Many people mistakenly believe that a good man should pamper a woman unconditionally and regard her as a treasure. However, this perception often leads to the loss of their cherished feelings for many men. Unconditionally spoiling will only make the other party become uncherished by their own contributions, therefore, for feelings, you must have your own bottom line, and you can't blindly get used to women.
In this regard, Liu ChengheWang NaThe case is typical. When Liu ChengheWang NaWhen married, theirMarriageAlmost no one is optimistic. After all, Liu Cheng's family is poor, andWang NaBut it's a rich girl. But Liu Zheng made an oath that he would be rightWang NaGood. After marriage,Wang NaBecoming an all-inclusive wife, Liu Cheng met all her needs smoothly. He took the initiative to cook at home, even forWang NaSpecially prepared meals are delivered to the company. The people around them are envious of themMarriage, but forWang NaLife seems to have become boring. She started chatting with netizens on the Internet, but she didn't expect to talk about her feelings with a person.
Liu Cheng has always believedWang NaI was just interacting with the customer, so I didn't care, or even didWang NaHave a spare phone so she can talk to customers in a timely manner. However, what he didn't expect was thatWang NaThe heart has been thrown into the arms of others. Although Liu Cheng found out about the problem and askedWang NaCut off contact with the other personWang Naalso agreed, but as time went on, their feelings warmed up again. Eventually,Wang Nafiled for divorce and never looked back. Although Liu Cheng tried his best to save the relationship, he could not change itWang NaWayward and stubborn decisions. He began to wonder why he was rightWang NaSo good but failed?Eventually, he realized that it might all be because he was overindulgent and spoiled for a long timeWang NaofExtramarital affairs
Women dareExtramarital affairs, in fact, to a large extent, men are used to it. Over-pampering and unconditional giving can only make the other person dependent, which can lead to boredom in feelings and a desire for novelty. When a man is overly kind to a woman, the woman will become inch-in, because there is no challenge and danger, and the relationship becomes boring. Therefore, in a relationship, we must learn to guide the other person's giving, so that the other party desires and cherishes the relationship. If the man is blindly good to the woman, then the woman will gradually lose interest in the relationship. If you want a woman to know how to cherish, you can't make her feel that everything is taken for granted.
In a relationship, a man needs to learn to be a wise person and know how to guide the other person's giving. You must maintain your bottom line and not accommodate everything. When the other party feels their persistence and independence, they will cherish and give more. We might as well refer to some successful examples, such as:Zhao Benshanand celebrity couples like Faye Wong. Zhao Benshandoes not spoil Faye Wong, his humor and persistence make Faye Wong dependent on and love him. In relationships, wisdom and persistence are the magic weapons of a man's success.