes were not instantaneous. ”
In the face of major events in life, such as unemployment, serious illness, death of a loved one, etc., we need to maintain a calm and stable mind. Only then will we be able to make informed decisions and get through the storm.
My relative, Aunt Zhang, is such a person. When she learned that she was seriously ill, she did not panic or despair, but actively cooperated with the doctor** and maintained an optimistic attitude. In the end, she successfully overcame the disease and regained her life.
3. Respect others and win the respect of others.
Do unto others as you would have them do to you. ”
Respect for others is a fundamental principle of human life. Only when we respect others can we earn the respect of others.
My colleague Xiao Wang is a person who knows how to respect others. Whether it is to leaders, colleagues or subordinates, he is always polite and humble. As a result, he is loved and respected by everyone in the company.
Fourth, be good at communication and resolve interpersonal conflicts.
Words are not speculative for more than half a sentence. ”
In interpersonal communication, communication is crucial. A person who is good at communication is often able to resolve many interpersonal conflicts and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
My neighbor Xiao Zhao is a master communicator. Whenever he has a conflict with his family or neighbors, he always finds the right way and language to resolve the problem, so that the relationship can be repaired and even become more harmonious. This is due to the fact that he is usually good at listening and expressing, and can think from the other person's point of view.
Fifth, thank you and maintain interpersonal relationships.
The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring. ”
In interpersonal communication, gratitude is a virtue and an effective way to maintain interpersonal relationships.
A friend of mine, Xiao Li, is such a person. He always remembers the good of others and will double the reward whenever he has the opportunity.
Such a quality has earned him a high reputation in the circle of friends, and everyone is willing to associate with him and become his friends.
6. Stay humble and keep improving.
Full of losses and humble benefits. ”
It is very important to maintain a humble attitude towards others. A humble person who is able to humbly learn from others, constantly reflect and improve.
One of my elders is such a person. Although he has achieved a high level of achievement, he still maintains a humble heart and constantly learns new knowledge to improve himself.
This has enabled him to continue to make new breakthroughs in his career and win everyone's respect and respect.
The above are the 6 unspoken rules I have summarized for you.
Of course, these rules are not static, but we need to apply them flexibly according to the specific situation.
At the same time, we must also continue to cultivate our hearts and improve our quality and character.
Only in this way can we move forward more calmly and steadily on the road of life.