When I was 62 years old, I was always looking forward to my old mother leaving soon. This does not mean that I am callous, but because it is too difficult to take care of a seriously ill elderly person for a long time. My name is Guo Chunhua, and I have four brothers and sisters in my family, the eldest brother, the second brother, me and the younger sister.
My father died in an accident 25 years ago, and my mother was only 67 years old at the time. After my mother lost her mobility, she first took turns to go to the house of her two elder brothers, and our sisters contributed 500 yuan every month.
After my mother lost her mobility, she first took turns to go to the house of her two elder brothers, and our sisters contributed 500 yuan every month. The mother began to lose her memory, and she also beat and scolded her two older brothers. The sister-in-law left her eldest brother and went to her nephew's house to live alone.
The second brother and sister-in-law also canceled their plans to go to their daughter's house in Beijing because of their mother. The eldest brother almost died of a cerebral thrombosis due to overwork from taking care of his mother. Mother is getting mader and mader, and no one can serve her. I wanted to send her to a nursing home, but I didn't want to take her in.
In the end, the two elder brothers handed over their mother to our sisters, each contributing 2,000 yuan a month. After taking care of our mother, we not only had to feed us with food and medicine every day, but also had to take feces and urine, bathe and massage, endure our mother's bad temper and madness, and were often beaten and scolded by her.
Since we started taking care of our mother, my sister and I have lost our freedom. My mental and physical condition is getting worse day by day, and I have several diseases in my 60s. Looking at my mother's mental state, I really didn't want her to live too long, so I wanted her to leave early.